polygamy is basically impossible unless you're in somalia, and even there its a big burden, the men there are not exemplary in any wayIf I was a man, I'd marry 1 wife and if for some reason the marriage wasn't good for me I'd:
Option 1. Ask for a divorce + shared custody
Option 2. Tell my wife I'm planning to remarry in future once the children are out of the house, thus giving her an option to either leave or to prepare to be a 2nd wife in future.
So, her time isn't wasted and she can decide to stay or remarry herself if she wants.
Once the first batch of children are out of the house and working, I'd have more money and can afford to remarry. Also, I'd feel happy as I didn't betray and mislead my first wife.
It's not hard to be a good, decent man. SMH
Polygamy is a big responsibility.