I learned a truth
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Just speak plainly and tell us what happened to you.
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You finally figured out she didnt want aroos but wanted that 100k in mehr so she add it to her stock portfolio and lets not forget she wanted an apartment in Mogadishu in her name purchased out right. Ayoo gave young Xalimo the game
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Well here what's happened and by the way she is a puntite queen
.a little background info first. I as a person loves women and have formed deep personal relationships with quite a lot, the reason I am able to do this is because I always use my mind in this relationships never the heart. So one of my deep and affectionate friends and I have to give it up here to the mj ladies they are a kind of a class above the rest and this coming from an isaac guy taught me this important lesson practically. We are quite close and I was completely confident of our relationship that I had no problem introducing her to my friends I normally do that with my girlfriends. One of this friends I had introduced her to was a non somali guy who always pesters me about introducing him to somali women as he has seen me with a lot of them. I am actually quite racist when it comes to mixing because I believe that can only happen in a pure Islamic environment which doesn't exist now this non somali friend is a Muslim and quite rich. And my somali lady friend knows my position on non somali and actually seems to share it as she had led me to believe so I was secure in the introduction.i even refused for him to join us on a trio we took me ,my girlfriend her somali girlfriend and a somali male friend of mine who suggested we include the non somali as he was mutual and close friend whom he valued for the money. I flatly refused infront of them all without the non somali guy knowledge. This non somali guy really developed a deep liking of the girl as my other friend and I would shower deep praise on her which was deserving. And one thing this girl would do is always inform me of my friends when she met them and those who would hit at her and as they were somali it wouldn't bother me. So out of the blue the other day a somali friend of mine who knew the girl as I had introduced her to him and who was a deeper racist than me come to me accusingly telling me why do you introduce our girls to non somalis and proceeded to tell me that she had seen my girl and her sister with the non somali guy coming out of a restaurant and they greeted him even getting a hug from my girl and they got on into his sleek and expensive car. It was quite a shocker to me and he told me he thought like they were comfortable not looking like it was the first time. I was really shocked but then took it in stride. It so happened that the next day I had a dinner date with her sister who had come from the states that week and her for her sister's sake. Well we met the next day and she was all lovely dovey when I picked them and when we went to the dinner I mainly turned my attention to her sister claiming that it was her night. She noticed as women quickly do that i wasn't my usual self and I attributed it to taxing day and that her sister as the guest was the centre of attention for the day. And we left and I dropped them at their place and she didn't volunteer any information and I didn't ask, oddly so as she knew my friend had seen them. I decided to totally disconnect her and not to pick her calls again. The only reason I could fathom for her actions are his money and the probability that she would want to spite me. Hence my conclusion that women don't have standards but interests.We not readin allat lil broWell here what's happened and by the way she is a puntite queen
Well here what's happened and by the way she is a puntite queen
Let me get this straight.
1. You have a 'girlfriend'.
2. You also have a Muslim friend who is wealthy, who pestered you about introducing him to Somali girls.
3. You introduce your rich, Muslim friend to your 'girlfriend' and her friends.
4. Your friend, whose gender, doesn't make sense to me, see Exhibit A below this. tells you, that he/she saw your 'girlfriend' and her sister get out of a restaurant your rich Muslim guy friend, and then enter his car.
Here is the part that doesn't make sense to me. The 'eyewitness' friend, the gender of this person changes within 2 sentences. One minute it is 'she', the next it is 'he'.
Exhibit A.
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Is this a copypasta? or a fanfic, I swear it reads like oneWell here what's happened and by the way she is a puntite queen
Another issue with your story;
The eyewitness whose gender has changed from SHE to HE, told you he/she saw your girlfriend + her sister hanging out with your rich Muslim guy friend. What if she was simply chaperoning her sister on a date? What is wrong with that?
YOU are the one who brought this man into your circle of friends.
Seems to me;
1. You made this story up
2. This is real, and you are jealous of the rich guy, simply for being rich.
Finally, nobody has harmed you. None of these women are your wives, they are free to see who they want. If you want exclusivity, put a ring on it. You just made a bunch of assumptions instead of giving the benefit of the doubt.
And then instead of communicating, asking questions, you decide to ignore her, focus on her sister instead (very inappropriate), and then GHOST HER.
If you want a relationship, learn how to communicate instead of ghosting and making assumptions, because she and her sister spent time with a man you introduced to them. You even made up a false scenario in your head, that she wants to hurt you. If you really liked her, you fumbled hard for no reason, and probably lost her for good.
The eyewitness whose gender has changed from SHE to HE, told you he/she saw your girlfriend + her sister hanging out with your rich Muslim guy friend. What if she was simply chaperoning her sister on a date? What is wrong with that?
YOU are the one who brought this man into your circle of friends.
Seems to me;
1. You made this story up
2. This is real, and you are jealous of the rich guy, simply for being rich.
Finally, nobody has harmed you. None of these women are your wives, they are free to see who they want. If you want exclusivity, put a ring on it. You just made a bunch of assumptions instead of giving the benefit of the doubt.
And then instead of communicating, asking questions, you decide to ignore her, focus on her sister instead (very inappropriate), and then GHOST HER.
If you want a relationship, learn how to communicate instead of ghosting and making assumptions, because she and her sister spent time with a man you introduced to them. You even made up a false scenario in your head, that she wants to hurt you. If you really liked her, you fumbled hard for no reason, and probably lost her for good.
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I don't like comments like this on a discussion forum. We come here to talk, if you don't like to read, find a comic book.
The eyewitness friend is a he,sorry if I mistakenly implied otherwise. And dear this has quite nothing to do with me that's why I keep my heart of all my relationships and the non somali couldn't be dating her sister she just came to town and doesn't know people. It is just an eye opener for me in regards to female behaviour and why they do things or stuff. You know I initially used to put them under the same radar as men when judging them, but I quite understand now that they are a different breed and have different attitudes and approaches to life. One thing I have learned is never to expose them to the same situations or circumstances as men.
And also dear it's not exclusivity I seek for like I mentioned I introduce all my girlfriends to my friends and don't mind if they hit on them and even successfully so. It is the ajnebi( non somali thing that bothered me) me used to naively thing that our somali sisters, particularly the smart ones were above that. Learned otherwise the hard way and never shall I again introduce our girls to non somalis.
You know that it takes 1 date to date someone right? In addition, you're not around your 'girlfriend' and her sister 24/7 to know the extent of this relationship. For all you know, they just decided to be friends with the guy YOU INTRODUCED TO THEM.
Finally, you didn't ask her any questions about it, and instead decided to ghost her.
Honestly, if you want a relationship, you need to get out of your head. Stop making negative assumptions and if you don't like competition, don't bring your competition around.
There are people that aren't into Ajnabi at all, but they meet 1 Ajnabi person, that exceeds their expectations and then they adjust their standards. I mean, you did give him a glowing recommendation by bringing him to the ladies. It happens.
Haha like your kind of questioning and engagement. You see as your are rightfully playing the devil's advocate let me ask you this why the secrecy or non volunteering of information on this guy when I am always kept abreast of all other interactions with my other friends even simple hi"s.
I am trying to help you walahi.
If someone doesn't volunteer information, it doesn't mean secrecy. It means they haven't shared that information yet. She could have totally forgotten about it, as she was too busy enjoying your company, or confused as to why you were ignoring her.
If I were you, I would apologise to her for the ghosting and communicate clearly. It's a small world, and you don't want to ruin your reputation by ghosting. Even if you're not interested in her anymore, just say that, don't ignore people, it's rude and hurtful.
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