Ladies this is why you can't have a guy as best friend

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I wholeheartedly believe that , if you’re attractive, there’s no way a guy can be just a friend.

He will go along with your own delusional believe that he is your best-friend. He is always waiting for you to be at your weakest point.

I honestly had females call me bestfriend. One point or another I made love to them. One was practically a good friend with benefits. She use to call me down when she was in heat.
Another time this other chick that was close friend of mine and who we use to hangout so much got jealous one fateful day. She noticed me salivating over some other xalimos who came into an establishment. She all of sudden turned to me and said “let’s go”. We went straight to a hotel.
I've avoided your crazy self for the near ten years that I've known you. Despite your many trips to Canada. Not because I'm scared but because you talk too much. :drakekidding:There is nothing more exhausting than a gossipy man. I'm surprised you get women considering you're more talkative/loquacious than them. Mr. Daily Enquirer. We are like complete opposites.
I don't eat waffles unless they are grain-free.
 

Mercury

Ha igu daalinee dantaada raac
VIP
She didn't want them to leave her side, for the possibilities to stay possible. I broke it off with my gf cos of my alcoholism recently, I knew she deserved better but it still hurts you know. Guess I gotta combat this issue of mine.
This is why she was a red flag only time you can be in touch with an ex is if you got a valid reason like a kid but stay in touch just to hear how they doing bullshit
 

Radical

Joined: 2025
Of course they can. This type of immature segregation fosters toxic ideas about the people. If a platonic relationship can never exist, and since fornication is a grave sin, you are essentially alienated from the opposite gender, until marriage is feasible ofc, but even then you're allowed to only have affable interactions with only one (four if you're male) of them.

If a person is isolated from a group he/she can never comprehend their thoughts, emotions or behaviors. Thus losing empathy for them. And with lack of empathy comes lack of sympathy, which means dehumanizing, or inventing your own toxic assumptions to fill that isolated void (e.g woman are timid/emotional/superficial etc). Essentially turning them into a caricature.
Just look at the middle east and their rampant misogyny and harassment, even the disgusting amount of rapes in India.

People are meant to socialize, express who they are by sharing experiences and befriending one another. This is the human part. Suppressing it does more harm than good.
 
This thread is madness, of course you can have best friends of other sex without getting attached to the person. :gucciwhat: I have plenty females who are my friends and nothing else.
 

Grigori Rasputin

Former Somali Minister of Mismanagement & Misinfo.
Staff Member
Wariyaha SomaliSpot
I've avoided your crazy self for the near ten years that I've known you. Despite your many trips to Canada. Not because I'm scared but because you talk too much. :drakekidding:There is nothing more exhausting than a gossipy man. I'm surprised you get women considering you're more talkative/loquacious than them. Mr. Daily Enquirer. We are like complete opposites.

I don't eat waffles unless they are grain-free.

I have not given any clue to my former females.

I urge you to give us a chance.
 
Of course they can. This type of immature segregation fosters toxic ideas about the people. If a platonic relationship can never exist, and since fornication is a grave sin, you are essentially alienated from the opposite gender, until marriage is feasible ofc, but even then you're allowed to only have affable interactions with only one (four if you're male) of them.

If a person is isolated from a group he/she can never comprehend their thoughts, emotions or behaviors. Thus losing empathy for them. And with lack of empathy comes lack of sympathy, which means dehumanizing, or inventing your own toxic assumptions to fill that isolated void (e.g woman are timid/emotional/superficial etc). Essentially turning them into a caricature.
Just look at the middle east and their rampant misogyny and harassment, even the disgusting amount of rapes in India.

People are meant to socialize, express who they are by sharing experiences and befriending one another. This is the human part. Suppressing it does more harm than good.
This is all waffle and conjecture
 
Based on your past posts your opinion is obsolete.
Although I still agree with you men and woman can be friends without any underlying feelings I still do not take your opinion seriously because it's coming from you.
Wtf is that suppose to mean? Past posts? War yaa ilahey yaqaan :gucciwhat: :dead:
 

vanilla

i think with my heart
I can actually be friends with someone I have feelings for. Just because I like someone, it doesn't mean I wana pursue em. Is nice talking to them I guess but I wont necessarily last after them.
 

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