Fancy way for saying he's a drug seller sxb.
Hes smart but dumb
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Why do you think he doesn’t deserve a second chance? I too use to sell weed (only to ajnabis tho, never to Muslims). Look at me now. I am doing pretty well alhamdulilah. Imagine if he found out about your degenerate posts? Your fanfictions filled with sexual innuendo’s? He’d run for the hills. We all have things we’re not proud of, so easy with the judgments.
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What was the qashin for @Yaraye
At the end of the day its up to her to decide on if she wants to take the advice or not and if someone is willing to overlook these sort of red flags/deal breakers after being warned then they probably deserve being with these kinds of people on both side whether it's men or women. Plus who knows maybe she has some stuff in her closet which is why she might be less judgemental about this making them perhaps a good match
My opinion is still that she should leave this guy but that's her decision to make
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Sister your not a repairman. Ditch this man bcuz the risk isn't worth the reward. Butterflies come and go but the problem of his addiction and criminal record will be a detriment to your martial relationship and family life. If your parents wouldn't approve of this man but you
have butterflies for him it still wouldn't matter.
You got one chance
Leave and never look back.
That's my take on it at least, seems the place is divided 50/50.
have butterflies for him it still wouldn't matter.
You got one chance
Leave and never look back.
That's my take on it at least, seems the place is divided 50/50.
To all of you that think she should give the guy a chance would y'all let your child marry a former drug dealer with a record?
Ciyaarta mesha ka daaya
Ciyaarta mesha ka daaya
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"You know what they might just be right for each other who knows" it was this insinuation.What was the qashin for @Yaraye
At the end of the day its up to her to decide on if she wants to take the advice or not and if someone is willing to overlook these sort of red flags/deal breakers after being warned then they probably deserve being with these kinds of people on both side whether it's men or women. Plus who knows maybe she has some stuff in her closet which is why she might be less judgemental about this making them perhaps a good match
My opinion is still that she should leave this guy but that's her decision to make
Tuugs mistakenly assume no one will steal from them. Not realizing there is no honour among thieves. They either firmly believe they are better (which is unlikely to be true) or delude themselves into thinking the stolen party will stay even though they will monkey bar to the next.
I think it depends on how deep the relationship is imo.
The men ain’t shit movement is just women trying to play the western imposed white girl power tricks on Non white men. when it doesn’t go their way they cry men ain’t shit. On a note you’re right this is a perfect match may Allah bless their union if they’re the right fit.
On the bright side don’t you think a nice brother got saved here if she’s going for the guy with records ? Women always court the bad boys and decent fellas at the same time.
If you'd meet him you wouldn't dare think he's a bad boy he seemed really innocent till he started spilling things out
I rejected two women about 5-6 years ago because one had a brother in jail and the other would be rude to people. Otherwise, they were perfect matches for me. Two big deal breakers though. Think with your brain, not your heart. Otherwise, you'll become a single mom.
Good for you, AJ. No one wants to be a cold case. A potential jailbird brother-in-law means a possible target on your head by association. You are much smarter than @Grigori Rasputin. You would think an avid watcher of true crime would get it but no. Common sense escapes him.I rejected two women about 5 years ago because one had a brother in jail and the other would be rude to people. Otherwise, they were perfect matches for me. Two big deal breakers though. Think with your brain, not your heart. Otherwise, you'll become a single mom.
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That was in the context of if she's OK with going forward with this then yes they very well might just be right for each other. Since this would be an obvious red flag she has chosen to ignore
Another way of saying I was a rapist at 18.
Much rather die alone and wither away in an apartment 1 billion fold than be anywhere near criminals and mean people. Imagine a criminal relaxing in your home being the uncle to your kids or your spouse being rude to staff and thinking you're hot shit. Low class behaviour. I will no longer care if you can make me laugh countless times a day or if we share the same hobbies and interests
Much rather die alone and wither away in an apartment 1 billion fold than be anywhere near criminals and mean people. Imagine a criminal relaxing in your home being the uncle to your kids or your spouse being rude to staff and thinking you're hot shit. Low class behaviour. I will no longer care if you can make me laugh countless times a day or if we share the same hobbies and interests
I don't wish to be mean or insensitive, but it's your sanity and well-being over everything. I understand people can't control who they are related to, nor should they be blamed. But it's possible to be sympathetic from afar and romantically uninvolved. Tis' easier. Consider your safety (and that of your family), reduce potential negative influences and keep your peace of mind. The best choice is the most drama-free one. The last thing you need is a hostile environment or an acrimonious relationship.
You should go for it and marry him. Even if it goes left it was worth a try right? Or you can deny yourself and settle down with someone you don’t actually like for nonsense weird reasons
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That doesn't even make any sense and there is plenty of people out there who settle for a drug dealer/convict out of all people. she's probably viewing this all with Rose tinted glasses.
Plus would you accept the same reasoning you gave for yourself if you found out a girl you really liked and are talking to was or used to be a prostitute?
He was Habar gidir too
Be the Raaray Gidir for him, awoowe Madarkicis will appreciate you. Save our brother!!!!
She knows what she’s doing. She should follow her heart and marry him.
Nobody settles for a drug dealer there’s no such thing. Think about it most men are civilians, why would a girl ignore them in favour of a criminal type? Because he has certain good traits that are hard to find in a guy. It’s dating up in all cases
Your question doesn’t make any sense. What I would do doesn’t matter, what does is that OP seems willing to look past his flaws. Everybody’s different
