techsamatar
I put Books to the Test of Life
what you on about mate? you saying Mehr is not part of Islam??
Has anyone ever come across Somali parents that don’t let their daughters get married?
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Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
Nah mate just that bold bit of your quote “it also serves as a financial security blanket for her in case of divorce or the husband's death”
techsamatar
I put Books to the Test of Life
oh that. That part is just reasons why it makes sense and it is correct if anything happens she has something to rely on and sustain her self with especially back in those days where they depended on Men.
Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
It doesn’t make sense because a unmarried woman will always have a man who will take care of her whether it be her father,son,brother , uncle or the state
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VIP
somali women arent as materialistic as other women. and somali marriage usually isnt as expensive as other muslim communities. but we dont have a matchmaking culture which causes too much singleness when we move to western individualistic societies.
This stuff also happens to some somali guys. Theres a young somali guy who my family knows by qabil who lives in europe he wanted to marry this somali girl and introduced them to the family. His dad rejected the girl because shes madiban. Then the son later gets a white girl.lool now his father regrets his decision and always tells other somali fam not to reject based on qabil.
