nah he ain't
that is shit that men say to avoid helping.
That's cap what you should be doing is asking the right questions and you would know if he's a farax that works at home or not. It's as simple as that. If you actually communicate what you expect and you can get people to vouch for them then you'll easily find a nice farax.
percs?
He does. he's a unicorn~~~~~
loooooool!Must have missed it but shit since u so persistent waku sheega.
Was implying u just tryna eliminate competition with yo snake-like sneaky remarks so u can have dat luuq for yo self buuq la'aan
A simple defense made you read into things so much. 
paranoia 
Periodsame sis, i will actually die if i don’t bag myself a beautiful 6ft romantic, loving, empathetic anti-qablist, unproblematic, somali king
Was implying u just tryna eliminate competition with yo snake-like sneaky remarks so u can have dat luuq for yo self buuq la'aan
idk what you onpercs?
How is he being xasid, he's spitting facts
Someone being “nice” doesn’t mean they'll help you around the house. That has more to do with how you’re raised. Some of these guys are very nice but they don’t know how to cook a simple meal or operate a vacuum because they were never expected to, their mom and sisters did all the chores. And they’ll expect you to do it all as their wife. Majority of Somali guys are like this because this is our culture. If you go back home and try to help out around the house as a man it’s considered ceeb and that doesn’t suddenly change because we’re in the west now
I think that’s the way to go. All my friends married to nerds have such hands on caring husbands. Must be the sociable ones though.Maybe look for a miskeen, good boring Somali guy and that won't happen. There's thousands of them around.
Nah just get a man that used to live alone and is very independent. Avoid mummy boys who’ve always stayed home. Btw, there is nothing wrong with staying at home until marriage as a man, but unfortunately due to the Somali home set up, such men do not benefit women that want a hands on husband. Carrying on, you’d be surprised how helpful those types of Somali men are. They become used to doing their own cooking and cleaning and as long as you don’t go into the marriage playing the role of Mrs ‘I can do
this but idc if they are a qabilist lmaooooosame sis, i will actually die if i don’t bag myself a beautiful 6ft romantic, loving, empathetic anti-qablist, unproblematic, somali king
My point is that ain't all somali men and you can just vet him for stuff like that. On the other hand white guys have that exact same reputation to so where exactly is this benefit of the doubt coming from?
I don’t think we should generalize men and it’s true that white women are suffering due to unequal distribution of household labor, but we’d be lying if we were to say that certain cultures are not more hands on than others and hands down white men are more hands on when it comes childcare, whilst Somali men tend to have a culture of shouldering all financial responsibilities. Different cultures have strengths in different arenas.
That's something that should be judged on the individual level.
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