I got a solution

[Yusuf Abdi Ali Rashid]

You make 998 dollars a year?

Why are you flexing on us like that???

Just felt the need to show Sspot not all Somalis are struggling, and that there are ballers amongst us.

 

[Kisame]

30k for mehr is crazy

Broke ass nigga.

3 months for me I'm saving up 250k

 

[annoymous]

bruh yall make mehr so deep, aint no girl out here expecting u to give her more than 30k thats the max

 

[GreenTapijt]

Tiktok told me recently that somali niggas aren't even paying mehr.



Shout out to those niggas fr. Because why pay an expensive mehr if their is a high chance of the chick divorcing you.

I think these niggas are signing xalimos up for mehr payment plans but aren't fulfilling their end of the agreement.




I've only been to one somali nikah irl and it was my cousin's. Her husband gave her 10k cash the day before the nikah.

This is absurd. Wth happened to modesty

10K is ridiculous. For half of that, you could pay Sooryo, meher, cute Nikkah.

 

[Kisame]

This is absurd. Wth happened to modesty

10K is ridiculous. For half of that, you could pay Sooryo, meher, cute Nikkah.

10k is the norm right now.

 

[Kizaru]

You make 998 dollars a year?

Why are you flexing on us like that???

 

[Yaraye]

This is absurd. Wth happened to modesty

10K is ridiculous. For half of that, you could pay Sooryo, meher, cute Nikkah.

Modesty is code word for BROKE
Plus what entire wedding only costs $5K? Some halls cost $3-4 K by themselves!

 

[Yaraye]

Nah meher should be between 5k to 7k max

Meher can be anything. There is no limit

 

[Yaraye]

what's with the shock? Only 3 month of income, It's very reasonable!

 

[Yaraye]

most somali men earn low wages, or average at best.

Unfortunately

 

[Yaraye]

30k for mehr is crazy

not really, that's normal in some communities

 

[Nilotic]

Nah meher should be between 5k to 7k max

 

[Thelegendhimself]

What if he gets minimum wage?

He's not ready to get married.

 

[Basra]

Plenty of tech nerds that can afford more than meher
Atleast the guys in the west coast are balling

Welcome back

 

[Basra]

He's not ready to get married.

 

[NOT-ACTIVE]

not really, that's normal in some communities

Yea but in those communities women have less freedom in their marriages and don't get to divorce as easily. Is that a compromise you're willing to make?

 

[Hmohamed54]

Plenty of tech nerds that can afford more than meher
Atleast the guys in the west coast are balling

Idk bout that the ones I know paying high mehr or that have big weddings its always parents or families paying for it all.

 

[GaraadAli]

I Agree with the 3 Months Salary, since everyman regardless of salary type in the west can save that amount.

 

[Nin123]

Meher can be anything. There is no limit

Are you ok if the meher is cat or an apple??

 

[Nin123]

Does south Sudanese nilot have meher customs?