Inquisitive: What are your views on women?

[Canuck]

Yes, but I stated my preference in a woman's behavior whom I am married to and I didn't take you through the process. May be you are too imaginative and that is your issue, don't read too much into people's comments, but not sleeping with a wife commando style is not appealing to me is what I stated. And I stand by it,.

You should address your concerns to your future wife not public forum.

 

[Burhan]

You should address your concerns to your future wife not public forum.

But you declared that statement as un-islamic. So, which way is right? what makes it right one time and wrong in the other? Make up your mind first.

 

[Asma]

Your confused, I don't think you know what hate speech is, for such a thing to transpire hate needs to exist, hate isn't there, hate is for the weak, the feeble-minded, the losers and the bottom feeders in society.

I don't expect you to understand that, or make logical deduction, your an emotional being, the emotional part of that limbic brain will always overpower the logical side, and what I typed was a logical piece which you won't fathom due to your biological make up, it's fine, I wouldn't have like it any different, its what makes us love you, those that understand you ofcourse.



Again I described the horrors of hate, man whom hate women fall into two groups, the beta male type or the confused type that hasn't understood them for what they are. The former you don't have to worry about, the latter neither, he is on that difficult journey of discovering your essence, your being, your biological make-up, your true innate beauty, and also your dreadful grave dangers upon society.




Again the irrational emotional side of your limbic brain is talking, it's ok, maybe it's the week before the P and your emotions are highest or maybe your going through PMS

You will never understand the intricacies anyway, but this response is more for the others reading these mad emotional ramblings and are drawn to it because of relentless western betaization process male's are going through.

The Asian culture you abhor, are no were near as morally bankrupt as the others, this alone is enough to refute your entire argument, if I grabbed any person from the street and asked him to identify the most tiest easiest women one can deflower, they would rightly point to the Western White women, there is a reason for that, stereotypes don't materialise out of thin air, you can say they are sexually liberated, but for us it's decadence and filth, even their own man agree, hence Mgtow movements, PUA culture, trips to bankok and the increase interracial marriage with asian females or eastern Europeans.




I disagree with their conclusions but I can see why they made those errors, it's a complex thing to understand, their actions defies rationality and logic, and if you cannot sit down nor have the experience as I do, to understand it, you'll get lost in it, hence PUA movements.

The man have become so betaized through relentless domestication's they even lost their innate instincts to court women, this is unprecedented in history. I love women, and when you understand them you grow to love them even more, but I also realise the dangers if you don't actively guard those nuclear facilities.




To the contrary in fact, before I retired, was reborn, revitlized and spiritually baptised, I used to feast on the femcunt SJW types, they were the path of least resistance for me and the quickiest because I was highly impatient and too caveman like to wait around, they were the perfect low hanging fruits to pick, to quench the thirst.

I don't control at all, in fact Somali man don't even have this control personna (unless they were bred in Arab countries), our Pastoral roots meant we were gone for months with the herd of camels looking for green pastures, while we left the women behind with a goat, few old man from the tribe and the children, it's the reason why our women are the most independent. No man gives more independence to women then Somali man.






You been reading too many femcunt books, real power is never shown or waved, it's in the background at work, in your psyche, in your subconscious, in your pants, in your brains. It's influence transforms you, humbles you, makes your bow down spiritually to that person.

This what I did before the rebirth, reborn, spiritual awakening and cleansing began. I courted the likes of you, the liberated, the party going, jeans wearing, tank-top showing, so called free women, because they were easy pickings

I didn't have to worry about marriage talks, relationship talks, conservatism, religious guilt and the rest of the malarky you would experience with conservatively confused women, that require more time to break, I didn't have that patience back then, so you were my bread and butter.

I am actually trying to save you here from this wallowing self destructing death spiral you voluntary placed yourself into, trying to save you from spinisterhood or dom or a life with cats/kittens as your guardian companions into your 30's, as well as the wider society around you.




The last part made me laugh, great read, good to see a sense of humour, kudos to you, not as emotional as I thought you was.

Sigh. Here comes the typical response of the misogynist. The haha you are on your period and you are "emotional". First of all everyone has emotions and there is absolutely nothing wrong with using emotions to guide oneself. You seem to think that emotion is something to scoff at. On the contrary, human emotion both man and woman is what led to the end of slavery, it is what makes people give charity. Human emotion is what led to laws such as the Geneva convention of human rights and the rights of children to not be forced into labour/ child soldier and to suffer abuse. I celebrate emotions, because without it, humans would be without empathy and compassion for one another. Without human emotions such as passion, people wouldn't champion the right to individual autonomy, free from discrimination.

The second typical response from the primitive mind of a sexist is the ewww your are woman on her period. If you think mentioning my period is going to shame me, think again. It is a such a childish and idiotic position to have, to deride woman for having periods. Something that is paramount for the continuation of the human race. It is equal to woman ridiculing men for ejaculating semen. Again such as stupid and anti-intellectual reason to mock someone. Since you asked, I am about two weeks away from my period, and fortunately enough I do not suffer from PMS.

Thirdly, we come to other point primitives make is that ......you are a . I won't spend much time on this moronic point, except I really do not care who anyone sleeps with. As long as its between consensual adults, you seem to think your moral views are better than anyone else's. Your type is always obsessed with what others do with their time.

Advocating that an entire group be that a sex, race, ethnicity or religious group are inferior and should be monitored and controlled is hate speech ad should be condemned as such. Like I previously mentioned if someone made the points you made on women about Somali men or Muslim people, two groups that you are part of, you would be the first to scream.....THAT'S RACISTS.

Anyways I am done. I am the one who made the mistake of arguing with a person who actually believes the earth is flat. I mean if you want to talk about laughable mate, it doesn't get funnier than that. I mean what next, Elvis is still alive? A big headed alien came and took you on their UFO and fingered you. Tell us "Inquisitive" which finger did the alien use to sexually molest you...don't be shy. Maybe you like it since you are so obsessed with sexual going on's of women....hmmm maybe you are little frustrated. Perhaps the alien was a welcome relief.

One last point your name "Inquisitive" ...talk about irony.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

@Inquisitive_ dropping even more dimes on this thread mashallah. What an intellectual.

Narrated by Abu Hurayrah: "The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Had it been permissible that a person may prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered that a wife should prostrate herself before her husband." (Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 285)

The words of our dear Prophet (saw) makes clear the importance of obedience in marriage. Sujuud is the ultimate submission where the highest part of ones body goes to the lowest point on the ground, and Rasululah would have ordered women in this position if it were permissible.

No wonder why the majority of hadeeth rejectors from whom I've encountered are women. They cannot accept the truth stated in our deen through sahih hadeeth.

 

[Canuck]

But you declared that statement as un-islamic. So, which way is right? what makes it right one time and wrong in the other? Make up your mind first.

First of all, the sex life of married couple can not be described "y" the term wife refers to woman who cheats on her husband online/phone. What we have here is misinterpretation.

 

[madamelioness]

I like you, your an interesting Xalimo, you remind me of those scenes in Planet earth when the lion, cheetah or leopard is about to mate with it's female, it climbs on top of it, tries to mount it, but the female suddenly almost irrationally gets y and aggressive and starts barking violently.

Upon this, the male frantically unmounts her, and this dreadful process keeps repeating until the female tires out and accepts it six feet deep.

This is your average Xalimo reactions that your showing, including your other friend, it's normal, it's natural, it's healthy, it's pro-creation, in fact I love it's beauty and essence.

There is a famous Gaalkacayo tale of a reer xamar man that married a reer gaalkacayo women, he tried to sweet talk his way into making love with her, it didn't work, he was rebuffed for weeks, until one-day he sought advice from a reer gaalkacayo odey that told him "warayaa hadalka badhan jooji, haba la hadlin, ku gaad" (don't talk too much, just mount her quick and do the deed)

The Reer Xamar effeminate betaized man followed the advice and did so, the next morning he told the reer gaalkacayo odeey it went successful, but he was confused and came to ask the odey,what his wife said to him this morning("doofar doofar dhaley wuu ii gaadey xaley") (that son of a bastard he deflowered me lastnight), and asked the old man for an explanation of this, the old reer gaalkacayo man burst into laughter so much, he passed out.

It's the same way me and Duke and many others are laughing at all your responses. The irrational women is you, the beta Reer Xamar dude is all the betaized male's that like your comments, the hardcore Alpha odey is us laughing at all this.

It's very clear you're suffering from a crisis of masculinity. There's no way a man who is secure in his manhood would speak like this.

Your mindless ramblings are that of a man who has reached epic proportions of delusion and who is clinging onto cliche phrases/stereotypes to reassure his fragile ego.

 

[Burhan]

First of all, the sex life of married couple can not be described "y" the term wife refers to woman who cheats on her husband online/phone. What we have here is misinterpretation.

In line with the cultural practices of some Somalis, kissing your wife and touching her breast was considered non-Islamic(shuqul/sheeko gaalo) and being ty on her part if the wife pointed that out to her husband. Some women were divorced because they told their husband how they liked something he was doing or didn't like it that way.

If pleasing your wife the right way(and she takes the lead in expressing that) is ty according to some local tradition, so be it. I want her to be ty that way. It is a way of speaking. If you would feel happy with your line of thoughts, perhaps I can accommodate you. I just see you pick an argument where THERE is none.

 

[Canuck]

Men like @Inquisitive_ @Duke of Bohol @Prince of Lasanod really had fed up with these new ratchets halimos on SC/Somali features. Clearly they are missing brothers and dads in their live. Simply they want the Somali men to take their full responsibility and be more firm with females in their families. I understand where they are coming from. I support you those women need firm fathers/brothers/uncles.

 

[Canuck]

In line with the cultural practices of some Somalis, kissing your wife and touching her breast was considered non-Islamic(shuqul/sheeko gaalo) and being ty on her part if the wife pointed that out to her husband. Some women were divorced because they told their husband how they liked something he was doing or didn't like it that way.

If pleasing your wife the right way(and she takes the lead in expressing that) is ty according to some local tradition, so be it. I want her to be ty that way. It is a way of speaking. If you would feel happy with your line of thoughts, perhaps I can accommodate you. I just see you pick an argument where THERE is none.

No argument or fight, it is lost in translation. If those ignorant men read prophet Mohamed 'Hadith about sex in Islam, they would not divorce for simple reasons like that. Famous saying in Islam "No shyness in learning " sex life is part of learning.

 

[madamelioness]

@Inquisitive_ dropping even more dimes on this thread mashallah. What an intellectual.

Narrated by Abu Hurayrah: "The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Had it been permissible that a person may prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered that a wife should prostrate herself before her husband." (Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 285)

The words of our dear Prophet (saw) makes clear the importance of obedience in marriage. Sujuud is the ultimate submission where the highest part of ones body goes to the lowest point on the ground, and Rasululah would have ordered women in this position if it were permissible.

No wonder why the majority of hadeeth rejectors from whom I've encountered are women. They cannot accept the truth stated in our deen through sahih hadeeth.

Can you stop misusing hadeeth to serve your agenda? Who here disagrees with hadeeth?

That hadeeth applies to the men who act with sense and understand the responsibility that Allah SWT has bestowed upon them, to protect, care for and look after women, It doesn't apply to those who have clear contempt for women and see them as inferior. The prophet SAW in his last sermon, he reminded men to show kindness towards women.

You have clear issues with women..that you even said you don't require intelligence from your wife. Marriage is about more than obedience and rights. It's about mutual respect, love, forgiveness, and fulfilling half of your Deen.

 

[Asma]

It's very clear you're suffering from a crisis of masculinity. There's no way a man who is secure in his manhood would speak like this.

Your mindless ramblings are that of a man who has reached epic proportions of delusion and who is clinging onto cliche phrases/stereotypes to reassure his fragile ego.

You have hit the nail on the head sister. When a man has no achievements, no qualifications, no bright future. Often times the one thing that soothes his very fragile ego( as you so nicely put it ) is that he is a male. The one thing he has going for him is that at least he was born with a penis and that he is much more superior to lowly females...dumb nasty female that have things like periods and go through pregnancy and childbirth. It is the last defence he has, and he clings to it like a baby clinging to its mother.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

First of all, the sex life of married couple can not be described "y" the term wife refers to woman who cheats on her husband online/phone. What we have here is misinterpretation.

Prophet saw said: One of you should not fulfil one’s (sexual) need from one’s wife like an animal, rather there should be between them foreplay of kissing and words.” (Musnad al-Firdaws Of al-Daylami, 2/55)

means having many sexual partners which is irrelevant your wife is married to you and you only.

 

[Burhan]

No argument or fight, it is lost in translation. If those ignorant men read prophet Mohamed 'Hadith about sex in Islam, they would not divorce for simple reasons like that. Famous saying in Islam "No shyness in learning " sex life is part of learning.

Exactly. And since Islam is a way of life, it addresses all social issues including sex and what is appropriate. It is why Islam was way ahead of tis time.

 

[Burhan]

Prophet saw said: One of you should not fulfil one’s (sexual) need from one’s wife like an animal, rather there should be between them foreplay of kissing and words.” (Musnad al-Firdaws Of al-Daylami, 2/55)

means having many sexual partners which is irrelevant your wife is married to you and you only.

And the foreplay and kissing plus more mentioned in Islam would be considered ty practice. That is what the discussion turned into. If you define t the way you did, of course, it is wrong, But according to some people in our culture, what you mentoned in the hadith is dhillanimo on a woman's part and a man thinks the same way and doesn't do it.

The fact that islam mentions a man should not stop sex(get off from his wife) when he cums first and should ensure his wife does reach her satisfaction as well didn't reach some people. And such talk is considered un-islamic by certain quarters.

Islam is an open religion and a way of life. Sex talk is not alien.

 

[madamelioness]

You have hit the nail on the head sister. When a man has no achievements, no qualifications, no bright future. Often times the one thing that soothes his very fragile ego( as you so nicely put it ) is that he is a male. The one thing he has going for him is that at least he was born with a penis and that he is much more superior to lowly females...dumb nasty female that have things like periods and go through pregnancy and childbirth. It is the last defence he has, and he clings to it like a baby clinging to its mother.

Exactly sis. It's quite ironic how he boasts about his past escapades, when both men and women are equally held accountable and punished for such deeds. It's very hypocritical and such arrogance will only lead to misery. Good men are for good women and vice versa. It's one thing to speak against lewd behaviour but to use his type of logic (not sure if it can be even called logic?) is counter-productive and not from the spirit of Islam.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

Can you stop misusing hadeeth to serve your agenda? Who here disagrees with hadeeth?

That hadeeth applies to the men who act with sense and understand the responsibility that Allah SWT has bestowed upon them, to protect, care for and look after women, It doesn't apply to those who have clear contempt for women and see them as inferior. The prophet SAW in his last sermon, he reminded men to show kindness towards women.

You have clear issues with women..that you even said you don't require intelligence from your wife. Marriage is about more than obedience and rights. It's about mutual respect, love, forgiveness, and fulfilling half of your Deen.

You keep saying I'm misusing misusing hadeeth because I have an agenda? What agenda is this? Why is it that posting guidance from our religion means that I have an agenda? Women left untamed will follow the most evil of ideologues, and this is a fact. This hadeeth is all I will be posting in reply to you.

It was reported that Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The Dajjaal will come to this pond in Marriqanaat – a valley in Madeenah – and most of those who go out to him will be women, until a man will come to his mother in law, his mother, his daughter, his sister and his aunt, and will tie them up strongly for fear that they will go out to him.” (Narrated by Ahmad, no. 5099)

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

And the foreplay and kissing plus more mentioned in Islam would be considered ty practice. That is what the discussion turned into. If you define t the way you did, of course, it is wrong, But according to some people in our culture, what you mentoned in the hadith is dhillanimo on a woman's part and a man thinks the same way and doesn't do it.

The fact that islam mentions a man should not stop sex(get off from his wife) when he cums first and should ensure his wife does reach her satisfaction as well didn't reach some people. And such talk is considered un-islamic by certain quarters.

Islam is an open religion and a way of life. Sex talk is not alien.

No reason why you should blindly imitate what our culture may say. Some geeljire don't even pray but that doesn't mean we should follow them in that. We should never follow ignorance.

 

[EternalLightX]

Let women do as they please who cares

 

[Asma]

Exactly sis. It's quite ironic how he boasts about his past escapades, when both men and women are equally held accountable and punished for such deeds. It's very hypocritical and such arrogance will only lead to misery. Good men are for good women and vice versa. It's one thing to speak against lewd behaviour but to use his type of logic (not sure if it can be even called logic?) is counter-productive and not from the spirit of Islam.

There is no logic there at all, which is what he accuses us women of not having. His type are all the same, they think its ok and even boast about promiscuity but look down upon women for doing the same thing. So if all women are suppose to virgins for their husbands, but its ok for men to have premarital sex. Then pray do tell me, whom are they having sex with? He says he use to pick up women and have sex with them (as if) then turns around and preaches against those women. As if he wasn't doing the exact same deed. There is no rational, logical thought behind any of it. To look for it is a waste of time.

 

[Inquisitive_]

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