Stopped dating way back after the novelty of being on a date wore off and fully embraced the cityboy life, then having spent so many years only seeing girls in bars, hotels, parties, in my car etc and occasionally having a girls number soldiering a 30-1hr convo, all i learnt from that was perfecting the strategy throughout the few hours i'm with them 
it's 40% body language, 40% banter, 10% pleasantries and 10% flirting.
Once i kept a fling going, some of the banter cuts down to be replaced with damage control cos she'll start asking questions about where this is going.
Sometimes you'll even get ghosted
But don't get me started on the spontaneous one night linkups, i was like a fox in the box, still had the sauce
Anyways i sed enough is enough, been dating again since and i learnt a lot about myself and gain a perspective. Now I'll go on a link and not check my phone all day. Even going for dinner sounds appealing now, alxamdulilah, i'd take @Muji to Hakkasan, i know she likes Chinese Food
Moral of the story, don't waste your years chasing skirts or you'll be forced to go Vegan to impress these new age girls
it's 40% body language, 40% banter, 10% pleasantries and 10% flirting.Once i kept a fling going, some of the banter cuts down to be replaced with damage control cos she'll start asking questions about where this is going.
Sometimes you'll even get ghosted
But don't get me started on the spontaneous one night linkups, i was like a fox in the box, still had the sauce
Anyways i sed enough is enough, been dating again since and i learnt a lot about myself and gain a perspective. Now I'll go on a link and not check my phone all day. Even going for dinner sounds appealing now, alxamdulilah, i'd take @Muji to Hakkasan, i know she likes Chinese Food
Moral of the story, don't waste your years chasing skirts or you'll be forced to go Vegan to impress these new age girls
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