If your ex and your first love got divorced and runs back to you?

[Tukraq]

I thought you were an "Alpha male". Why are you complaining about an ex who chose another man over you ?

everyone makes mistakes maybe she made one in his opinion and is willing to forgive

 

[IstarZ]

Yup, cheap indeed, my ex isnt even materiastic she doesnt want an aroos only meher no dahab nothing she loves me.

Thats why im really tempted.

You truly deserve each other. A cheap flip-flopping dameer and lax isnacday.

 

[Desert Flower]

You truly deserve each other. A cheap flip-flopping dameer and lax isnacday.

Allah beerka!!!!!

 

[TekNiKo]

everyone makes mistakes maybe she made one in his opinion and is willing to forgive

Bro she is so beautiful even after divorce qurux ilaahi dhameeyey lightskin

her voice oh her voice makes me melt just on the phone alone. iskaba dhaf real life

 

[saredochani10]

everyone makes mistakes maybe she made one in his opinion and is willing to forgive

If this was posted by someone else he would've called the girl a / and stuff. Then as usual a monologue about alpha blablas.

I hope this thread is for trolling only.

 

[Jaydaan]

You truly deserve each other. A cheap flip-flopping dameer and lax isnacday.

Omg maxaa u cayneesa gabar somali ah? Dameer is very offensive thing to call a girl

 

[IstarZ]

Omg maxaa u cayneesa gabar somali ah? Dameer is very offensive thing to call a girl

I didn’t.

 

[Desert Flower]

I didn’t.

Af somali ma yaqaano, iska dhaf

 

[VixR]

Daaamn let the brother breathe. He asked for advise and you are judging him haaard

@TekNiKo
2 wives is a hard thing. There will be jealousy and financial strain. How would first wife react? The second one you fought and she marries next guy. That says a lot about her. Is she saying she is ok now but once you marry her try to turn first wife on you?

I unfollowed the thread. Don’t call me back into it.

If I want to see typical Somali messes, I will move to the neighborhoods where they congregate. I’m in my safe space.

 

[World]

We never got married, she was my girl for many years though (not typical western sense of girlfriend we promised to get married) we fought for couple months then boom she gets married to some next bloke, I was heart broken, it took my months to heal. I then got an arranged marriage in somalia, now she got divorced and is begging me to take her back and forgive her.

My mind is saying dont reward betrayal but my heart still has feelings...

I agree sxb, don’t reward betrayal. If she chose someone else after you fought, then she isn’t wifey material. She is running back to you because she knew she made the wrong choice by choosing the other guy over you. But it’s too late now.

 

[TekNiKo]

Daaamn let the brother breathe. He asked for advise and you are judging him haaard

@TekNiKo
2 wives is a hard thing. There will be jealousy and financial strain. How would first wife react? The second one you fought and she marries next guy. That says a lot about her. Is she saying she is ok now but once you marry her try to turn first wife on you?

I honestly dont know how she would react I think she would accept it since she loves me.

Exactly the ex I got trust issues with due that marriage thats why Im very reluctant to go ahead with it, she told me she the one who requested the divorce cuz her man was cheating on her with other women. She sees it as a punishment for what she did to me "karma" and has now come back to her senses.

Should I believe her? Emotionally I want to cause I loved her but my rational mind is saying dont trust her.

 

[Jaydaan]

I unfollowed the thread. Don’t call me back into it.

If I want to see typical Somali messes, I will move to the neighborhoods where they congregate. I’m in my safe space.

Good...you didnt bring anything to it except bashing somali men. Dont bring your issues with somalis everywhere selfhater

 

[IstarZ]

Af somali ma yaqaano, iska dhaf

Waan arkay. Miskiin.

 

[Desert Flower]

Horta, what line of work are you in to be even having this discussion? I know you saying sis is cheap and all, but really? Meesha maxaad ku haysa? @TekNiKo

 

[TekNiKo]

Af somali ma yaqaano, iska dhaf

Please exit this thread you two @IstarZ aflagaado iyo cay lee wadataan.

 

[Jaydaan]

I honestly dont know how she would react I think she would accept it since she loves me.

Exactly the ex I got trust issues with due that marriage thats why Im very reluctant to go ahead with it, she told me she the one who requested the divorce cuz her man was cheating on her with other women. She sees it as a punishment for what she did to me "karma" and has now come back to her senses.

Should I believe her? Emotionally I want to cause I loved her but my rational mind is saying dont trust her.

I personally woukdnt. If he was not cheating in her she wouldnt have come back to you. She knows her marriage is over and is looking for rebound. Tell her divorce then wait a year. If she feels the same then ok. But she is hurt and is not thinking clear now. Be careful

 

[VixR]

Good...you didnt bring anything to it except bashing somali men. Dont bring your issues with somalis everywhere selfhater

Fam, it’s just the truth. I loved a Somali man and he was a good one, but I know they’re mostly like the poster. Just leaving a tornado of a mess in their wake.

Doesn’t mean I have to watch.

 

[TekNiKo]

I personally woukdnt. If he was not cheating in her she wouldnt have come back to you. She knows her marriage is over and is looking for rebound. Tell her divorce then wait a year. If she feels the same then ok. But she is hurt and is not thinking clear now. Be careful

The divorce was 8 months ago, she said she tried contacting me, I put her on block for all social medias, she finally found my new number and contacted me. Does that change things?

 

[IstarZ]

Please exit this thread you two @IstarZ aflagaado iyo cay lee wadataan.

Sorry, did you expect my blessings?

This is how I respond to my Somali sister getting screwed over all because you cannot get over your ex and keep your “feelings” in check.

 

[Desert Flower]

Please exit this thread you two @IstarZ aflagaado iyo cay lee wadataan.

I have every right to be here. Maxa ka galey? I’m going to say whatever tf I want. You want people to agree with what you’re doing? Boy bye. You’re tooo emotional.