This guy in my city added me on Instagram . I have seen him around before at functions, he's been chatting me up for a month now. He found out who my parents are and all, it's getting to that stage he's getting too comfortable asking me to meet him up and have lunch . I found out he lives 10 minutes away too , how can I nicely say I'm not interested. Allah I don't know what to do, I am too nice I can't say no . I'm scared he might catch feelings for me and I end up marrying him because I don't want to hurt his feelings. what's wrong with me ?? I feel stupid sometimes I want to dig my xabal. Hope you guys attend my janzaah