Sarah136
Hot and cold
5 kids : 3 girls and 2 boys or vice versa
But I'm a bit weary of raising them here in the west, a bit of a dilemma
You would have to marry a sister from back home or a sister from here who is willing to make hijrah
5 kids : 3 girls and 2 boys or vice versa
But I'm a bit weary of raising them here in the west, a bit of a dilemma
Masha Allah, How will we name them?5 or 6 beautiful somali childrem inshallah
It's easy for you guys to say you want 5-7 or 15 kids... when you don't have to carry the babies or go through child birth.
Men are the weaker sex, without women you lot couldn't survive.
If I had one wish, it would be men got pregnant and gave birth.
That would make men the stronger sex and reverse the role based on your logic. Isn't that a loss?
You would have to marry a sister from back home or a sister from here who is willing to make hijrah
If I had one wish, it would be men got pregnant and gave birth
Haha back home is not an option, I like having intellectual conversations which probably can't happen with a sister from back home.
Oh there are definitely loads of Halimos that want to return to the mother land, won't be too hard to find one.
You guys can't even take the pain of period cramps, which are simulated.
:siilaanyolaugh:
How on earth you going to carry and deliver a baby - child birth is known to be the most painful experience a human being can endure.
alla....are you questioning our sisters intellect?! Watch this comment backfire on you
Yes you're right but make sure she wants to return to Somalia for the right reasons
Why does this always happen to me...
Idk if I'm actually gonna move and take my kids back home permanently..
but for sure I would take them back for a couple of years so that they become familiar with the culture and language..
Can't have our future generations losing our dhaqan now can we ?![]()
It is true. Childbirth is painful experience for women. That is offset by the sound of the babe coming out healthy and crying immediately looking for its mother's attention and nipple. Mother's face would beam and all she wants is the baby on her lap. Pain is forgotten that fast.
The female body has the highest level of endorphins close to childbirth and during childbirth in preparation of the pain anticipated. Women are equipped for all of these pains despite the undesirable experience they go through in period(cramps) and in childbirth. No woman ever wants to trade places with a guy.
I do agree with the ridiculous number of kids some here mentioned they want is untenable.
Yeah the pain isn't forgotten btw, they still remember it trust me, and the healing process after Is still painful from what my mum and cousins have told me. But it's the beauty of women's body, we were built for it Masha'Allah.
It's ridiculous all these ppl wanting all 5-10 kids, how are they going to feed and clothe all those mouths? Makes me laugh wallahi
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You're a real dhadhaan wallahiMasha Allah, How will we name them?
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Yeah the pain isn't forgotten btw, they still remember it trust me, and the healing process after Is still painful from what my mum and cousins have told me. But it's the beauty of women's body, we were built for it Masha'Allah.
It's ridiculous all these ppl wanting all 5-10 kids, how are they going to feed and clothe all those mouths? Makes me laugh wallahi
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For the college guys here, I suggest you marry the girl who wants you. Get an apartment, work part time, enjoy life and wait on the kids(hold on from having) till you graduate. You get your siil need satisfied while you pursue building a better career and good income. Works like magic for all parties involved.