I'm glad we came to an agreement. As for the malab thread, I have no idea and I haven't seen it. I'm not on SSPOT a lot.Nah, I agree with your overall message.
I'm talking about sspot and how suprisingly, men do not advice each other. Where was the advice for the thread about 'different malabs' or whatever the thread is/called.
......crickets.....
All I am saying is be consistent.
Anyways, have a good day.
But you don't see me giving advice to females or males on SSPOT. The thing I'm trying to say is that men tend to accept advice more often than females do in the Somali community. I ain't trying to be a sheikh on this website or nothing.
My goal is to crush this "it's between them and Allah" narrative. I've seen Somali women use it a lot to defend gays etc. Their intention is good, but they're just misinformed.
I have also seen Somali men use it sometimes to defend themselves when they commit zina for example. So this applies to both genders.
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