Ladies would you date a man who doesnt/barely fasts?

[Desert Flower]

Desert flower has extreme lines and no compromise, she’s a divorce waiting to happen. You cannot control the behaviours of grown adults.

@ me next time. I can’t “compromise” on the deen. Those matters are black and white. If you’re offended about what I stand for, then that’s a you problem.

No you can’t control the behaviours of grown adults so you know what you do? You leave them alone and find someone else which is what I’ve suggested.

And don’t worry about me walaal, there are plenty of women willing to bend over and accommodate your needs and desires, even at the cost of their own akhirah. Go find them and leave me be. It’s Ramadan and I don’t wish to argue.

 

[elite1337]

I'm one hella a gaal and fasted for 48/50 days last year kkkk.
Am I a muslim now?

well when you live with your parents you dont really have a choice but to fast do you

 

[cawaale]

@ me next time. I can’t “compromise” on the deen. Those matters are black and white. If you’re offended about what I stand for, then that’s a you problem.

No you can’t control the behaviours of grown adults so you know what you do? You leave them alone and find someone else which is what I’ve suggested.

And don’t worry about me walaal, there are plenty of women willing to bend over and accommodate your needs and desires, even at the cost of their own akhirah. Go find them and leave me be.

And you wonder why I didn’t @ you, la xowla wala quwata ila bila, there was no need for the personal attacks.

It’s easy to walk out in the talking stage but what are you going to do once married with kids and he’s tired of faking it. Like I said, you’re a divorce waiting to happen, another group of kids growing up without their father cause mummy wanted to police her husband.

 

[4head]

well when you live with your parents you dont really have a choice but to fast do you

Alx they are all gaals
We are tolerant people.

 

[Desert Flower]

And you wonder why I didn’t @ you, la xowla wala quwata ila bila, there was no need for the personal attacks.

It’s easy to walk out in the talking stage but what are you going to do once married with kids and he’s tired of faking it. Like I said, you’re a divorce waiting to happen, another group of kids growing up without their father cause mummy wanted to police her husband.

Don’t even bother because you’re on my ignore list anyways.

Keep to the topic at hand, which is would you date a person who does not fast, or barely fasts. If we were talking marriage, I’d have provided you with a different answer. You’re grasping at straws to make a point.

You’re also the one bringing up talks of divorce, as if that’s somehow shameful. Allah made it halal for a reason.

Just say you hate women and go.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

That's one of the things I'd ask about in the early stages so unless he has a medical reason not to fast it's a dealbreaker.

 

[elite1337]

imagine having your wife make the food and youre not even fasting scummy

 

[Hali]

@Amazonian and his trick questions
No cos dating is haraam
And everyone can change

 

[Mukhy]

 

[Amazonian]

Red flags galore. I’d ask if he prays and fasts. If Ramadan were to come around and he’s not fasting the first day, I’m out.

I get people who can’t fast for other reasons. If he’s in that category than that’s also a no (it suggests he may have health issues).

Aahey. I agree
If there are no health risks there shouldnt be a reason for anyone to miss Ramadan. I know a few guys who who show up to Eid prayers not having fasted a single day. They'll tell you waa Muslim and most of them are actually great people. Some will even tell you they want a religious woman

 

[Amazonian]

0 votes so far because there are like 5 actual women here and everyone else is a troll

 

[Angelina]

Athoubillah.

Wa waax inkaar qabo.

Uff

 

[Amazonian]

No one is perfect. You don’t dump people at the first sign of imperfection. I think people are redeemable except for violence, bad temper or psychopathy prone individuals. Also I think severe addiction of any type you should stir away from but we all have faults and I think fasting is one that can be easily resolved. If he wants to change and can picture himself fasting then why not give him a chance. If he’s adamant that he will never fast...that’s a huge problem and a dealbreaker.

Haye let me rephrase the question.
The guy tells you hes been suffering with self control for a long time and always finds himself eating a burger even tho hes supposed to be fasting.

Are you gonna baby step him or are you walking away?

 

[Amazonian]

@Amazonian and his trick questions
No cos dating is haraam
And everyone can change

Imagine catching your husband drinking a smoothie in his car. You good with that?

 

[@shininglight]

He's gonna have to make iftar and suhur every single day of Ramadan,only deal,take it or leave it

 

[Amazonian]

That's one of the things I'd ask about in the early stages so unless he has a medical reason not to fast it's a dealbreaker.

Keep in mind men lie in order to get what they want. Alot of guys will tell you exactly what you wanna hear so theres really nothing you can do until you move in with somebody.

Some of them be munching on burritos from sunrise to sunset and will still show up to Iftar like they havent ate anything all day

 

[jiini]

Alx they are all gaals
We are tolerant people.

Your parents are gaal too?

 

[jiini]

Haye let me rephrase the question.
The guy tells you hes been suffering with self control for a long time and always finds himself eating a burger even tho hes supposed to be fasting.

Are you gonna baby step him or are you walking away?

Okay now that you've added that. HELL NO! What happened to self control? & eww who eats burgers

 

[Amazonian]

So, essentially, you're asking if they would date a murtad, right?

Somewhere in the middle it seems like

 

[Amazonian]

So he’s not fasting because of hunguri?