I TRULY NEED Y’ALLS ADVICE: I am in agony over deciding which Xaliimo to marry and which one to designate a concubine

[Grigori Rasputin]

Here’s the details.

I swear I ain’t kidding..

Candidate Xaliimo number 1.

She’s educated, has grown up here with her valley girl accent. Not in tune with Somali affairs, does not give an eff abt it which is good.
She has two kids, is abt to blow up financially (recently opened pharmacy transportation business). She hella smart.
my issue with her is she’s about the finer things in life. She wants the most expensive stuff. There's another factor that is pulling me away from her that I can’t disclose. I honestly like her (I do not allow myself to love a female. It’s against my principles ).

Candidate Xaliimo 2

has 1 kid, has been here for over a decade. Can’t really speak English but somehow gets by with what she knows. She’s pretty traditional. She’s cute. She has a source of income due to a tragedy and has a section 8. She’s ok with me having a second wife. She also doesn’t mind me having her back home while I work here and support her ( I’ll look after her section 8). She’s what y’all call a fob. However, I am leaning heavily towards her. But please use your judgement and guide me to your opinion.

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Nigga diggin them baby mommas

 

[486th President]

I’m assuming both of the females know you

 

[486th President]

Number 1 isn’t in love with you she’s in love with that lacaag that good shilling you feel me

 

[Basra]

 

[Capone]

If I were you I’d cancel both of em out. I wouldn’t marry a lady with kids from a previous marriage. Why raise a kid that isn’t yours?

 

[486th President]

Why raise a kid that isn’t yours?

Don’t see anything wrong with that

 

[Sumaaya]

You sound like an opportunist. Anyway, what do you have to offer them?

 

[Sumaaya]

If I were you I’d cancel both of em out. I wouldn’t marry a lady with kids from a previous marriage. Why raise a kid that isn’t yours?

It takes a noble man to a raise children that are not yours, and to raise them well at that too

 

[0117]

This guy went from wanting to wife a virgin to settling with baby mommas

Go for the fob if you don't want to go through another divorce

 

[486th President]

if you don't want to go through another divorce

Bruh

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

This guy went from wanting to wife a virgin to settling with baby mommas

Go for the fob if you don't want to go through another divorce

This is my train of thought.

I will use her as a factory. I have no time to be held down. It’s the 21st century. I like to just pick up my things and go. I don’t want no xaliimo tying me down. She’s willing to be based back home. I will go there occasionally for my duties.

 

[486th President]

This is my train of thought.

I will use her as a factory. I have no time to be held down. It’s the 21st century. I like to just pick up my things and go. I don’t want no xaliimo tying me down. She’s willing to be based back home. I will go there occasionally for my duties.

What is your age range

 

[Basra]

This is my train of thought.

I will use her as a factory. I have no time to be held down. It’s the 21st century. I like to just pick up my things and go. I don’t want no xaliimo tying me down. She’s willing to be based back home. I will go there occasionally for my duties.

@Grigori Rasputin how are you and @Finesse related ???

 

[0117]

@Grigori Rasputin how are you and @Finesse related ???

Could she be the ex?

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

What is your age range

18-27

(if back home, negotiable)

 

[Alluring]

You said the second is okay with polygamy right? Just marry both

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

You sound like an opportunist. Anyway, what do you have to offer them?

A man who works. A man who’s relatively intelligent. A man who’s always about following the path of our forefathers. A man who will try his best to educate his kids. A man who will not abuse her. She can leave the marriage any moment. No strings attached. ( if she chooses to divorce I have no obligation to pay her $1k Meher).

 

[Alluring]

*A man who is mentally ill

Fixed it for you

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

You said the second is okay with polygamy right? Just marry both

The Americanized one won’t have it. She’s feisty. She screams at me and belittles me. I give her the silent treatment and she comes back calling me all emotional. I am very thankful for my G.us. It has disciplined her.