I don’t see the problem with ghosting

[ThreeTwentyOne]

I am guilty of ghosting people but it was usually due to them being extremely disrespectful early on

Yup, this is why I ghosted someone serious for the first and last time. I don't feel guilty about it anymore

How are ya gonna cuss, love and respect someone at the same time lol

 

[Abdullnur]

I’m a modern millennial who regularly ghosts people if I want them out of my life. I’ve had it done to me and it’s usually my solution for dealing with relationships that have lasted too long

I’ve heard people likening it to abuse but I think those people have attachment issues.

Do you expect me to call you and tell you I don’t want to speak to you because x, y, and z? I don’t owe you anything. And what explanation can I give you that won’t hurt you? You are setting us up for an awkward conversation just take the block in silence darling.

 

[EDsomali]

Kkkkk.


Didn't you get ghosted by a guy and continued to call him after months.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Yup, this is why I ghosted someone serious for the first and last time. I don't feel guilty about it anymore

How are ya gonna cuss, love and respect someone at the same time lol

smart move. For me those are easy to ghost because there is zero guilt involved.
Bye Felecia! lol

 

[Muji]

It depends. Like if you’re in the “talking stage” and you have him your number but don’t see it going anywhere I think it’s fine to ghost since that’s the only way they would take the hint anyway. But it’s weird to do it with someone you had some kind of relationship/friendship with

How do you end a long term friendship or relationship when they are rubbing you up the wrong way?

If I sent them a letter saying I don’t want to be your friend anymore, @Jaydaan would be here screaming childish

 

[Muji]

You seem really interested in this topic. You were talking about it a couple of times and now started w thread. How many guys have you ghosted since then?

I personally changed my opinion after I was rejected rather savagely. Ghosting is more humane IMHO. I wouldn't do it though I'd just be honest and tell the person why I don't wanna stay in touch. As long as it is not too insulting they shouldn't feel too hurt.

I don't feel like I owe it to them. But when you talk to someone for weeks/months I definitely wouldn't feel right ghosting them.

Lol tell me how did they end it savagely? I bet you wished they ghosted you. Sometimes it’s too awkward to end a relationship/friendship. Would you feel good being told you’re a pain in the ass and I no longer wish to be associated with you. Lose my number. Without hurting them?

 

[Muji]

Ghost so hard they call me Danny phantom. Its actual more polite to ghost, than confront said person. The bridge is still intact incase they fix their problems. Ghosted dozens of friends who became mooryaan good for naughts.

That’s what I’m saying but when I say it I get the chauvinistic pigs shouting down my throat. If you are painful to be around, then why is it a crime for me to move away? Would you prefer if I stick around and despise you silently? @Jaydaan

 

[Muji]

Some girls like being ghosted themselves, talk about that @Knowles

I don’t know what you mean ...

 

[Jaydaan]

That’s what I’m saying but when I say it I get the chauvinistic pigs shouting down my throat. If you are painful to be around, then why is it a crime for me to move away? Would you prefer if I stick around and despise you silently? @Jaydaan

When a person lacks character and they get called out. They always use 2 extremes to defend their actions. It's the big brother effect. You see in every country the big brother show has 1-2 characters who are rude to people and when they get called out. They all use the same excuse as defense. At least I'm real and saying it to your face.

You see an asshole think there is only 2 types of people. One that talk shot behind peoples back and one that do it to their face. In their mind not talking sh1t to people doesn't even enter the equation. The more you write the more you expose yourself to lack any class and dignity. I will pray for you

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Knowles iz a qumayo, indeed. but she's right about ghosting

 

[Muji]

Knowles iz a qumayo, indeed. but she's right about ghosting

@Jaydaan why are you not coming him.

You are known to letting men off for the same thing a woman says. First @World now Libaax. Grow a pair and come with the same energy for men and women.

 

[Nomoregames2019]

Good luck dealing with people in the real world like on your job per say with such attitudes. Are you going to simply ignore a co-worker because you don't like them? or you don't like dealing with them.

Ghosting won't get you far in life, confront your fears and tell them straight up on how you feel.

 

[Jaydaan]

@Jaydaan why are you not coming him.

You are known to letting men off for the same thing a woman says. First @World now Libaax. Grow a pair and come with the same energy for men and women.

I love how you are trying to turn guys against me with the old if you real man you go after him. I'm actually insulted you think I'm that simple.

 

[Muji]

I love how you are trying to turn guys against me with the old if you real man you go after him. I'm actually insulted you think I'm that simple.

Jaydaan even men have called you out for it. You don’t have to go after either of them but just acknowledge the fact that you only harass the women on this forum and you only come for @AussieHustler because he is a mod and refuses to clap back.

 

[AussieHustler]

Keep me out of this thread because I don't understand the culture of ghosting from the ghettos.

 

[Jaydaan]

Jaydaan even men have called you out for it. You don’t have to go after either of them but just acknowledge the fact that you only harass the women on this forum and you only come for @AussieHustler because he is a mod and refuses to clap back.

You and AussieHustler are the two biggest attackers and most condescending posters. Hence I go after you because you attack everyday Somalis. I don't mind if people disagree with me. But you 2 plus vix are constantly taking swipes at Somalis. So you will be put in your place as long as you guys keep attacking innocent people.

 

[Abdisamad]

Reasons why I might ghost you

1. You annoy me
2. You add nothing to my life
3. You bore me
4. I want people who are doing big things in my life and that ain’t you
5. I don’t like your energy
6. You were in a nightmare I had

 

[Muji]

You and AussieHustler are the two biggest attackers and most condescending posters. Hence I go after you because you attack everyday Somalis. I don't mind if people disagree with me. But you 2 plus vix are constantly taking swipes at Somalis. So you will be put in your place as long as you guys keep attacking innocent people.

I think you are hurt because someone ghosted you. Maybe you were too keen. That’s always a turn off. It makes you look desperate and unwanted.

 

[Muji]

You and AussieHustler are the two biggest attackers and most condescending posters. Hence I go after you because you attack everyday Somalis. I don't mind if people disagree with me. But you 2 plus vix are constantly taking swipes at Somalis. So you will be put in your place as long as you guys keep attacking innocent people.

Lol we are taking a swipe at Somalis? How many threads did you make about naag nool? Did you remove her somalinimo so you could justify bashing her?

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Lol we are taking a swipe at Somalis? How many threads did you make about naag nool? Did you remove her somalinimo so you could justify bashing her?

Naag nool is not a her it is a they. Its a plurality not a singularity. You are a naagnol , vixr is one, carowelo is naag nool reiko is naag nool. Many naag nools.