Odious Delirium
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That doesn't make sense tho no guy is both of those things.If you contribute they have an issue and if you don’t contribute they view you as a leach. There’s no winning in a scenario when someone views you as a villain from the jump.
You first need to decided on what you want to do and then pick based off the type of guy that comes with that choice. No point prepositioning what you want or except to the wrong type of guy.
You will ofcourse be vilified from the jump if your an aspiring career lady and you try to get a trad guy on board with your lifestyle and visversa as a trad stay at home wife with a progressive guy.