Thats why I posted in womens den walaasheed
So whats ur advice
You want a real lady?
The most important thing after ensuring you are in good shape, well-dressed and gainfully employed is to find a way to tap into her mind and emotions.
When you are with her/speaking to her, give her 100% of your attention, listen to her, don't give empty and cheesy compliments, don't bring up individual body parts like "you have nice lips" you will sound like a pervert, instead say "you are beautiful MASHALLAH".
Ask her about herself and listen more than you speak. Ask her about her dreams, wishes and desires. Find out about her love language, open doors, pull out chairs and give her enough eye contact. Do what you say you will do and be consistent in communicating what you want.
Take charge, plan dates, don't ask "what do you want to do". At most maybe ask her what type of cuisines and things she finds interesting. Women like to be surprised.
Don't be "late" to dates, even if you run late, make sure you communicate.
Finally, please note that most women are super perceptive and emotionally intelligent so if you're faking it, not really into her it will not work because she will not trust you and all your work is undone.
Contrary to nonsensical propaganda, women are into looks and in fact, pay attention to detail, so when you're meeting a lady make sure you are properly dressed from head to toe. Smell is also very important, find a nice cologne that matches your body chemistry, spray on wrists and neck. Don't overdo it.
If you have and do all of this and you have a nice smile? You will get the lady of your dreams.
Good luck