If you weren't interested in sex, you had no desire for it, would you still want to get married.

[Taij4an]

that is in yomul deen/qiyama

No the verse clearly says when the hour is estalished meaning the hour has not estalished prior to that so they are being punished before yawmul qiyama

 

[Basra]

No the verse clearly says when the hour is estalished meaning the hour has not estalished prior to that so they are being punished before yawmul qiyama

Tai please STOP creating your own interpretations from the air

 

[Taij4an]

Tai please STOP creating your own interpretations from the air

Basra do u understand arabic.
The fire is exposed to them morning and night
And when the day of judgement happens they will be told to enter the severest punishment

Clearly day of judgement happens after the fire is exposed to them morening and evening
therefore we can deduce that this is in the grave
every single tafseer says this

 

[Basra]

Basra do u understand arabic.
The fire is exposed to them morning and night
And when the day of judgement happens they will be told to enter the severest punishment

Clearly day of judgement happens after the fire is exposed to them morening and evening
therefore we can deduce that this is in the grave
every single tafseer says this

exposed means they will see the fire with their eyes, and then enter on that day

 

[Taij4an]

exposed means they will see the fire with their eyes, and then enter on that day

they are exposed day and night. they must be somewhere day and night before yawmul qiyama

 

[Basra]

they are exposed day and night. they must be somewhere day and night before yawmul qiyama

Do you think Yomul Xisaab is a day thing? Many Many days. Again, nothing in that verse shows the grave will have punishment. Period and a Dot!

 

[Taij4an]

Do you think Yomul Xisaab is a day thing? Many Many days. Again, nothing in that verse shows the grave will have punishment. Period and a Dot!

وَحَاقَ بِـَالِ فِرْعَوْنَ سُوءُ الْعَذَابِ
(while an evil torment encompassed Fir`awn's people.) this refers to drowning in the sea, then being transferred from there to Hell, for their souls are exposed to the Fire morning and evening until the Hour begins. When the Day of Resurrection comes, their souls and bodies will be reunited in Hell. Allah says:

وَيَوْمَ تَقُومُ السَّاعَةُ أَدْخِلُواْ ءَالَ فِرْعَوْنَ أَشَدَّ الْعَذَابِ
(And on the Day when the Hour will be established (it will be said to the angels): "Admit Fir`awn's people to the severest torment!") meaning, more intense pain and greater agony. This Ayah contains one of the major proofs used by the Ahlus-Sunnah to prove that there will be torment in the grave during the period of Al-Barzakh; it is the phrase:

النَّارُ يُعْرَضُونَ عَلَيْهَا غُدُوّاً وَعَشِيّاً

 

[Basra]

وَحَاقَ بِـَالِ فِرْعَوْنَ سُوءُ الْعَذَابِ
(while an evil torment encompassed Fir`awn's people.) this refers to drowning in the sea, then being transferred from there to Hell, for their souls are exposed to the Fire morning and evening until the Hour begins. When the Day of Resurrection comes, their souls and bodies will be reunited in Hell. Allah says:

وَيَوْمَ تَقُومُ السَّاعَةُ أَدْخِلُواْ ءَالَ فِرْعَوْنَ أَشَدَّ الْعَذَابِ
(And on the Day when the Hour will be established (it will be said to the angels): "Admit Fir`awn's people to the severest torment!") meaning, more intense pain and greater agony. This Ayah contains one of the major proofs used by the Ahlus-Sunnah to prove that there will be torment in the grave during the period of Al-Barzakh; it is the phrase:

النَّارُ يُعْرَضُونَ عَلَيْهَا غُدُوّاً وَعَشِيّاً

Still their souls could be exposed to fire day and night in Barzaq

 

[Taij4an]

Still their souls could be exposed to fire day and night in Barzaq

barzakh is the grave

 

[Basra]

barzakh is the grave

Nope. Barzaq is where the souls are stored, like a library

 

[Taij4an]

Nope. Barzaq is where the souls are stored, like a library

No barzakh is the time in the grave
that is why when the horn is blown ppl will get out from there graves, because they were in their graves

 

[Basra]

No barzakh is the time in the grave
that is why when the horn is blown ppl will get out from there graves, because they were in their graves

Anyway-- i am not going to argue all day. It still stands- that no grave punishment is mentioned in Quran. However, Hadith exists numeral references.

 

[Taij4an]

Anyway-- i am not going to argue all day. It still stands- that no grave punishment is mentioned in Quran. However, Hadith exists numeral references.

Where are they being punished then if its not in the grave?

 

[Basra]

Where are they being punished then if its not in the grave?

My understanding is-- and of course Allaah swt knows best-- is people are temporarily terrorized immediately after burial, before even people walk away from burying you. That is when Prophet pbuh said the person in the grave is being punished. I am assuming during questioning times- where Munkar and the other visits u

 

[Bundasliga]

Yh but I prefer to be alone.
Like if I meet up with my spouse every friday for a couple hours then go back home I wouldn't see that as abnormal
but every day 24/7 is not companionship that is just too much like wth

You shouldn't pursue marriage sxb

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Hell no. I'd just keep my money for me. Fk the next generation, we're all gonna die anyway. I'm gonna live it up till I die riding solo fam.

 

[Rakoon]

Is better to get married even if you don't desire sex because marriage is a blessing and an investment
Plus if you are married to a xalimo you not gonna have too much sex anyways coz most of them are super tired all the time and have iron deficiencies

 

[Taij4an]

You shouldn't pursue marriage sxb

I am not planning to

 

[Basra]

I am not planning to

Why is @Bundasliga discouraging u?

 

[Bundasliga]

Why is @Bundasliga discouraging u?

Not everyone is build for marriage innit ?
Imagine your wife has to live with her parents or alone ,if you don't see a problem with that then i don't know tbh...