If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

Would you want to get married?

  • Yes for other reasons

    Votes: 37 62.7%

  • No

    Votes: 20 33.9%

  • Undecided

    Votes: 2 3.4%
  • Total voters
    59
lilmoon

lilmoon

Anyways guys, instead of pressure, we should let him do him. At the end of the day, he actually isn't hurting anyone, in any sense. You do you brother, and do it perfectly.
 
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Taij4an

AllStarSaciid said:
Bruh u can’t just “choose” to not care abt your primal instincts waryaa.
:mindblown:
They don’t go away. Just get tested to see if your hormones are not the problem.
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Nah I did, I thought it was impossible but I did it, it was the only option for me, when I realised the truth my mind was blown, ofc sex is a part of life, but when u realise it is such a small part of life, u could care less about it, to the point u dont want it anymore, it isnt even something that brings me any benefit
 
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AllStarSaciid

Taij4an said:
Nah I did, I thought it was impossible but I did it, it was the only option for me, when I realised the truth my mind was blown, ofc sex is a part of life, but when u realise it is such a small part of life, u could care less about it, to the point u dont want it anymore, it isnt even something that brings me any benefit
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What do u mean? I’m concerned.
:wtf:
 
GuanYu

GuanYu

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Taij4an said:
Nah I chose to not care about sex I wasn't born like this
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Taij4an said:
Nah I did, I thought it was impossible but I did it, it was the only option for me, when I realised the truth my mind was blown, ofc sex is a part of life, but when u realise it is such a small part of life, u could care less about it, to the point u dont want it anymore, it isnt even something that brings me any benefit
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Taij4an

AllStarSaciid said:
What do u mean? I’m concerned.
:wtf:
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Well, when ur young, ur obviously overly horny, ur living in the west, surrounded by sex, ur obviously gonna be obsessed with sex and think u cant live without it
But when u live a life of celibacy, u cut off all kinds of negative influence, dont watch any suggestive movies and tv and completely block out anything haram, u limit ur interaction with women, etc etc, then u learn about life in general, u see how little sex is part of anyones life, there are way more bigger things to worry about, its mostly young horny teenagers who are obsessed with sex all the time,
long story short, when u go on this journey, u will realise, u literally dont care for sex, sure I am still attracted to women, I may have an almost moment of weakness around a baddie, but I ain't gonna do anything, not only is it haram, but it benefits me in no way in this dunya, U basically gotta fight ur nafs until u reach a point where u dont desire sex anymore
Otherwise ur just gonna commit zina, u cant desire sex for 10 years and just be cool, it will kill u
 
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Taij4an

Bundasliga said:
@Taij4an
Since you don't want children, marriage & a partner. Where do you see yourself in the next 10,20,30+ years ?
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Scholar and doctor Inshaallah,
dedicate my life to helping out the communtiy, teaching ppl, volunteering, writing books
leaving marriage and children actually leaves me with so much time to reach my goals alhamdulillah
 
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Taij4an

GuanYu said:
congratulations on the plat thread
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Ok 1st of all wth is a plat thread I keep hearing it I assume its a trending thread but I still dont understand
Also I dont care about popularities of my threads I am genulinly interested in hearing other ppls opinions, I liked ur outlook and you are correct about the ancestor stuff and just benefitting the world in general and making sacrifices like ur parents, u wouldnt be here today if it wasnt for them, it is a good reason to want to have children
And btw I still think I might have children but I just dont want children, its like I dont wanna work 14 hours a day but I still sometimes will have to to earn a living
 
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AllStarSaciid

Taij4an said:
Well, when ur young, ur obviously overly horny, ur living in the west, surrounded by sex, ur obviously gonna be obsessed with sex and think u cant live without it
But when u live a life of celibacy, u cut off all kinds of negative influence, dont watch any suggestive movies and tv and completely block out anything haram, u limit ur interaction with women, etc etc, then u learn about life in general, u see how little sex is part of anyones life, there are way more bigger things to worry about, its mostly young horny teenagers who are obsessed with sex all the time,
long story short, when u go on this journey, u will realise, u literally dont care for sex, sure I am still attracted to women, I may have an almost moment of weakness around a baddie, but I ain't gonna do anything, not only is it haram, but it benefits me in no way in this dunya, U basically gotta fight ur nafs until u reach a point where u dont desire sex anymore
Otherwise ur just gonna commit zina, u cant desire sex for 10 years and just be cool, it will kill u
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How old are u?
If u in your 40’s or late 30’s it’s understandable, if not.
 
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Taij4an

Kane said:
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Umm
I can have sex with a women and please her and not care about sex myself, i mean thats kinda what i think ur supposed to do anyway
Sex is key for alot of ppl relationships, but its not the core part, i think steve harvey sed if u have it then it will only be 5% of importance to ur relationship but if u dont have it it will be 90% issue in ur relationship.
Ppl overvalue sex too much in this day and age.

A womens pleasure has got nothing to do with my desire for sex Kane, I can please a women and not care about it myself, I
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Taij4an

AllStarSaciid said:
You don’t feel like this….
:wow:
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Are you a virgin?
Sex feels good, ok, and then what?
Heroin feels good too, so does cocaine, so does junk food, but I am not interested in any of those things.
Yes I have a natural attraction to women, but I have no desire for these pleasures in life, I see past the delusion of it, in fact it eventually gets boring with the same women again and again, and if you decide to do it with different women, u go on an endless chase for novelty with diminishing returns, u never actually get what you want, either way, you don't get what you want, therefore I choose to not care about it.
If u need help controlling ur desires there are obviously practical ways to help u
 
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Taij4an said:
Are you a virgin?
Sex feels good, ok, and then what?
Heroin feels good too, so does cocaine, so does junk food, but I am not interested in any of those things.
Yes I have a natural attraction to women, but I have no desire for these pleasures in life, I see past the delusion of it, in fact it eventually gets boring with the same women again and again, and if you decide to do it with different women, u go on an endless chase for novelty with diminishing returns, u never actually get what you want, either way, you don't get what you want, therefore I choose to not care about it.
If u need help controlling ur desires there are obviously practical ways to help u
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What is it that u want bruh? Tell me honestly. What do u want from a relationship.
:farmajoyaab:
 
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