Why is it Haram for women to get their pubic hair waxed or lasered by a beautian? When we deliver children infront of women and male doctors?
One is a necessity while the other is not. Just as you are allowed to eat non-halal meat when in extreme necessity, you are allowed to deliver children in front of unrelated persons (still not men if women are available!), not because it is unrestrictedly allowed but because it is an emergency. Such situations have their special rulings.
You can only warn those who follow the Reminder and are in awe of the Most Compassionate without seeing Him. So give them good news of forgiveness and an honourable reward.
Just do it. It’s halal to trim or wax. Don’t ask for particulars. It’s only the extremists that go that meta. It’s one thing to let your eyebrows get out of control bc it’s “natural”, but another thing not to take care of self-care/hygiene.Shaving is a must every 40 days, but the question is can another women do it for you?