Yarad – This is a present given to the immediate family of the girl and is given on the day of engagement as a form of gratitude. Usually a shawl or money wrapped in an expensive shemagh or keffiyah is given.
Sooryo – this is a present given to the male members of the girl’s family. Usually it is her brothers/cousins etc who take this and is always in the form of money.
Meher – this is the engagement. The amount of camels or money the man must make a pledge to bestow his wife as Dowry is usually known as her Meher. The Meher does not need to be paid straight away, but is a promise which the man is bound to fulfil. In earlier times, when camels were in plenteous supply, a woman would be given about 100 camels just for her hand in marriage. Today, due to the lessening amount of camels in the nomadic countryside, you would be hard pressed to find a man who can afford to pay 10. The importance of Meher cannot be underestimated – without it the wedding cannot take place, so the lady needs to be clear as to what she wants for her Meher and the man is obliged to pay it.
Sounds like daylight Robbery
Meher is for the girl
Yarad for the family
And sooryo for the people
Meher is for the girl
Yarad for the family
And sooryo for the people
i learnt it that hard way. loool
thankfully not. the in laws are religious so they were quite happy for me to pay for the mehr for the girl and the wedding expenses onlyYou paid all three?
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I'm an old fashioned kinda girl
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People still pay all three? I know that a fixed sum can be given to the family and they customarily return half to spend on the people. Which I'm guessing is yarad and sooryo? I thought it was uncommon though
You better be ready for 10 sons then.I can get you the horse (my abti owns a couple) and the gun.
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Meher is for the girl
Yarad for the family
And sooryo for the people
Some chick i used to chat with told me she wants "Land" as her Maher
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I know people who still do all three. In some circles it's considered 'ceeb' not to do so.