Is reconciliation with a cheater ever truly possible?

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

The vast majority of people aren't sorry about being unfaithful, they're just sorry they were caught cheating

According to a study, small sample size of about 484 participants, people who cheated in their first ever relationship were x3 times more likely to cheat again. "Prior infidelity emerged as an important risk factor for infidelity in next relationships" absolutely fucking brutal lol

Taking all that into account, why do people torment themselves with shite like marriage counselling when there's scientific proof that it'll just happen again?
If I wasn't Muslim/Somali, I don't think I would even bothered with marriage and long-term relationships in general. The way Western societies have normalized infedility is so depressing wallahi.

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Serial Infidelity Across Subsequent Relationships - Archives of Sexual Behavior

Although there is a large body of research addressing predictors of relationship infidelity, no study to our knowledge has specifically addressed infidelity in a previous relationship as a risk factor for infidelity in a subsequent relationship. The current study addressed risk for serial...

link.springer.com

 

[astronaut]

The vast majority of people aren't sorry about being unfaithful, they're just sorry they were caught cheating

According to a study, small sample size of about 484 participants, people who cheated in their first ever relationship were x3 times more likely to cheat again. "Prior infidelity emerged as an important risk factor for infidelity in next relationships" absolutely fucking brutal lol

Taking all that into account, why do people torment themselves with shite like marriage counselling when there's scientific proof that it'll just happen again?
If I wasn't Muslim/Somali, I don't think I would even bothered with marriage and long-term relationships in general. The way Western societies have normalized infedility is so depressing wallahi.

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Serial Infidelity Across Subsequent Relationships - Archives of Sexual Behavior

Although there is a large body of research addressing predictors of relationship infidelity, no study to our knowledge has specifically addressed infidelity in a previous relationship as a risk factor for infidelity in a subsequent relationship. The current study addressed risk for serial...

link.springer.com

What the f*ck is wrong with these gaal? It's so sad how often they always get taken back by their partners. No shame at all, the cheater should never even attempt to contact their partner after, let alone beg them. Keying their car or even assaulting the person they cheated with isn't worth it. Just leave and don't look back, it's not hard.
Look what this batshit crazy woman did to her husband. A permanent tattoo on his chest, so extra.

 

[Basra]

I think your issues are deeper than being cheated on huuno.



Lose your obesity.

 

[Periplus]

Look what this batshit crazy woman did to her husband. A permanent tattoo on chest, so extra.

If you have that much cuqdad for him/her then don't date them.

Furthermore, a tattoo is sooo medieval imo. A better idea would have been to make him walk around the busiest mall or street in your city wearing a sign saying "I cheated on my wife".

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

What the f*ck is wrong with these gaal? It's so sad how often they always get taken back by their partners. No shame at all, the cheater should never even attempt to contact their partner after, let alone beg them. Keying their car or even assaulting the person they cheated with isn't worth it. Just leave and don't look back, it's not hard.
Look what this batshit crazy woman did to her husband. A permanent tattoo on his chest, so extra.
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US family courts are brutal sxb, I would've tattooed that shit on my forehead if it meant not going through an Americunt divorce lol

My theory's that their relationships are based solely off their personal feelings. God, family honor/ceeb and social shaming aren't in the equation. What's to stop them from doing something that "feels good/right" in the moment when they don't really have to answer to anyone or anything?

 

[karkaar]

No point of cheating when Allah gave us a right to divorce,try ur best to reconcile with your wife and address the issues straining the marriage and if there is no chance of rectifying issues just remarry.Afar baa noo banaan, wa billahi tawfiiq .
That being said, there is no hope for cheaters regardless of sex,theres a reason why if appropriately proven our deen has a painful punishment for those who engage in such behaviours.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

No point of cheating when Allah gave us a right to divorce,try ur best to reconcile with your wife and address the issues straining the marriage and if there is no chance of rectifying issues just remarry.Afar baa noo banaan, wa billahi tawfiiq .
That being said, there is no hope for cheaters regardless of sex,theres a reason why if appropriately proven our deen has a painful punishment for those who engage in such behaviours.

Some people like to have their cake and eat it too sxb lol. In a gaal's mind; why would they let a good thing go if they can have the best of both worlds? A relationship/marriage without Allah at it's center is doomed to fail wallahi. Thank god I didn't fall for the "love conquers" meme and wife up a doofaarad

 

[mr steal your naag]

The vast majority of people aren't sorry about being unfaithful, they're just sorry they were caught cheating

According to a study, small sample size of about 484 participants, people who cheated in their first ever relationship were x3 times more likely to cheat again. "Prior infidelity emerged as an important risk factor for infidelity in next relationships" absolutely fucking brutal lol

Taking all that into account, why do people torment themselves with shite like marriage counselling when there's scientific proof that it'll just happen again?
If I wasn't Muslim/Somali, I don't think I would even bothered with marriage and long-term relationships in general. The way Western societies have normalized infedility is so depressing wallahi.

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Serial Infidelity Across Subsequent Relationships - Archives of Sexual Behavior

Although there is a large body of research addressing predictors of relationship infidelity, no study to our knowledge has specifically addressed infidelity in a previous relationship as a risk factor for infidelity in a subsequent relationship. The current study addressed risk for serial...

link.springer.com

Cheating is not really a big thing Women make it a big thing for no reason. So what if he slept with another women? You really wanna throw everything away only because of a 1 night stand

 

[Boqorada]

Only women who cheat should be forgiven. They're always remorseful and had a good reason to, so it's unjust and down right evil to hold a grudge.

 

[mr steal your naag]

Only women who cheat should be forgiven. They're always remorseful and had a good reason to, so it's unjust and down right evil to hold a grudge.

I would let it slide if she cheats on me with a athlete

 

[karkaar]

I would let it slide if she cheats on me with a athlete

dayuuus

 

[Xaruun]

Only women who cheat should be forgiven. They're always remorseful and had a good reason to, so it's unjust and down right evil to hold a grudge.

Exactly sis. If you’re too insecure to forgive your wife’s mistake then you’re the one who’s trash

 

[Boqorada]

Exactly sis. If you’re too insecure to forgive your wife’s mistake then you’re the one who’s trash

I would let it slide if she cheats on me with a athlete

 

[Basra]

Only women who cheat should be forgiven. They're always remorseful and had a good reason to, so it's unjust and down right evil to hold a grudge.

A woman ONLY cheats if a man is not sexually satisfying her. loool

 

[mr steal your naag]

dayuuus

Listen iam a fair guy i would let it slide if its a athlete but she should let it slide if i sleep with a model

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Exactly sis. If you’re too insecure to forgive your wife’s mistake then you’re the one who’s trash

I know you're joking but it still makes my blood boil wallahi, the thought of someone saying that unironically makes me foam at the mouth

 

[karkaar]

Listen iam a fair guy i would let it slide if its a athlete but she should let it slide if i sleep with a model

 

[Radical]

It's just human nature honestly, even I can't guarantee being faithful forever.

 

[mr steal your naag]

It's just human nature honestly, even I can't guarantee being faithful forever.

If something better shows up i guess you have to try it

 

[shamrock]

Only women who cheat should be forgiven. They're always remorseful and had a good reason to, so it's unjust and down right evil to hold a grudge.

treason is treason, the reason is irrelevant