If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

[Taij4an]

What, so you don't want to be in live with someone?

Nope have 0 interest in that

 

[lilmoon]

Who said I don't have friends?

You said you don't understand companionship, which is a synonym of friendship. What were you doing with your life if you didn't know that? You make me concerned sometimes.

 

[Taij4an]

If you got married then wouldn't you be romantically involved with your wife, not just having kids with her?

I wouldnt want to but I would be forced to because women like that stuff, so i will just pretend to
Also I dont even want kids,

 

[lilmoon]

Nope have 0 interest in that

Ok u do u... I am guessing u don't wanna get married then?

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Who said I don't have friends?

I think u have to get your testosterone levels checked man.

 

[Taij4an]

You said you don't understand companionship, which is a synonym of friendship. What were you doing with your life if you didn't know that? You make me concerned sometimes.

Friends are just friends, u hang out with them, have fun, all of that jazz, but its not something i deeply care about or need, i like to be alone alot of the time, I am not that attached to having copanionship that I actually desire it
plus companionship in marriage is completely different, ur basically dedicated ur whole liffe to one person being around them all the time, i dont desire that in anyway at all
like i dont understand why ppl want to be around other ppl, i dont get the appeal

 

[Taij4an]

Ok u do u... I am guessing u don't wanna get married then?

nope

 

[Taij4an]

What has any of this got to do with testosterone?

I think u have to get your testosterone levels checked man.

 

[lilmoon]

I wouldnt want to but I would be forced to because women like that stuff, so i will just pretend to
Also I dont even want kids

Save urself the trouble then. Hmmmm... U seem like someone who either finds it hard to love ppl bc of trust issues or because no one has shown it to u, except ur family. Just an observation, you obvs have the right to be offended.

 

[lilmoon]

Friends are just friends, u hang out with them, have fun, all of that jazz, but its not something i deeply care about or need, i like to be alone alot of the time, I am not that attached to having copanionship that I actually desire it
plus companionship in marriage is completely different, ur basically dedicated ur whole liffe to one person being around them all the time, i dont desire that in anyway at all
like i dont understand why ppl want to be around other ppl, i dont get the appeal

Interesting..... I like being alone but for the rest of my life for long periods of time.... I wouldn't like it. But hey ho, we all are different.

 

[Taij4an]

Save urself the trouble then. Hmmmm... U seem like someone who either finds it hard to love ppl bc of trust issues or because no one has shown it to u, except ur family. Just an observation, you obvs have the right to be offended.

Ngl I probably have what ppl would say is a great family, in fact i think they show too much love, i hate it sometimes, even though normal ppl would say my family just show normal levels of love, but i hate it so much, even a normal level is too much
I dont rly have trust issues, i just never cared for love, but a certain part of it is just me people able to see through the facade of it, and not really investing myself in anyone, I can be kind to u and not love u, I would say I am more of just calm kind of person, not rly loving, I also dont like expecting good from ppl etc, bc i know everything is imperfect, I cant really love anything that much

 

[Taij4an]

Interesting..... I like being alone but for the rest of my life for long periods of time.... I wouldn't like it. But hey ho, we all are different.

I think for women its much different, ur like biologically designed to want to be in a relatinshp and be obsessed with that stuff, and want children and stuff to look after
men are also designed like that too, but i feel like women care alot more about long term relationship stuff in general

 

[AllStarSaciid]

What has any of this got to do with testosterone?

It’s either you’re an asexual or you’re low test.

 

[lilmoon]

I think for women its much different, ur like biologically designed to want to be in a relatinshp and be obsessed with that stuff, and want children and stuff to look after
men are also designed like that too, but i feel like women care alot more about long term relationship stuff in general

Fair enough, btw its not really an obsession that word is wrong but igu, either way many women like being alone, and they don't want kids or a husband, not bc of feminism or anything, that doesn't need to be a factor, its just being alone, and liking your own company, which is cool too and I admire that u got ur own vibe even if it seems kinda weird to me at first.

 

[Taij4an]

It’s either you’re an asexual or you’re low test.

Nah I chose to not care about sex I wasn't born like this

 

[GuanYu]

What happens if you don't care about trivial stuff like "your name and abtiris"

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Nope wrong, not only is that wrong, but according to the ppl who voted, most of them would still get married even if they didn't have sex, marriage isn't about sex, thats a very small part of it


And Lastly Sex is not overrated. It is just overtalked.

Sex is very much overrated

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[lilmoon]

Ngl I probably have what ppl would say is a great family, in fact i think they show too much love, i hate it sometimes, even though normal ppl would say my family just show normal levels of love, but i hate it so much, even a normal level is too much
I dont rly have trust issues, i just never cared for love, but a certain part of it is just me people able to see through the facade of it, and not really investing myself in anyone, I can be kind to u and not love u, I would say I am more of just calm kind of person, not rly loving, I also dont like expecting good from ppl etc, bc i know everything is imperfect, I cant really love anything that much

AllahumaBarik, that's great, tbh I never meant u have a bad family, but u don't even like ur own family's love for u, because it seems too much? Well they are your blood u know. Do u at least feel love for them, or express it to them, not verbally but by doing things maybe? Like buying ur mum an abaya or your lil bro a skl bag, that sort of thing?

 

[Taij4an]

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I don't care about those things, yes they made sacrifices and I am grateful for it, but their is no obligation on me to have children, its not like I have to have children, but I do understand for some ppl who want children it is an honourable thing, u are carrying on all the sacrifices your ancestors made to make the world a better place, and also carrying on the legacy so to say


Their are alot of reasons to marry if you have no desire, as ppl said, companionship, love, childre, building a family, etc..

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Nah I chose to not care about sex I wasn't born like this

Bruh u can’t just “choose” to not care abt your primal instincts waryaa.

They don’t go away. Just get tested to see if your hormones are not the problem.

 

[Taij4an]

Do u at least feel love for them, or express it to them,

Yes but not in the sense ppl describe it
I feel like the wat ppl describe love and what I actually feel is different, mine is more of just appreciation and wanting good for them, its not this lovey dovey feeling and caring so much about them and liking to hang out with them and all of that.