Desert Flower
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Loving someone means accepting them for who they are. I think that it is possible to learn to love someone, if the right ingredients are there. But, I must first genuinely 'like' the guy and be comfortable and safe around him. Then, looking at his aqlaaq, his deen and his character is important. I find that so many Muslim guys lack compassion, mercy and overall empathy. There are alot of broken, wounded souls walking around.