Do you want a wedding? If yes, big or small?
Do you feel pressured to have one?
Would you comprise something like that?
Do you feel pressured to have one?
Would you comprise something like that?
I dont want a wedding but majority of all Somali women do
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Most men dont want big weddings or weddings at all. At most, most men are fine with signing the papers and a dinner with closest ones.
Its always the women who want big extravagant weddings in order to flex towards other women, make other women jealous and show of wealth they dont really have.
Anyways, its a sad state of affairs my friend.
Its always the women who want big extravagant weddings in order to flex towards other women, make other women jealous and show of wealth they dont really have.
Anyways, its a sad state of affairs my friend.
Big Weddings are a hot spot of evil eyes etc no wonder couples divorce straight away
Wallahi why are, are sisters obsessed with oppressing people who don't want nothing good for you. Starting off my marriage entertaining people I don't care about is the worst thing a Muslim can do.
You would be surprised at how many Somali women do not want a wedding. I use to date a guy I told him I don’t want a wedding he said hell no he wants to have a big wedding so he can show off his wife to everyone. I’ve never been impressed with weddings they are loud fake and lame. I will have small wedding where I will make sure the poor are invited InshaAllah but I will not attend it will happen in Somalia. I don’t want to show off to no one nor do I care about status.before making an assumption talk to her about it.
MaShaAllah, I need to find a women like you.
They’re out there. Speak to them
I guess it has to do with priorities and personality. I don’t see a big wedding as anything except wasting money and showing off. So, I wouldn’t want it. I don’t want to have that sort of wedding just to appease people.
Another thing that I’m trying to avoid is people with xaasidnimo in them. So I would make as small a gathering as possible so they don’t feel the need to come there and hide amongst the crowds. I have witnessed people who go to weddings that are not well wishers whatsoever.
Another thing that I’m trying to avoid is people with xaasidnimo in them. So I would make as small a gathering as possible so they don’t feel the need to come there and hide amongst the crowds. I have witnessed people who go to weddings that are not well wishers whatsoever.
Don't exaggerate. Islamically having a Walima (wedding feast) is Sunnah which is a form of 'entertaining guests' and announcing your marriage to everyone. Just make sure it isn't too expensive and flash. You will be rewarded for feeding your friends, family and neighbors. Please explain how something that is encouraged Islamically, the worst a Muslim can do?!
Every culture has a concept of celebrating marriages as it is a big milestone and a time that your family and friends can celebrate a joyous occasion. Also, mostly, its the parents that want it as it is a big thing for them.
Ask yourself, why does every society have wedding celebrations. Why have we been doing it for thousands of years?
that guy is a dayuuth
I know a xalimo like this she told me in college she only wants a rly small wedding cos its a waste of money, and that was just some random girl, dw they out there
If you can afford it then why not
Alot of Xalimos want big wedding so men get your bread up .
Alot of Xalimos want big wedding so men get your bread up .Waste of money and time. Wedding is so irrelevant to your life it makes up 3 days compared to your thousands of days of marriage but u choose to spend money on a couple days.If you can afford it then why not
Stupidity at its finest
Can you die from evil eyes?
In an extreme case yes
