Is it wrong to have a skintone preference?

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  1. Mufasah

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    Preferences are non-negotiable and perfectly OK. As long as you don't flaunt them in real life, you're fine. Otherwise you deserve any potential backlash. Discretion goes a very long way.

    There's also difference between having a preference, and going out of your way to insult and denigrate others.
     
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  2. Dr.Xayawaan

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  3. Tukraq

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    lol the pick me respond with preciate it after your advances :chrisfreshhah: probably trying to get choose by another sspotter
     
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  4. Farhiya 687

    Farhiya 687 :)

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    I have options. Right 3 guys just need to pick one thats the hard part. Cause they’re all good.
     
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  5. Dr.Xayawaan

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    I'm suspecting @Qoordeer

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  6. QueenSamaale

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    For a while I've been thinking you and qoordheer are the same person. Hhhh, that boy is actively seducing the women of sspot.
     
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  7. Farhiya 687

    Farhiya 687 :)

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    Eww no (nothing against the person in question. But I only ever met in person. Nothing better being face to face to someone. Seeing their cute mannerism. Sorry text is too limited. What happens he’s so lit online and then off stuttering.
     
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  8. 911

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    If youre not atrracted to people with the same skin color as you theres a problem.
     
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  9. Farhiya 687

    Farhiya 687 :)

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    Nah I haven’t spoked to anyone privately. Some of the opinions are too extreme for me.
     
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  10. Mckenzie

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    Light skin girls go for darker guys, dark skinned girls go for light skin guys
     
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  11. Raage

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    Yes it is wrong. It's literally impossible to not find at least a few dark or light skin ppl attractive
     
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  12. xalimathe6

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    Not imo. It's a problem when you belittle certain skin tones. Although I personally believe it's self-hating to not find your own skin tone attractive.

    A lot of you guys think only features matter, but what if someone calls you a featurist? Why is it okay for you to prefer lets say thinner noses but not for someone to prefer certain skin tones? It goes both ways. Everyone has preferences

    Don't be out here looking like an insecure clown when someone states their preferences. Ignore it. It doesn't matter to you and it shouldn't.
     
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  13. Farhiya 687

    Farhiya 687 :)

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    True like the craziness those people talking trash about this bad features. Or skin it’s like have you looked in the mirror lately? It’s def self-hate. Legit makes me sad going to African shops there’s relaxers, bleaching creams. Losing their uniqueness.
     
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  14. moravia

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    No, you can't help who you're attracted to.
     
  15. Armadillo

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    Very true, my life attests to this.
     
  16. Armadillo

    Armadillo GRAND Wizard of MJ SIXIR

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    Absolutely not. Don't be fooled by this and PC agenda. If you like lightskinned women, it's your choice, if you like dark skinned women, it's your choice.
     
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  17. Basra

    Basra Like Donald Trump, I like to be Spanked. VIP

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    No. It just means u have a preference. For me -i am compartmentalize . I am drone to light skin men, but sometimes i want to have a baby with a super dark skin guys with dark lips. Baal kaa shekaay
     
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  18. TheShinning

    TheShinning "You are your best thing"

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    No, every one has a preference, I don’t see why it’s wrong to prefer a skin tone so as long as you’re not saying I like light skin women because they’re more beautiful then it becomes a problem. I like men who are over 6’0 tall, it doesn’t mean I find short men ugly they’re just not my type.
     
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  19. KobeBryant

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    They will never push this dark skin women agenda on me, I will always find natural lightskin women better looking.
     
  20. Huda

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    Preferences are okay. Mine change like every other week tho. Cadaanka ayeey ka shidantahay iminka :stevej:
     
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