Is this true?

[Mercury]

Its ceeb for a male to visit a female cousin whose married

 

[Sophisticate]

Never heard of this.

 

[Material]

Never heard of this.

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[butANumba]

Create extra unnecessary restrictions and say its part of our faith rinse and repeat.

 

[Xaruun]

They’re non-mahram so...

Never heard of this.

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You can’t trust male cousins. Even your brother could be blowing your wife’s back out. Don’t trust noone

 

[Zoobear]

Are you randomly showing up unannounced or were you called and visiting for a reason? I agree it's ceeb unless you're a woman yourself, a kid or bringing your own kids.

 

[Mercury]

Never heard of this.

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ok thats bit weird

 

[Mercury]

Are you randomly showing up unannounced or were you called and visiting for a reason? I agree it's ceeb unless you're a woman yourself, a kid or bringing your own kids.

well im In Hargeisa now been here for few days I visit as many relatives as possible I dont show up unannounced I call ahead and see if its ok with them after I visited a female cousin whose married I was told its ceeb for a guy to visit female cousins who are married and ive never heard about this and was wondering if others in here have heard of this rule

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Islamically yes, if you think of it? You can marry your cousin.

 

[Mercury]

Islamically yes, if you think of it? You can marry your cousin.

the thought of marrying them is weird I see them as sisters

 

[akaA2]

well im In Hargeisa now been here for few days I visit as many relatives as possible I dont show up unannounced I call ahead and see if its ok with them after I visited a female cousin whose married I was told its ceeb for a guy to visit female cousins who are married and ive never heard about this and was wondering if others in here have heard of this rule

Yeah thats true.

 

[Redsand]

Not even cousin, its ceeb visiting your married sisters house. Maybe eid or if she is sick is ok

 

[trucel]

Yall some dogs

 

[Angelina]

well im In Hargeisa now been here for few days I visit as many relatives as possible I dont show up unannounced I call ahead and see if its ok with them after I visited a female cousin whose married I was told its ceeb for a guy to visit female cousins who are married and ive never heard about this and was wondering if others in here have heard of this rule

I fail to see how that is a problem provided her husband is in the house as well. It doesn't very Somali but more like Arab culture tbh.

 

[Xaruun]

I fail to see how that is a problem provided her husband is in the house as well. It doesn't very Somali but more like Arab culture tbh.

Arab culture isn’t a monolith. A lot of Arabs freemix.

 

[Angelina]

Arab culture isn’t a monolith. A lot of Arabs freemix.

They freemix a lot less than us, well Gulf Arabs anyway. It is ceeb in their culture for a woman to even initiate a salam to her own cousin if she sees him down the street. In Somali culture, if I was to see my couisn walking obviously i'd say hi and it would be weird for me not to.

 

[Xaruun]

They freemix a lot less than us, well Gulf Arabs anyway. It is ceeb in their culture for a woman to even initiate a salam to her own cousin if she sees him down the street. In Somali culture, if I was to see my couisn walking obviously i'd say hi and it would be weird for me not to.

Gulf Arabs aren’t all arabs though. In NA non-mahrams greet by kissing each other on the cheek.

 

[jabsveg276]

Its ceeb for a male to visit a female cousin whose married

Huh?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Why would visiting your married blood relative be ceeb?

 

[KawhiLeonard]

yes it is.

cousin is halal to marry. so essentially she is treated like nay other woman. its like visiting a random married woman.