How to deal with breakups

[Prince Abubu]

Lesbian? That's a first. Let @Prince Abubu deal with this, he's more experienced since he's gaal

 

[Zumar]

They're among you sister. They just are hidden about it. When we are no longer under our parents roofs you will see the cultural shift.

Im not sure, they mostly wear hijab and are always home cooking and cleaning etc, go to the mosque..

Sometimes when i go to the city (i dont wear hijab) and all the somali women look at me like im the and everything

But no ive never seen worse somali girls than myself outside (and im not even that bad, i only dont wear hijab)

 

[GodKnowsBest]

How many times did you give him hand job which one do you like cut or uncut ?

Also none of my exes before the second to last guy showed me their package. He was a pervert Wallahi. One day we were skyping and he just pulls out his junk. I forgive him though even though he made me sinful since we dated for 2 years and he was well endowed.

 

[Lojire]

People hating on bantus, but somali men are losing grip on somali women.

Wtf? I'm a virgin warya. It was through the internet.

And how do you give someone a handjob through the internet

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Im not sure, they mostly wear hijab and are always home cooking and cleaning etc, go to the mosque..

Sometimes when i go to the city (i dont wear hijab) and all the somali women look at me like im the and everything

But no ive never seen worse somali girls than myself outside (and im not even that bad, i only dont wear hijab)

Open a conversation. After I told my Somali friends I wasn't religious one opened up to me and said she had doubts about the religion. Nobody wants to make the first move they wait for a leader among them.

 

[Zumar]

Also none of my exes before the second to last guy showed me their package. He was a pervert Wallahi. One day we were skyping and he just pulls out his junk. I forgive him though even though he made me sinful since we dated for 2 years and he was well endowed.

How old are you? And how did u get christian? Why are you dating man through the internet?

At least do it in real life then...

 

[GodKnowsBest]

People hating on bantus, but somali men are losing grip on somali women.

And how do you give someone a handjob through the internet

I never said I gave him a handjob you pervert

 

[Zumar]

Open a conversation. After I told my Somali friends I wasn't religious one opened up to me and said she had doubts about the religion. Nobody wants to make the first move they wait for a leader among them.

Hmm i dont have any somali friends
I live in a tuulo and everyone at my school is cadaan

 

[GodKnowsBest]

How old are you? And how did u get christian? Why are you dating man through the internet?

At least do it in real life then...

I'm 19. My life is an intixaan I don't have time and energy to date IRL. Imagine having to plan out weekly dates. Plus since I date to marry it would be a shame on my family if I dated several guys I wouldn't marry.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Hmm i dont have any somali friends
I live in a tuulo and everyone at my school is cadaan

I turned Christian because Jesus is bae.

 

[Zumar]

I'm 19. My life is an intixaan I don't have time and energy to date IRL. Imagine having to plan out weekly dates. Plus since I date to marry it would be a shame on my family if I dated several guys I wouldn't marry.

Thats true but believe me, you wont really know someone over the internet as you would have in real life

 

[Zumar]

I turned Christian because Jesus is bae.

and that is the reason why you chose the bible over the quran?
I dont want to judge you, but its just new to me ive never heard of these things actually

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Thats true but believe me, you wont really know someone over the internet as you would have in real life

That's for me to figure out after I marry. Arranged marriages are the most successful even when individuals don't know each other prior. I don't need to date a person IRL, move in with someone, have sex with someone, lose my life for someone just to know if I'm compatible or not. You grow to be compatible there is no personality test or sin test or spiritual test to determine whether a relationship will work it's all whether or not the both of you are going to put the effort in. That' s why I dumped this last guy, he wasn't putting the effort in.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

and that is the reason why you chose the bible over the quran?
I dont want to judge you, but its just new to me ive never heard of these things actually

No, I left Islam because I didn't like it's treatment of women. I have a whole thread on this called "Ask the gaal anything". I know I'm an anomaly on this site but I don't like explaining my situation every day.

 

[SecretAgent]

That's for me to figure out after I marry. Arranged marriages are the most successful even when individuals don't know each other prior. I don't need to date a person IRL, move in with someone, have sex with someone, lose my life for someone just to know if I'm compatible or not. You grow to be compatible there is no personality test or sin test or spiritual test to determine whether a relationship will work it's all whether or not the both of you are going to put the effort in. That' s why I dumped this last guy, he wasn't putting the effort in.

This sounds like islam.

 

[Zumar]

That's for me to figure out after I marry. Arranged marriages are the most successful even when individuals don't know each other prior. I don't need to date a person IRL, move in with someone, have sex with someone, lose my life for someone just to know if I'm compatible or not. You grow to be compatible there is no personality test or sin test or spiritual test to determine whether a relationship will work it's all whether or not the both of you are going to put the effort in. That' s why I dumped this last guy, he wasn't putting the effort in.

I think arranged marriages are the most "succesful" because they were sort of forcer by their family/community to marry eachther
I think they dont want to split up because its like a bad thing in our culture..or because they are no virgin anymore

Hmm its hard to express my feelings about this in english but hope you get what in trying to say

 

[GodKnowsBest]

This sounds like islam.

I was raised Muslim. I took the good parts of Islam when I left.

 

[Prince Abubu]

No, I left Islam because I didn't like it's treatment of women. I have a whole thread on this called "Ask the gaal anything". I know I'm an anomaly on this site but I don't like explaining my situation every day.

And you thought the Bible was more progressive? You know, the one where Moses massacres women and children and the Israelites are always raping women from enemy tribes to please Yahweh?

 

[GodKnowsBest]

I think arranged marriages are the most "succesful" because they were sort of forcer by their family/community to marry eachther
I think they dont want to split up because its like a bad thing in our culture..or because they are no virgin anymore

Hmm its hard to express my feelings about this in english but hope you get what in trying to say

You can speak in Somali abaayo. I can read and understand Somali I just can't speak and write in it.

 

[horumar]

Didn't you say you weren't Muslim?