Unfortunately, these stories are universal. From cadaan women helping husband through law/medical school to Somali habos who even sold their gold as young women to help their husbands start businesses to only find that once their husband has a bit more cash and they can finally put their feet up and relax with hubby after years of financial struggle, he’s married a younger version whom he now wants to spoil instead.We all appreciate Barbra the builder. Don't let these stories discourage you.
A lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but unfortunately selfishness is rife amongst many men. Many have been raised to put themselves first. It’s a fact of life.