How do i kindly turn down a marriage proposal?

[Subeer]

My cousin just delivered me the news that one of her friends wanted to marry me, i've seen her before, and she looks good wallahi she also told me that she said that mehr wouldn't be problem since im still in school, but i've just came out of a turbulent marriage months ago, and i really dont feel like getting married again.
Question is how do i turn this offer down without hurting her feelings.
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[nine]

A divorced college student?

Just say you do not want to get married and want to wait and are not thinking of it right now

 

[AussieHustler]

Waryaa Subeer

Do you think I’m your aunt or Mama Malyuun? Ask @YourBroMoe (he) is the relationship expert and the matchmaker of this forum.

 

[El qashin]

My cousin just delivered me the news that one of her friends wanted to marry me, i've seen her before, and she looks good wallahi she also told me that she said that mehr wouldn't be problem since im still in school, but i've just came out of a turbulent marriage months ago, and i really dont feel like getting married again.
Question is how do i turn this offer down without hurting her feelings.
@guntiino101 @Crow @Geeljire sanbuur @Factz @draco @Sheikh @nine @YourBroMoe @Fang4 @Yaquub @Cumar @Mercury @AussieHustler @Basra @Basic @Blade1 @Gooney112 @AarHawd_7 @Fels @Monisha Hershey @Steamdevolopment @esmailxxx

I feel like this masterpiece answers all your questions

 

[Fang4]

You can just lie to her that are already engaged, hopefully that won’t hurt her feelings.

 

[jamal9]

tell her you are vegan

 

[Sheikh]

Fam just kindly tell her that you currently came out of prior marriage and your taking it easy right now. I think she will understand.

 

[Karim]

Just say NO. if you're not comfortable then you should politely decline the offer.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Save yourselves my fellow Geeljiroids.

 

[esmailxxx]

like just tell her you cannt,explain to her you are not ready,between why did you divorce the first one,what happened,i am really interested to why people divorce?especially somalis,i am planning to marry,how old were you when you married her and how long did it last?

 

[YourBroMoe]

My cousin just delivered me the news that one of her friends wanted to marry me, i've seen her before, and she looks good wallahi she also told me that she said that mehr wouldn't be problem since im still in school, but i've just came out of a turbulent marriage months ago, and i really dont feel like getting married again.
Question is how do i turn this offer down without hurting her feelings.
@guntiino101 @Crow @Geeljire sanbuur @Factz @draco @Sheikh @nine @YourBroMoe @Fang4 @Yaquub @Cumar @Mercury @AussieHustler @Basra @Basic @Blade1 @Gooney112 @AarHawd_7 @Fels @Monisha Hershey @Steamdevolopment @esmailxxx

Just turn her down, she'll be fine since this is all a dream anyway.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Waryaa Subeer

Do you think I’m your aunt or Mama Malyuun? Ask @YourBroMoe (he) is the relationship expert and the matchmaker of this forum.

He should stick to the noble male tradition of running away from our problems. That's my solution.

 

[YourBroMoe]

If you want my serious solution, ask your cousin what kind of girl this is and what she wants out of the marriage. 9 times out of 10, the 2 of you won't be in sync. Once he knows that, he can act as a mediator to tell her it won't be the ideal marriage you're looking for.

To ensure her feelings don't get hurt, you can make it so that she's turned off by you. Most of the time, women have an ideal about a man they're into. If you know what that is through your cousin, you can hang out with her, break the ideal, and she'll believe she's the one who's breaking up with you. That way, her ego, and more importantly, her feelings, won't get hurt.

I've done this before, and it works like a charm.

 

[AussieHustler]

He should stick to the noble male tradition of running away from our problems. That's my solution.

YourBro

I stopped reading his post when he mentioned that he was a new divorcee. What does he want? To turn his female cousins into garoobs?

 

[YourBroMoe]

YourBro

I stopped reading his post when he mentioned that he was a new divorcee. What does he want? To turn his female cousins into garoobs?

I mean he did propose his own solution by saying that. What woman wants to go for a divorcee in college? I highly doubt that turns her on.

 

[Subeer]

You can just lie to her that are already engaged, hopefully that won’t hurt her feelings.

Well eventually some day truth will come out

 

[Mr.Haggis]

Cmon don’t be a pussy. Pop that siil!

 

[YourBroMoe]

Cmon don’t be a pussy. Pop that siil!

 

[Sheikh]

 

[Basra]

My cousin just delivered me the news that one of her friends wanted to marry me, i've seen her before, and she looks good wallahi she also told me that she said that mehr wouldn't be problem since im still in school, but i've just came out of a turbulent marriage months ago, and i really dont feel like getting married again.
Question is how do i turn this offer down without hurting her feelings.
@guntiino101 @Crow @Geeljire sanbuur @Factz @draco @Sheikh @nine @YourBroMoe @Fang4 @Yaquub @Cumar @Mercury @AussieHustler @Basra @Basic @Blade1 @Gooney112 @AarHawd_7 @Fels @Monisha Hershey @Steamdevolopment @esmailxxx

Ask her to sign a contract where if she behaves crazy like your EX...u r going to SUE and divorce her a$$! Hopefully she is the right one for u. Good luck.


PS if u have a daughter with her, name her Basra in my honor