Is wrong to tell your wife to delete Instagram or put it in private

[Leeban]

There’s no net benefit and it’s a fitnah why does she need to post out of herself as a Muslim woman for the world to see

A respectable Muslim wife and mother of your kids does need that attention

 

[Caaro]

the real question is what should you do if she refused? You can ask her to do whatever you want, the only thing that matters is her response and your response to that.

This is honestly such a dry question, so simple. Don’t even think it’s worth a debate.

 

[bobsburger]

Bro if she has insta during marriage........

 

[Leeban]

the real question is what should you do if she refused? You can ask her to do whatever you want, the only thing that matters is her response and your response to that.

This is honestly such a dry question, so simple. Don’t even think it’s worth a debate.

do you think she should say yes ?

 

[Caaro]

do you think she should say yes ?

Yes, she should.

I don’t know a single girl who has a public ig who isn’t for the streets

 

[Villainess]

Bro if she has insta during marriage........View attachment 161382

I want to post my family growth and cute couple pics

 

[bobsburger]

I want to post my family growth and cute couple pics

beware of evil eye and envious people.

 

[Revolutionary]

At least keep it to private

 

[Villainess]

beware of evil eye and envious people.

lol I was joking

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[Mercury]

There’s no net benefit and it’s a fitnah why does she need to post out of herself as a Muslim woman for the world to see

A respectable Muslim wife and mother of your kids does need that attention

if you trust your wife why does her social media bother you?

 

[Leeban]

if you trust your wife why does her social media bother you?

I don’t trust her

 

[jabsveg276]

There’s no net benefit and it’s a fitnah why does she need to post out of herself as a Muslim woman for the world to see

A respectable Muslim wife and mother of your kids does need that attention

She should go private, just for friends and family to see.

 

[bobsburger]

lol I was joking

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Are you a reer baadiyo woman? If not then NO!

 

[Angelina]

Firstly , in that sitution you only have yourself to blame. You knew before marrying her, that her instagram account is public. Social media and how one feels about it, is a question people talk about in the talking stage, let alone the stage in which you decide to marry the person.


I have no sympathy for such a man. The only excuse is if the wife decided to randomly be more public with her social media after marriage.

But my overall point is that this isn't a conversation someone has after marriage, its a conversation you have well before putting a ring on her.

 

[Leeban]

Firstly , in that sitution you only have yourself to blame. You knew before marrying her, that her instagram account is public. Social media and how one feels about it, is a question people talk about in the talking stage, let alone the stage in which you decide to marry the person.


I have no sympathy for such a man. The only excuse is if the wife decided to randomly be more public with her social media after marriage.

But my overall point is that this isn't a conversation someone has after marriage, its a conversation you have well before putting a ring on her.

She never told me she had a Instagram and she presented herself as very steadfast on religion

 

[Regg]

Be depressed for this reason and see if she cares about you.

If she doesn’t then I have some bad news.

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

this one is hard warya, attention-seeking and clout chasing is xalimoid favourite sport....

 

[Abdisamad]

I want to post my family growth and cute couple pics

Don't.. You'll get the evil eye.

 

[مسافر]

She never told me she had a Instagram and she presented herself as very steadfast on religion

It is narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: He who deceives is not of me (is not my follower)

Sahih Muslim 102

I'd seek the advice of a scholar, you might be able to divorce such an individual because this could render the marriage contract null and void.

But to answer your question - no it's not wrong to ask her this simple request.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

It should be private. I don't understand why someone would feel comfortable with random strangers seeing them online. This should also apply to faraxs who post shirtless pics after doing workouts. It's not appropriate and I dislike the double standards.