Have you gotten more anti social with age?

NotMyL

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I’ve noticed I’m becoming less and less social. I used to look forward to hanging out with friends and now it feels more like a dreaded chore. The last thing I want to do on my days off is to go out with people. I’ve already lost touch with so many people because I just can’t keep up with the friendships.
 

Basra

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I’ve noticed I’m becoming less and less social. I used to look forward to hanging out with friends and now it feels more like a dreaded chore. The last thing I want to do on my days off is to go out with people. I’ve already lost touch with so many people because I just can’t keep with the friendships.

You are getting wiser as u age. With age comes Wisdom. I had that Wisdom when i was in my 20s, thoughts friends just cause problems in your life. U dont need them. U need Allaah swt. Thats it :)
 

NotMyL

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You are getting wiser as u age. With age comes Wisdom. I had that Wisdom when i was in my 20s, thoughts friends just cause problems in your life. U dont need them. U need Allaah swt. Thats it :)
I agree, I had those kinds of friends back in high school but I have made some good friends in college, I never had problem with drama, they aren’t those type of people. I just noticed I like to be home on my days off and go to quite dinner/movie with hubby maybe with age I just become boring lol
 

Ugaaso

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Ever since I've gone dark and inactive of all my social media accounts; I feel less social and unaware of what's happening with my friends.
 

NotMyL

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Ever since I've gone dark and inactive of all my social media accounts; I feel less social and unaware of what's happening with my friends.
How long have you been without your sm? I currently only use Instagram. I’m thinking of taking a break from it, at least until after Ramadan.
 
It's part of maturity and growing up, most people never get out of this phase and as a result never develop anything in life.

My experience is the opposite, I started off as an extreme extrovert until I hit 19 then turned antisocial until 29, but now finally found balance by incorporating very few like-minded friends I found.

It seems to me you have outgrown your friends and no longer have time for all that petty meaningless time-wasting fruitless endeavours, it comes with age.
 
I’m quite the opposite. I see my friends as my sisters and I can’t imagine life without them. These are people I was friends with since school. I’ve just returned from a trip to Egypt with them. I have just come to realisation that I need people around me to function.
 
Low maintenance friendships are the best. People you dont need to see or speak with because the mutual love and respect is timeless
 

Jiron

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During the beginning stage of my journey to positivity, It was very difficult because my friends did not understand the transition and I had to make the hard decision of walking this path alone and making new friends based on common interest. Never be ashamed to grow as a person and expand ur wings towards a new horizon:)
 
Apparently 33% of your friends hate you. 33% are indifferent to you and 33% are genuine. I heard that somewhere. It's probably true.
 

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