I feel like am sleep walking through life.

[Ladylike]

Sometimes I wish I can skip to my retirement age lol having kids getting married all the things I use to look forward to now seems draining to me.

 

[Cajiib]

what changed?

 

[Goodbye ✌]

Sometimes I wish I can skip to my retirement age lol having kids getting married all the things I use to look forward to now seems draining to me.

Do you maladaptive daydream by any chance? I used to feel like you between ages 15-17 but then I later realized I was living in my head too much so I found reality boring.

 

[Last Laugh]

You have iron deficiency anemia. Take some iron pills and start working out.

 

[Ladylike]

Do you maladaptive daydream by any chance? I used to feel like you between ages 15-17 but then I later realized I was living in my head too much so I found reality boring.

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

You need to be taken home and married off. Life will come at you fast then.

 

[Goodbye ✌]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

It’s different but social anxiety and waswas are very real! May Allah give you strength and courage to reintegrate yourself into social settings. In terms of worries I always just say Alhamdullilah for things in the past. Have tawakkul that Allah’s plans are what is best for you. Also duaa changes qadr so if you want something to change make lots of duaa because Allah (swt) hears you and will always respond.

 

[Ladylike]

You need to be taken home and married off. Life will come at you fast then.

I would take myself there if that was the cure for sure. Thanks anyways.

 

[Magan95]

This book changed my life:

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I would take myself there if that was the cure for sure. Thanks anyways.

All jokes aside adeer, what are you experiencing?
How old are you ?

 

[Qahwe]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

Do you have trouble focusing? Do you find things boring easily?

 

[Cajiib]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

Overthinking can make everything seem worse than it really is. Have you thought about what you’re trying to avoid by isolating?

 

[Badboy4life]

Increase in cibaada, read more quraan, make a lot of dua, stay away from bad things.

 

[mrlog]

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[NordicSomali]

I totally understand that, what's missing is perhaps someone you love to share your life with

 

[Basra]

You have general anxiety, so does millions of people living in the west. Yours might be depression too. What is missing is your relationship with Allaah swt. And also u must have radical acceptance of how things are as opposed to what u wish

 

[Ladylike]

I totally understand that, what's missing is perhaps someone you love to share your life with

This has been happening since childhood. No it has nothing to do with having someone. Thanks

 

[Ladylike]

Do you have trouble focusing? Do you find things boring easily?

Yes, yes. Very boring.

 

[Qahwe]

Yes, yes. Very boring.

I am on the same boat.

 

[Angelina]

You have general anxiety, so does millions of people living in the west. Yours might be depression too. What is missing is your relationship with Allaah swt. And also u must have radical acceptance of how things are as opposed to what u wish

You're crazy, but amazing.