I don't want to be a married single mom

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Wait what did he say i wanna know

@Macalin boqol

Yaraye is a good catch don't waste the opportunity.

Xasidka said ''but is @Macalin boqol a good catch for @Yaraye''

 

[Yaraye]

You're describing the 10% of toxic bad boys. In the real world, men are cooperative and help out alot if both have full time jobs. Of course if she's a stay at home mom and he works full time, she must basically do almost everything. I think you're just attracted to the toxic bad boys. Their toxic baby boy ways gives you the dopamine hit, which is what you really crave. The dopamine hit you get when they act like bad men, the dopamine hit you get when you respond, the dopamine rush you crave when they are not around. It's a real thing. I don't think you're attracted to miskeen, good boys because you have chosen to ignore 90% of the miskeen, good guys. How can you say they don't exist when they are the 9/10 men?

First of all I'm a strictly woman of deen, the only men in my orbit are coworkers which majority are already married or a lot older. The rest of the men are blood family. Secondly, I mentioned many times that the blood older gen men in my fam are toxic themselves (deadbeat dad, poly dysfunctional uncle/grandfather...etc). Why would someone like me who grew up around those kind of men be attracted to a toxic man? I wouldn't get a dopamine rush, instead i get PTSD. women like me who grow up seeing that in their surrounding will desire the opposite type of man. So, your precious theory of being attracted to toxic boys that you like to use so much on the women of sspot doesn't work here. Thirdly the "good" men that are "ignored" who you like o talk about so much about don't really help out around the house. Only a fraction of those "good" men that you refer to bring the check and help around the house. They are a unicorn cuz that's how rare they are. You use the word "good" man very loosely

So he must be tall, make six figures, be romantic and a househusband..I'm sure he's waiting for you somewhere in your neighborhood

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[Lowkey]

Xasidka said ''but is @Macalin boqol a good catch for @Yaraye''

@Barni

 

[Yaraye]

Xasidka said ''but is @Macalin boqol a good catch for @Yaraye''

@Javelin isn't wrong. He is just looking out for me. Why would he encourage @Macalin boqol who has a crush on @Barni for me? Who the hell wants to be 2nd choice?

 

[Abdisamad]

First of all I'm a strictly woman of deen, the only men in my orbit are coworkers which majority are already married or a lot older. The rest of the men are blood family. Secondly, I mentioned many times that the blood older gen men in my fam are toxic themselves (deadbeat dad, poly dysfunctional uncle/grandfather...etc). Why would someone like me who grew up around those kind of men be attracted to a toxic man? I wouldn't get a dopamine rush, instead i get PTSD. women like me who grow up seeing that in their surrounding will desire the opposite type of man. So, your precious theory of being attracted to toxic boys that you like to use so much on the women of sspot doesn't work here. Thirdly the "good" men that are "ignored" who you like o talk about so much about don't really help out around the house. Only a fraction of those "good" men that you refer to bring the check and help around the house. They are a unicorn cuz that's how rare they are. You use the word "good" man very loosely

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[Odious Delirium]

Xasidka said ''but is @Macalin boqol a good catch for @Yaraye''

Your basically blocking his blessings by bring it back up
your an undercover xassid

 

[Yaraye]

He’s only trolling sis if u show him that abaya u wore for eid. He would definitely change his mind.

That one was simple. The next eid one is very nice, I'm looking forward to that one
@Macalin boqol said that he is a loyal man, his heart for you won't change so quickly. No need to use me as a shield abaayo

 

[Yaraye]

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[Lowkey]

That one was simple. The next eid one is very nice, I'm looking forward to that one
@Macalin boqol said that he is a loyal man, his heart for you won't change so quickly. No need to use me as a shield abaayo

Usheg

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

@Javelin isn't wrong. He is just looking out for me. Why would he encourage @Macalin boqol who has a crush on @Barni for me? Who the hell wants to be 2nd choice?

The brother is keeping his options open lol nothing wrong with dat @Javelin should play Stevie Wonder on this one

and let him shoot his shot in peace

 

[Yaraye]

Usheg

hurry up put in the work for her

 

[astr0veiled]

this is how this thread feels like….get a room guys

 

[Yaraye]

this is how this thread feels like….get a room guys

yes @Barni and @Macalin boqol

 

[Barni]

@Macalin boqol i was born a man. @Yaraye is a natural born woman,

 

[Yaraye]

@Macalin boqol i was born a man. @Yaraye is a natural born woman,

I have officially become a lesbian

 

[Barni]

I have officially become a lesbian

U don’t get to say that, this forum can only have 1 lesbian & thats me.

 

[Odious Delirium]

The brother is keeping his options open lol nothing wrong with dat @Javelin should play Stevie Wonder on this one

and let him shoot his shot in peace

You don't try shooting your shot at two different people at the same time infront of both of them. If he had an actual chance I wouldn't have said anything

 

[Yaraye]

You don't try shoot your shot at two people at the same time. If he had an actual chance I wouldn't have said anything

Thank you walaal. @Abdisamad @Fobnimo Till I Dhimo both of you don't care for me

 

[Abdisamad]

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[mrlog]

Oh sry about that man, but tell me what he said verbatim.

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