If she demands a big meher, she don't love you

[Schematics]

Regardless of what she says or how you feel. You're buying a wife.

Everyway you look at it, Islamic community made siil pricy saxib. You can't lay a finger on it unless you pay. And maintenance of that love-cave and being responsible for it after you buy is expected. Damn! At least a beautiful one is worthy of my silver.

I guess all for a good reason.

 

[Kodeen]

So you guys want four wives but god forbid she asks your broke asses for a big mehr.

Red herring! To be honest, if I allowed myself to be bought, I too would worry about getting traded in for a brand new 1999 plate when wear and tear starts showing.

Naa caraweelo uu jawab. This kaafir is always dissing islam.

Who are you calling kaafir? Minnesota needs to do better. I never said Meher needs to go.

@A_A I guess if you were born in London you would be an exceptional fanfic writer. On the flip side you would also hate your father, but then again everyone has different priorities!

 

[Suldaanka]

Red herring! To be honest, if I allowed myself to be bought, I too would worry about getting traded in for a brand new 1999 plate when wear and tear starts showing.



Who are you calling kaafir? Minnesota needs to do better. I never said Meher needs to go.

@A_A I guess if you were born in London you would be an exceptional fanfic writer. On the flip side you would also hate your father, but then again everyone has different priorities!

Caraweela said meher needs to be forgotten. Not you.

 

[A_A]

Red herring! To be honest, if I allowed myself to be bought, I too would worry about getting traded in for a brand new 1999 plate when wear and tear starts showing.



Who are you calling kaafir? Minnesota needs to do better. I never said Meher needs to go.

@A_A I guess if you were born in London you would be an exceptional fanfic writer. On the flip side you would also hate your father, but then again everyone has different priorities!

See what you've done @Dalmoor ???? This is all your fault!

 

[Dalmoor]

See what you've done @Dalmoor ???? This is all your fault!

How's it my fault?


We don't even know each other. What was your name? Are you a new user?

 

[Hmmmm]

You guys are poor and don't have good jobs. I'll offer 20k

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[Dalmoor]

Or in the case of a convert, 1 apple

Xaliimoos' mehr with the following people;

• Abu Tyrone.
• white revert.
• Babatundey.
• Ex cons.
• Bushmen.

The requirment for the marriage is:




Just an apple. Only 1 apple.

Credits to @Armadillo

 

[Reer-Bari]

Its typically the family that demands the mehr, usually some dusty old odey

Look for a Xalimo who has a single parent.:siilaanyolaugh:

nope thats not it. only the girl has a say in how much she gets. the parents dont even find out untill the wedding night. when its already to late

 

[Reer-Bari]

They didnt pay that much. No Somali man ends up paying it anyways. Its just a script.

thats haram. the mehr is the womans right. you got to pay depending on when you agreed to pay it. but its the womans right

 

[Suldaanka]

thats haram. the mehr is the womans right. you got to pay depending on when you agreed to pay it. but its the womans right

Lakiin dhaqanka baan sheegay. Runta lama bixiya. Aniga 1 one forgave it. Second one i gave her father a new ak47.
Lakiin most od the time its an insurance policy so they dont ask for it

 

[Reer-Bari]

Lakiin dhaqanka baan sheegay. Runta lama bixiya. Aniga 1 one forgave it. Second one i gave her father a new ak47.
Lakiin most od the time its an insurance policy so they dont ask for it

yea your right.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

I also have reer xamar accent









Maybe that's why we understand each other so well @Abdalla







If I lose my Puntite card, I'm coming after you @Gambar

 

[Desert Flower]

Its up to the woman to ask for whatever she wants.

Either pay up, or KIM.

And someone mentioned buying furniture from IKEA?? Thats not gonna fly

 

[Tukraq]

Xaliimoos' mehr with the following people;

• Abu Tyrone.
• white revert.
• Babatundey.
• Ex cons.
• Bushmen.

The requirment for the marriage is:




Just an apple. Only 1 apple.
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Credits to @Armadillo

For this reason I’m not offering more than one surah, which is worth more than money in the eyes of allah subhanahu wa tacala @halwa

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

@Reiko hates hawiye cause whenever she speaks she is reminded of them. Shes a self hater.
Reiko the linguistic hawiye.

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@Abdalla is that why you spoke in english when you revealed your voice, because you sound like caydiid

 

[Suldaanka]

@Reiko hates hawiye cause whenever she speaks she is reminded of them. Shes a self hater.
Reiko the linguistic hawiye.

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@Abdalla is that why you spoke in english when you revealed your voice, because you sound like caydiid

Reeeiiko NoooH

 

[AliUK]

I think its rare, the vast majority pay around 1-2k

Or in the case of a convert, 1 apple

UK is around £5000 I think now.

 

[HalimaJ]

Its a gift a man must give to the woman.

Men in 2019 want all the privileges, but non of the responsibility.

Women are prizes, and one must pay up and provide.

 

[Lostbox]

Its a gift a man must give to the woman.

Men in 2019 want all the privileges, but non of the responsibility.

Women are prizes, and one must pay up and provide.

How are women the prize? They want a man that's smarter than them, wealthier then them and so on. The guys probably better than them in every other way, other then looks. You guys marry up and better then what men are doing. So how are they the prize?

Its up to the woman to ask for whatever she wants. Either pay up, or KIM. And someone mentioned buying furniture from IKEA?? Thats not gonna fly

Also, why do Somalis families want you to pay others don't? No only that their families will provide you with gifts? People wanted to give me a small cut of their real estate, part of their business, access to their family fortunes and even smaller families where willing to give me a new car but Somali families? They want you to pay them. Even my mother laught at them. Don't they know how to provide basic value?

 

[HalimaJ]

How are women the prize? They want a man that's smarter than them, wealthier then them and so on. The guys probably better than them in every other way, other then looks. You guys marry up and better then what men are doing. So how are they the prize?



Also, why do Somalis families want you to pay others don't? No only that their families will provide you with gifts? People wanted to give me a small cut of their real estate, part of their business, access to their family fortunes and even smaller families where willing to give me a new car but Somali families? They want you to pay them. Even my mother laught at them. Don't they know how to provide basic value?

Better? Now that is subjective.

Women being the prize has always been this way.

Hence, why in every society until very recently, men would pursue women, pay Mahr/dowry, ask her families permission to be with her ect. Men in the past fought wars over women.

Men deep down have always deemed women as being the prize. Even men's pursuit of wealth is mostly motivated by getting women.