Is it in our culture

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For your parents to ask you when you get married if you had sex with your partner?

My muslim friend from a arab background just told me her mother and mother in-law asked her when she visited them yesterday ( these people don't follow lockdown rules).

I'm super shocked that's none of their affair's.

 

[strawberrii]

I've never heard of anything like that but I hope that's not a Somali thing too. Imagine how weird it'd be for Hooyo and Abo to be asking about those things

 

[Jiron]

oh no that is a very private question that should never be asked, the sex life of couples should be between them good or bad

 

[Mad-MullaH]

For your parents to ask you when you get married if you had sex with your partner?

My muslim friend from a arab background just told me her mother and mother in-law asked her when she visited them yesterday ( these people don't follow lockdown rules).

I'm super shocked that's none of their affair's.

Dont tell your mom about us ever..do you understand.

 

[Abdisamad]

They also check the bed sheet after the wedding night

 

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They also check the bed sheet after the wedding night

They are really disgusting

 

[Radical]

oh no that is a very private question that should never be asked, the sex life of couples should be between them good or bad

That 'happy to be here" attitude and creepy smile is not the best look while in action

 

[Abdisamad]

That 'happy to be here" attitude and creepy smile is not the best look while in action

Jiron and his smiley

 

[JewhanOmar]

They are really disgusting

If you think that's disgusting let me tell you a story of a Middle eastern girl and her horrors on her wedding night. This is a true story. So be thankful you are Somali

This Arab family has a tradition of taking the bride in a room with the bridegrooms uncles and Male relatives, so they can check if her hymen is still intact.

They would take off all of her clothing, hold her down and spread her legs. While flashing a light in her opening. The said girl was devastated and asked the people around why they were violating her. .The women in the room, were all smirking and laughing ie the mother of the bridegroom and the other married women. After the ordeal, she asked her husband "Why he had allowed it", he said it happened to all of the married women in his household, including his sisters. YUCK, that's fucked up.



BE THANKFUL YOU ARE A SOMALI. This was a co-worker of mine, retelling her sisters ex-husband story. Not to me tho, I was just eaves dropping a conversation between 2 of my colleagues.

 

[Guardafui]

Theres a Turkish series show I’ve watched where the girl had to show a white sheet stained with blood to prove that she was a Virgin before the wedding night I was like


Arabs and some Turks still do that lol

 

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If you think that's disgusting let me tell you a story of a Middle eastern girl and her horrors on her wedding night. This is a true story. So be thankful you are Somali

This Arab family has a tradition of taking the bride in a room with the bridegrooms uncles and Male relatives, so they can check if her hymen is still intact.

They would take off all of her clothing, hold her down and spread her legs. While flashing a light in her opening. The said girl was devastated and asked the people around why they were violating her. .The women in the room, were all smirking and laughing ie the mother of the bridegroom and the other married women. After the ordeal, she asked her husband "Why he had allowed it", he said it happened to all of the married women in his household, including his sisters. YUCK, that's fucked up.



BE THANKFUL YOU ARE A SOMALI. This was a co-worker of mine, retelling her sisters ex-husband story. Not to me tho, I was just eaves dropping a conversation between 2 of my colleagues.

I think that happened to my other friend I remember when she moved in with her man, the whole family was in their bedroom and she was wearing her sleeping gown so was she. She sent me snaps. This is some disgusting culture. They call themselves muslim too.

 

[Mercury]

I never heard of Somalis doing that as far as I know anything the couple do stays between them

 

[Mercury]

how does that conversation even go

that a mom gonna ask her daughter

"Hooyo niinkaga howsha ma la geshay"

 

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how does that conversation even go

that a mom gonna ask her daughter

"Hooyo niinkaga howsha ma la geshay"

 

[Jacki]

Nothing good ever came from the Middle East. Absolutely trash culture. They have no shame or modesty.

 

[Basra]

For your parents to ask you when you get married if you had sex with your partner?

My muslim friend from a arab background just told me her mother and mother in-law asked her when she visited them yesterday ( these people don't follow lockdown rules).

I'm super shocked that's none of their affair's.

Maybe they are upto something. They want to make sure the gay husband did it with your arab friend.