I feel like am sleep walking through life.

[Abba Sadacha]

having kids, getting married, etc, is not guaranteed for any of us. if it happens, alhamdulilah, if it doesn't, alhamdulilah. that's how we should be.

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

Do you maladaptive daydream by any chance? I used to feel like you between ages 15-17 but then I later realized I was living in my head too much so I found reality boring.

How did you cure it?

 

[Goodbye ✌]

How did you cure it?

Stopped fantasizing about how I wished my life was and started accepting it. Also, a trip back home humbled me and me realize how blessed I actually was Alhamdullilah. Comparison is the thief of joy.

 

[Basra]

You're crazy, but amazing.

And i will always LOVE YOU until i die. My dhulbahante queen

 

[Taij4an]

I have derealization of life, I feel like im dreaming all the time,

 

[Shimbiris]

You have iron deficiency anemia. Take some iron pills and start working out.

Nigga, you just out here casually giving diagnoses.

 

[Last Laugh]

Nigga, you just out here casually giving diagnoses.

The funny thing is I’m probably right. Most Somali women who live in the western world have anemia.

 

[anonimo]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

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[Taij4an]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

You think about the past or future all day?

 

[Siddhartha]

You sound depressed, maybe go to a doctor or therapist.

 

[Cajiib]

The funny thing is I’m probably right. Most Somali women who live in the western world have anemia.

Do we have a medical doctor or researcher in our midst on sspot?

 

[Cajiib]

Stopped fantasizing about how I wished my life was and started accepting it. Also, a trip back home humbled me and me realize how blessed I actually was Alhamdullilah. Comparison is the thief of joy.

How long was your trip and did you get to travel to different areas when you were there…

 

[Cajiib]

I isolate more than I should. I get easily overwhelmed with socializing I am constantly either thinking about the past or the future stressed me out. I don’t know if that’s what you mean if so then yes.

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[Grimmer]

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Meditating is completely overrated.

 

[Goodbye ✌]

How long was your trip and did you get to travel to different areas when you were there…

It was two months and yes we did but we didn’t spend a lot of time.

 

[Ladylike]

You think about the past or future all day?

Both. Anxious over the future and regretful sometime from past.

 

[Cajiib]

Both. Anxious over the future and regretful sometime from past.

Do you consider yourself a perfectionist?

 

[Ladylike]

Do you consider yourself a perfectionist?

Yes

 

[Cajiib]

Yes

Okay, I’m listening to an audiobook called Be happy without being perfect by Alice Domar phd. Maybe it could give you some tips as well.