If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

[Taij4an]

Not everyone is build for marriage innit ?
Imagine your wife has to live with her parents or alone ,if you don't see a problem with that then i don't know tbh...

I would excpet her to live with me but I dont want to live with her ygm

 

[Basra]

Not everyone is build for marriage innit ?
Imagine your wife has to live with her parents or alone ,if you don't see a problem with that then i don't know tbh...

Can i ride on your motorcycle?

 

[Velœcity]

I want 9-12 kids so even so yes. I want to create my own empire by 2075

 

[GuanYu]

Yh but I prefer to be alone.
Like if I meet up with my spouse every friday for a couple hours then go back home I wouldn't see that as abnormal
but every day 24/7 is not companionship that is just too much like wth

My man, meeting up with your SPOUSE every friday is absolutely not normal, The whole reason she is your spouse is because you'd rather spend your time with her.

 

[Velœcity]

My man, meeting up with your SPOUSE every friday is absolutely not normal, The whole reason she is your spouse is because you'd rather spend your time with her.

Who knows you might be kissing her goodbye just for her to be railed by 5 different men imagine that fear.

 

[Taij4an]

you'd rather spend your time with her.

Nah I cannot spend all my time with one person I need a break
Thats why I really cant have kids

 

[Taij4an]

Who knows you might be kissing her goodbye just for her to be railed by 5 different men imagine that fear.

I wouldn't have that fear if I am married to her.

 

[Angelina]

You shouldn't pursue marriage sxb

There are women like him. Hopefully he finds an anti-social one.

 

[Velœcity]

Nah I cannot spend all my time with one person I need a break
Thats why I really cant have kids

Imo once you get married you have to devote your life to her and your kids and continue that until they can go out to the world and do there own shit. And continue to live with her.

also bro you might be looking to early into the future, im talking about when your in your mid or late 30s or even early 40s. When your in your 20s live your life Sxb go explore the world and shit.

this is my opinion though

 

[GuanYu]

Who knows you might be kissing her goodbye just for her to be railed by 5 different men imagine that fear.

Fucking Hell, That's why it's important to know what kind of person she was and what inclination she might have. If her past is known to be of the sort, then Marriage no way happens.
But the whole point of marriage is supposed to be based on trust, If you're worried about it like that then there were precursors that you might not have seen.

 

[Velœcity]

I wouldn't have that fear if I am married to her.

Who knows, if you visit her 2 hours only of the week who’s stopping her from dating other guys take that into perspective. And also girls like waking up next to there man not in some low income apartment by themselves.

 

[Sajid]

Sister @Basra

What about this ayah

سورة الأنعام​

وَمَنْ أَظْلَمُ مِمَّنِ افْتَرَىٰ عَلَى اللَّهِ كَذِبًا أَوْ قَالَ أُوحِيَ إِلَيَّ وَلَمْ يُوحَ إِلَيْهِ شَيْءٌ وَمَنْ قَالَ سَأُنْزِلُ مِثْلَ مَا أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ ۗ وَلَوْ تَرَىٰ إِذِ الظَّالِمُونَ فِي غَمَرَاتِ الْمَوْتِ وَالْمَلَائِكَةُ بَاسِطُو أَيْدِيهِمْ أَخْرِجُوا أَنْفُسَكُمُ ۖ الْيَوْمَ تُجْزَوْنَ عَذَابَ الْهُونِ بِمَا كُنْتُمْ تَقُولُونَ عَلَى اللَّهِ غَيْرَ الْحَقِّ وَكُنْتُمْ عَنْ آيَاتِهِ تَسْتَكْبِرُونَ ﴿٩٣﴾

Surah al-An'am​

93. Who does more wrong than someone who invents lies against Allah, or says, “It was revealed to me,” when nothing was revealed to him, or says, “I can reveal the like of what Allah revealed”? If only you could see the wrongdoers in the floods of death, while the angels with arms outstretched: “Give up your souls. Today you will be repaid with the suffering of shame for having said about Allah other than the truth, and for being too proud to accept His revelations.”

 

[Taij4an]

Who knows, if you visit her 2 hours only of the week who’s stopping her from dating other guys take that into perspective. And also girls like waking up next to there man not in some low income apartment by themselves.

Who knows u could live with ur wife and she is cheating on u

 

[GuanYu]

Nah I cannot spend all my time with one person I need a break
Thats why I really cant have kids

Your ancestors didn't have you to cut the abtiris short

Yeah i get the meaning you need a break ofcourse, but the whole point of a spouse is you enjoy your time together in the short dunya, that is why it is important you pick a woman whose company you actually enjoy, There'll be times she annoys you ofc and you annoy her. But such is life.
IK kids are Bloody annoying but you were a kid once, weren't you annoying too?

 

[Taij4an]

T

IK kids are Bloody annoying but you were a kid once, weren't you annoying too?

Thats doesnt mean anything to me why should I want kids just because I used to be one

 

[Taij4an]

that is why it is important you pick a woman whose company you actually enjoy,

I dont think I enjoy being with anyone 24/7 I need a break from ppl I love being alone too much

 

[Velœcity]

I dont think I enjoy being with anyone 24/7 I need a break from ppl I love being alone too much

That’s everyone bro I feel u.

 

[GuanYu]

T

Thats doesnt mean anything to me why should I want kids just because I used to be one

Yes that i can understand, I used the incorrect example, and therfore I cancel that out. and Use the first statement which was, your ancestors didn't have you to cut the abtiris short.

I dont think I enjoy being with anyone 24/7 I need a break from ppl I love being alone too much

You're not necessarily are with your spouse 24/7, there maybe things you need to do, she may need to visit her relatives and go work etc depending.
the whole point of a spouse is so you can be Alone together no? Give it sometime you'll understand what i mean.

But yeah there might be more to this than i may have expected. So Sxb this is where I make my Exit

 

[Taij4an]

the whole point of a spouse is so you can be Alone together no?

Brother this is the whole point in my post.
Cut sex out the equation would u really care about being in a relationship

 

[GuanYu]

Brother this is the whole point in my post.
Cut sex out the equation would u really care about being in a relationship

Nope