I don't want to be a married single mom

Or you can simply go for an Abdi that has lived by himself before

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Exactly but people that say stuff like this just want to mask there preference with cope takes. She wants a white guy but doesn't want to outright say she wants a white guy so instead she's gonna harp on about abdis and compare.

If you like white guys say it with your chest and you don't need to hate on your own to get the message across :childplease:
 
I think that’s the way to go. All my friends married to nerds have such hands on caring husbands. Must be the sociable ones though.
When I point out how most somali women marry simps who have scarcity mindsets, in order to lead and be in control of those relationships. And the long term consequences that come from that, I get 💩 posted by you. But here you are proving my exact point, bit ironic don’t you think.
Nah just get a man that used to live alone and is very independent.
I’m exactly that type of guy but you still find fault in me right, Because I live a masculine life.

Avoid mummy boys who’ve always stayed home. Btw, there is nothing wrong with staying at home until marriage as a man, but unfortunately due to the Somali home set up, such men do not benefit women that want a hands on husband. Carrying on,
Mommy boys are usually the best type of simps to be easily house trained, by the use of cookies. And they are a no strangers to female authority so no problems there either. It’s the stubborn, disagreeable masculine types, women seeking to be pedestalized need to avoid at all cost.
you’d be surprised how helpful those types of Somali men are. They become used to doing their own cooking and cleaning and
Yeah until you lose your looks and your sex appeal ,see how sweet and caring they are then. Specially when there are new better versions of you being made available to him.

as long as you don’t go into the marriage playing the role of Mrs ‘I can do

It all’ you should be fine.
Advising against natural God made gender roles, this is the same women that preaches about Islam. Unbelievable. #toxicfemininity
 
When I point out how most somali women marry simps who have scarcity mindsets, in order to lead and be in control of those relationships. And the long term consequences that come from that, I get 💩 posted by you. But here you are proving my exact point, bit ironic don’t you think.

I’m exactly that type of guy but you still find fault in me right, Because I live a masculine life.


Mommy boys are usually the best type of simps to be easily house trained, by the use of cookies. And they are a no strangers to female authority so no problems there either. It’s the stubborn, disagreeable masculine types, women seeking to be pedestalized need to avoid at all cost.

Yeah until you lose your looks and your sex appeal ,see how sweet and caring they are then. Specially when there are new better versions of you being made available to him.


Advising against natural God made gender roles, this is the same women that preaches about Islam. Unbelievable. #toxicfemininity
Are you married? (this isn't an attack on you I would just like to know that is if your willing to share that info)
 
When I point out how most somali women marry simps who have scarcity mindsets, in order to lead and be in control of those relationships. And the long term consequences that come from that, I get 💩 posted by you. But here you are proving my exact point, bit ironic don’t you think.
If by simp you think a man that provides and looks after his kids is a simp then I feel sorry for you. I suppose your definition of a man is one that bounces on his wife and kids, doesn’t help anyone and is a course of stress for their wives which led to eventual divorce. Great!
I’m exactly that type of guy but you still find fault in me right, Because I live a masculine life.
I don’t find men who constantly victimize themselves and their fellow men masculine. Go cry about the issues white men face like alimony when you’re from a community in which women barely get child support. Feminine indeed.
Mommy boys are usually the best type of simps to be easily house trained, by the use of cookies. And they are also use to female authority so no problems there either. It’s the stubborn, disagreeable masculine types, women seeking to be pedestalized need to avoid at all cost.
Nope, they’ve been trained to be served and not help. Their mothers have created an environment in which they’re mini princes that desire to always be served even if the wife is struggling. They rely on their wives like their wives are their mums and soon any desire that the wife had goes. Look at this divorce lawyer going into detail:


Hopefully, you listen for once instead of coming up your silly takes. Actually watch and take it in.

Yeah until you lose your looks and your sex appeal ,see how sweet and caring they are then. Specially when there are new better versions of you being made available to him.
I don’t know about you, but I see marriage as long term. Same way a decent and loving wife wouldn’t jump ship if her husband looses his wealth. Marriage is about building families, raising kids and strong communities.

Advising against natural God made gender roles, this is the same women that preaches about Islam. Unbelievable. #toxicfemininity
Funny, the Prophet s.a.w was known to help his wife btw. We have various Hadiths about that. Why would a man helping his wife be haram when it’s actually praised in our religion? I don’t get it? Where can you point it out does it say a woman has to do it all? This is my issue with you, you’re incredibly ignorant about Islam it’s laughable

You’re redpill rhetoric isn’t Islam. It’s the same rhetoric in which you’ll say a man marrying an older woman is shameful and hitting the wall or whatever nonsense when our Prophet s.a.w married an older widow and had most of his kids with her.
 
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When I point out how most somali women marry simps who have scarcity mindsets, in order to lead and be in control of those relationships. And the long term consequences that come from that, I get 💩 posted by you. But here you are proving my exact point, bit ironic don’t you think.

I’m exactly that type of guy but you still find fault in me right, Because I live a masculine life.


Mommy boys are usually the best type of simps to be easily house trained, by the use of cookies. And they are a no strangers to female authority so no problems there either. It’s the stubborn, disagreeable masculine types, women seeking to be pedestalized need to avoid at all cost.

Yeah until you lose your looks and your sex appeal ,see how sweet and caring they are then. Specially when there are new better versions of you being made available to him.


Advising against natural God made gender roles, this is the same women that preaches about Islam. Unbelievable. #toxicfemininity
Do you have a thing for @Angelina or something? :jaynerd:
 

Amber

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Do you have a thing for @Angelina or something? :jaynerd:
He's having an obvious love-hate relationship with her!!
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Nothing is wrong with being a divorcee single mom it also doesn’t mean you have to raise the kids alone after divorce their father is well and alive he can also support the kids. He can’t divorce his kids lol don’t be scared. If you don’t want to marry the wrong guy involve your parents and siblings in your selection process make sure your siblings aren’t the childish once also choose to marry someone you’re familiar with someone who’s a family friends and or a neighbor you’ve known that way if it ends you’ll at-least be content because you did your home work your kids will be proud of you for that.also pray about it. Don’t stress yourself too much. Best wishes 🙏🏽
 
Nothing is wrong with being a divorcee single mom it also doesn’t mean you have to raise the kids alone after divorce their father is well and alive he can also support the kids. He can’t divorce his kids lol don’t be scared. If you don’t want to marry the wrong guy involve your parents and siblings in your selection process make sure your siblings aren’t the childish once also choose to marry someone you’re familiar with someone who’s a family friends and or a neighbor you’ve known that way if it ends you’ll at-least be content because you did your home work your kids will be proud of you for that.also pray about it. Don’t stress yourself too much. Best wishes 🙏🏽
She means a guy who doesn't do anything around the house not literally being left a single mom
 
Unfortunately she can’t know for sure till after the marriage it’s hard lesson some of us have to find out when is too late.
There are ways to find out. Aslong as you ask the right questions and do a proper background check you can find out what type of guy he is unless they lie then that's unfortunate
 
Mrs doubtfireAre you married? (this isn't an attack on you I would just like to know that is if your willing to share that info)
No, I’m enjoying my peace and independence before I take the plunge, with women worthy of my company. Why do you ask?
If by simp you think a man that provides and looks after his kids is a simp then I feel sorry for you. I suppose your definition of a man is one that bounces on his wife and kids, doesn’t help anyone and is a course of stress for their wives which led to eventual divorce. Great!
No I meant Mrs doubtfire type simps.
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I don’t find men who constantly victimize themselves and their fellow men masculine. Go cry about the issues white men face like alimony when you’re from a community in which women barely get child support. Feminine indeed.
This is the second time your brought subject up and I ask again, where did I play a victim?


Nope, they’ve been trained to be served and not help. Their mothers have created an environment in which they’re mini princes that desire to always be served even if the wife is struggling. They rely on their wives like their wives are their mums and soon any desire that the wife had goes. Look at this divorce lawyer going into detail:
For the most part s


Hopefully, you listen for once instead of coming up your silly takes. Actually watch and take it in.


I don’t know about you, but I see marriage as long term. Same way a decent and loving wife wouldn’t jump ship if her husband looses his wealth. Marriage is about building families, raising kids and strong communities.
That’s why you marry a man that makes you feel like a woman, a man that makes you want to cook clean, stay in shape and raise your children.

Funny, the Prophet s.a.w was known to help his wife btw. We have various Hadiths about that. Why would a man helping his wife be haram when it’s actually praised in our religion? I don’t get it? Where can you point it out does it say a woman has to do it all? This is my issue with you, you’re incredibly ignorant about Islam it’s laughable
we both have our separate roles now can we help each other out sure, as long as we don’t forget our assigned roles. That was true in the Prophets times, but it’s not what your advocating for.

You’re redpill rhetoric isn’t Islam. It’s the same rhetoric in which you’ll say a man marrying an older woman is shameful and hitting the wall or whatever nonsense when our Prophet s.a.w married an older widow and had most of his kids with her.
I actually support when older Somali women marry younger men, An older women has the right to enjoy life, just as much if not more than an older man.

what I don’t support is born again virgins, who wasted their prime years giving away their goods for free. Who now want to cut in front of the line ahead of those who are in their prime.
 
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