And if you do not want children, what is the point of marriage, considering that fornication is not allowed in Islam? Will you die a virgin, or are you willing to settle for a single mother?
How many of you men do not want children?
- Thread starter Fobnimo Till I Dhimo
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For now, I don’t plan on children. Growing up with 5 younger siblings really tests you and shows you it’s not all honey and roses when it comes to raising children. This attitude may change in the future but for the large part I spent 20+ years doing that role with my siblings and in a way, is a mirror staring back at you on how you’d handle your own children.
If you decided not to have kids would u still find a halimo that can't have children or would u settle for a single mother?the extreme option would be to die a virgin
It would be great to marry someone that doesn’t want or can’t have kids to be honest. But having kids helps strengthen your relationship and adds a purpose to both lives. Not to mention, the positive benefit of good deeds after you die if you raise them to be upright etc. in all seriousness, the global economy is making it harder for a nuclear family to prosper amongst the general average populace. Birth rates are declining officially in the West. Regarding a single mother, if I’m brutally honest, it would have to matter how she became a single mother. Was it halal means ? Child is from a marriage etc. was it because of her behaviour there was a divorce? Numerous factors will have to come into consideration, but again I always state men shouldn’t waste time talking about children unless their bank account and career is looking healthy.
Finances are the no1 reason for divorces
Finances are the no1 reason for divorces
Never understood how some people just get married even though they know they can't provide for the kid it is recipe for disaster it's not only about money either u gotta be mentally stable and 100% be mentally ready to be a father so the kid can grow up in a good healthy environment it's a tough game you are the captain of the ship every action u take will have consequences i feel like most somalis don't think it through 'iska dhal'' and inshaa Allah everything will be good is their mentality
Yaraye
VIP
if i weren't worried about not having someone to take care of me when I'm old, i'd never have them. I mean who wants to deal with pregnancy, nauseous/vomiting, gaining sooo much weight, losing appetite, absolute pain of giving birth, ripping your vagina and probably your anus too, postpartum bleeding, PPD, breastfeeding, chapped/bleeding nipples, losing weight/ snapping back, vagina snapping back........etc
I am in the camp that having kids in this world is lowkey cruel and with global warming being a thing bringing them into a cruel cruel world is not my plan right now.
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NordicSomali
VIP
Unfortunately I’m a Redditor and they’ve convinced me to delay having kids until you’re ready, no rushing.
TheProfessor
Peace
I want a lot of children cause they bring joys I. Ur life and I want to be in my 80s to 90s yrs old and still making babies
Djokovic
Somali Arab
U believe in global warming u have been brainwashed brudda
Don’t insult the brain Allah gave you. The world has significantly got hotter records breaking each year, it’s wild you say this when climate change has DIRECTLY affected our motherland in many forms such as drought being the biggest factor. Smh. Tired of kids on this site
Djokovic
Somali Arab
you man are so deluded you think drought is caused by increasing temperatures dkm.plus the temperature is increasing as we are coming out of an ice age these are natural cycles and are not caused by humans
dekiteshim
Resident Eritrean | Ye's strongest soldier
Imagine being the product of thousands of years of reproduction, tailored to create you. And then you decide to become a genetic dead end LOL
Yeah why not
if i weren't worried about not having someone to take care of me when I'm old, i'd never have them. I mean who wants to deal with pregnancy, nauseous/vomiting, gaining sooo much weight, losing appetite, absolute pain of giving birth, ripping your vagina and probably your anus too, postpartum bleeding, PPD, breastfeeding, chapped/bleeding nipples, losing weight/ snapping back, vagina snapping back........etc
some details could have been left out but i hear you
Yaraye
VIP
its because we leave out the details that many men don't understand the true horrors we gotta deal with
JohnCena
PROFESSIONAL SHITPOSTER
unironically good advice
You should be 100% financially stable before having kids.
TheProfessor
Peace
The pain part is exaggerated because why all of sudden women want another child if it was this painfulif i weren't worried about not having someone to take care of me when I'm old, i'd never have them. I mean who wants to deal with pregnancy, nauseous/vomiting, gaining sooo much weight, losing appetite, absolute pain of giving birth, ripping your vagina and probably your anus too, postpartum bleeding, PPD, breastfeeding, chapped/bleeding nipples, losing weight/ snapping back, vagina snapping back........etc
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