Translation without any sugar coating:you can find a submissive woman anywhere. she may not be inherently submissive to you but if you win her over she will be, thats how the odayaal used to win over the most beautiful women who turned them down.
in terms of keeping a man its really about your character and vice versa. no one wants a lazy useless woman or a abusive good for nothing man. apart from that you can always find a common ground and coexist in peace.
Women are objects to be used as you please. If they reject you, keep bothering them because as we all know women's value comes primarily from their willingness to offer men access to them, as a man you are justified in forcibly acquiring access to women(i.e. rape and sexual harassment) because that's how the old men used to get women who rejected their advances.
P.S. It's interesting you also use verbs like 'find' for women and more humanizing verbs like 'keep' for men. You have proven all of @Angelina 's points.