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Guts

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Ahh I had a feeling you were in high school. Some teens just feel a bit anxious around authority or older ppl.
Best way to get rid of this, is by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations enough times until you get comfortable. Just greet and talk to them, so you lose that fear.
And for your stuff you're checking, tell yourself it's not a big deal ifyou lose it.
I know its not a big deal but cant help myself. Thanks for the help brotha
 
I do this before i leave the house. Its a good habit to have imo. I never forget anything :manny:
i do a mental check in my head for everything 5 times before i leave the house. I always triple check if the doors locked as well.

But the police thing:browtf: cant relate.
 

Guts

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I do this before i leave the house. Its a good habit to have imo. I never forget anything :manny:
i do a mental check in my head for everything 5 times before i leave the house. I always triple check if the doors locked as well.

But the police thing:browtf: cant relate.
So yesterday night i decided to cook something like 3 am in the night, when i was done cooking i checked if the stove was off about 6 times. I lay down in my bed and i get up to check another time.
:jcoleno:
 
So yesterday night i decided to cook something like 3 am in the night, when i was done cooking i checked if the stove was off about 6 times. I lay down in my bed and i get up to check another time.
:jcoleno:
Do you pray salah?
Are you a masturbator ?
Do you perform ghusl ?
 
I can relate with your paranoia. I close the door and check a hundred times, when I put the hob off I come back to the kitchen a good three times to double check and the worst one is when I double check that my purse is in my bag. Once I was on a flight and I was anxious for a few hours, worried that someone would nick my bag above me when we touch down.
 
I tried but it didn't work
So I'll say this
Now genetically speakING you have to try to pray sxb because otherwise you're food for the wolves amongst 5br shayateen

Now as far as this situation...I want you to take a water bottle or cup and recite fatiha 100 times (oR 1000 if you have the patience) after each time spit in the water without spitting in it (if that makes sense ) then drink it or wash yourself with it

Repeat this for 3 7 or 11 days and your symptoms will get better in the short term


Also leave off making love to your hand and establish salah no matter how difficult
 
I can relate with your paranoia. I close the door and check a hundred times, when I put the hob off I come back to the kitchen a good three times to double check and the worst one is when I double check that my purse is in my bag. Once I was on a flight and I was anxious for a few hours, worried that someone would nick my bag above me when we touch down.
Feel free to follow my method
 

Guts

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I tried but it didn't work
So I'll say this
Now genetically speakING you have to try to pray sxb because otherwise you're food for the wolves amongst 5br shayateen

Now as far as this situation...I want you to take a water bottle or cup and recite fatiha 100 times (oR 1000 if you have the patience) after each time spit in the water without spitting in it (if that makes sense ) then drink it or wash yourself with it

Repeat this for 3 7 or 11 days and your symptoms will get better in the short term


Also leave off making love to your hand and establish salah no matter how difficult
Inshallah saxiib i will do as soon as i travel back on thursday.
 
InshaAllah

I would like to further my knowledge on the deen. Can you reccomend any books(hadith, sunnah of the prophet, etc), lectures on the web, etc? I'm asking because I don't want to be led astray by some questionable "Sheikhs" on YouTube.

Are you into Islamic eschatology? I've been watching Imran Hussain lately, what are your thoughts on him?
 
I would like to further my knowledge on the deen. Can you reccomend any books(hadith, sunnah of the prophet, etc), lectures on the web, etc? I'm asking because I don't want to be led astray by some questionable "Sheikhs" on YouTube.

Are you into Islamic eschatology? I've been watching Imran Hussain lately, what are your thoughts on him?
Im very much into islamic eschatology but i take imran Hosein in doses but he's a good scholar

If you want to understand the quran. The best youtube scholar is nouman ali khan just search up the name of any surah with tafsir at the end and you will get an excellent understanding of that surah

Shaykh hasan Ali has an excellent series on the prophets...I recommend that

I recommend you buy or find the sealed nectar that's a book on the life of the prophet saws

Read imam nawawis 40 hadith you can find it online

Ima fan of hamza yusuf although some of our salafi brothers don't like him..but he has some excellent lectures

I'll send you a few links to get started

Bayyinah TV 10 Yunus 1- 10:
Analysing the lives of the prophets by Shaykh Hasan Ali: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLI20wAOaUFES7cyvPUJ7WcklbkOKSQdT3
 
I reccomend you to get risala by imam ibn zaid from the Internet. ..it's the most complete book on fiqh that you will find

Anyone who has that book on cotch has a treasure
 
So yesterday night i decided to cook something like 3 am in the night, when i was done cooking i checked if the stove was off about 6 times. I lay down in my bed and i get up to check another time.
:jcoleno:
If this aint me :damedamn:

Im highly paranoid about forgetting to do something so i triple check myself. Sometimes I stare at my calendar for half an hour incase i missed something. Its exhausting :wow:

I have mental checklists in my head and mutter them to myself and my fingers fidget, the stares i get :ohlord:
im starting to think its not normal. @MuslimManMe maxaa iga qaldan?
 
If this aint me :damedamn:

Im highly paranoid about forgetting to do something so i triple check myself. Sometimes I stare at my calendar for half an hour incase i missed something. Its exhausting :wow:

I have mental checklists in my head and mutter them to myself and my fingers fidget, the stares i get :ohlord:
im starting to think its not normal. @MuslimManMe maxaa iga qaldan?
You need to make sure you maintain your salah
and make sure you do proper ghusl after your period ends or If you have secretions at night


Also the music you listen to creates adhd and was was Because it's Shaytan constantly in your ear

Finally you should read adhkar after every fajr and before you go to sleep
I will message you your new post fajr and pre sleep dhikr regiment. ..make sure you are consistent on it
 

Keo

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im from sweden and im not ciyaal suuq i prefer going out to eat with my friends or cinema instead of sitting around in the ends. and ofc play games
Why would you need to check your pockets every two minutes if you live in Sweden.
:mjlol:
 
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