I resent Somali parents who get remarried especially the ones who get married multiple times and have children with different partners. I remember I lived with this lady who had 3 kids with 2 fathers and was looking for a third husband 
She was a struggling nurse whoβs ex wouldnβt financially help at all and she was talking about going to the Middle East to find a husband. I also saw a old man on TIktok who had married 20 WOMEN in his lifetime. Do they not think how messed up the family dynamic might be? Do they not think of how they might neglect some of their children?
Iβm the only kid of my mom and dad and everyone else is just a half sibling. It feels divided into teams walahi and Im just a one man band
Itβs really a mindfuck growing up with 4+ siblings with the same mom and dad and also having a huge age gap + war trauma ptsd kids who fucking hate my dad and cuss him out all the time.
They treated me well when I was a kid because they like kids but once I grew older and they saw my fathers face I think thatβs when the bitterness and harsh treatment really hit even though they still tried to support me and weβre kind but it was not the same as with each other.
Whenever I would argue with one of my siblings, the rest would band together to defend them as if I were an outsider arguing with their family walahi the one thing I really resent my mom for is the fact that she didnβt bother giving me a sibling so at least Iβd have someone.
They all live with each other peacefully even my mentally ill brother who causes so much harm, but I barely graduated high school from how many times I was kicked out of the house It got to a point where all of them would band together and when I would argue with one (angsty teenage behavior) they would all grab me from either side and shove me out of the house (hooyo included)
Anyway I wish I could order a rule in Somalia culture that you CANT remarry with more than 2 kids!!!! and cap at only 2 MARRIAGES!!!!!!!
She was a struggling nurse whoβs ex wouldnβt financially help at all and she was talking about going to the Middle East to find a husband. I also saw a old man on TIktok who had married 20 WOMEN in his lifetime. Do they not think how messed up the family dynamic might be? Do they not think of how they might neglect some of their children?
Iβm the only kid of my mom and dad and everyone else is just a half sibling. It feels divided into teams walahi and Im just a one man band
Itβs really a mindfuck growing up with 4+ siblings with the same mom and dad and also having a huge age gap + war trauma ptsd kids who fucking hate my dad and cuss him out all the time.They treated me well when I was a kid because they like kids but once I grew older and they saw my fathers face I think thatβs when the bitterness and harsh treatment really hit even though they still tried to support me and weβre kind but it was not the same as with each other.
Whenever I would argue with one of my siblings, the rest would band together to defend them as if I were an outsider arguing with their family
walahi the one thing I really resent my mom for is the fact that she didnβt bother giving me a sibling so at least Iβd have someone.They all live with each other peacefully even my mentally ill brother who causes so much harm, but I barely graduated high school from how many times I was kicked out of the house
It got to a point where all of them would band together and when I would argue with one (angsty teenage behavior) they would all grab me from either side and shove me out of the house (hooyo included)Anyway I wish I could order a rule in Somalia culture that you CANT remarry with more than 2 kids!!!! and cap at only 2 MARRIAGES!!!!!!!
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