Guide to how to not let ur xalimo know ur cheating.

[Ferrari]

No I would not do that. First of all, you have to have a conversation and understand each other because it could all just be a misunderstanding. Second of all, you have to think about how much your marriage actually means to you and that it's done before Allah swt so you have to take whatever decision you are going to make very seriously. Thirdly, it would satisfy me more to move on and walk away. Too much effort to create a recipe.

good. I wonder how many somali girls were taught something similar. I've heard of guys getting burned in their sariir and stuff but didn't know ayeeyos were behind it.

True tho, it'd be much more satisfying to walk away, tho a lot of people are overtaken by emotions and they let it cloud their judgments. Allah baan ka magan galay. imagine looking at someone and seeing nothing but roses iyo caraf, thinking their dhuuso don't smell, and then you find out they cheated.

 

[ItsHanna]

If a woman cheats on a man trust me he will never find out.

 

[Gambar]

good. I wonder how many somali girls were taught something similar. I've heard of guys getting burned in their sariir and stuff but didn't know ayeeyos were behind it.

True tho, it'd be much more satisfying to walk away, tho a lot of people are overtaken by emotions and they let it cloud their judgments.

My hoyoo stepped in and told me not to listen to her. Walle on my wedding night my ayeyo gave me the same advice again about the poison.

I'd be like 'nigga bye' lol. Wouldn't be able to trust a man again after he cheats.

I've been married for nearly four years now, so everything takes patience it's easier said than done to walk away especially if you share children. I would just say keen mehrkaygi and try to be as amicable as possible.

 

[Kay]

I've been married for nearly four years now, so everything takes patience it's easier said than done to walk away especially if you share children. I would just say keen mehrkaygi and try to be as amicable as possible.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, you're right. I guess it is different when you have kids. Being amicable is good but don't settle for a cheater. A loyal, faithful woman deserves to be treated with respect.

 

[Gambar]

I've been married for nearly four years now, so everything takes patience it's easier said than done to walk away especially if you share children. I would just say keen mehrkaygi and try to be as amicable as possible.

Yeah, you're right. I guess it is different when you have kids. Being amicable is good but don't settle for a cheater. A loyal, faithful woman deserves to be treated with respect.[/QUOTE]
I will let my clan do the dirty work and beat him up if I feel like it.

 

[Kay]

Yeah, you're right. I guess it is different when you have kids. Being amicable is good but don't settle for a cheater. A loyal, faithful woman deserves to be treated with respect.

I will let my clan do the dirty work and beat him up if I feel like it.[/QUOTE]

Why waste the time and energy? I would honestly just settle things in a classy way and find me a man who deserves my loyalty.

 

[Gambar]

I will let my clan do the dirty work and beat him up if I feel like it.

Why waste the time and energy? I would honestly just settle things in a classy way and find me a man who deserves my loyalty.[/QUOTE]

It depends how bad it is. Sometimes people have to be taught a lesson.

 

[Kay]

Why waste the time and energy? I would honestly just settle things in a classy way and find me a man who deserves my loyalty.

It depends how bad it is. Sometimes people have to be taught a lesson.[/QUOTE]

Tbh, I honestly don't believe a cheating man will change and I'd rather walk away than stay and get disappointed.

 

[Ferrari]

My hoyoo stepped in and told me not to listen to her. Walle on my wedding night my ayeyo gave me the same advice again about the poison.



I've been married for nearly four years now, so everything takes patience it's easier said than done to walk away especially if you share children. I would just say keen mehrkaygi and try to be as amicable as possible.

how many female cousins/sister do you think got that same advice? this ayeyo of yours, is she related to caraweelo by any chance? if she's near 100, she might have known her. I mean those ideas aren't random.

 

[Ruqiya]

that's savage wallahi. would you take her advise? if someone cheats, I'd think leaving them would be enough. cooking them alive with boiling oil/water is too extreme.

Wallahi this happens. Last week somali woman dumped boiling water all over her husband. She had a suspicion that he was cheating.

 

[Ferrari]

Wallahi this happens. Last week somali woman dumped boiling water all over her husband. She had a suspicion that he was cheating.

a suspicion? that's it? where did this happen? what if she finds out that she was wrong?

 

[Gambar]

how many female cousins/sister do you think got that same advice? this ayeyo of yours, is she related to caraweelo by any chance? if she's near 100, she might have known her. I mean those ideas aren't random.

My ayeyo on my mothers side never said that advice. My other ayeyo (paternal) told my two other sisters but I told them not to listen and be happy. Bal kaley arag wey istareexayaan mantaa.

 

[Ruqiya]

a suspicion? that's it? where did this happen? what if she finds out that she was wrong?

It happened in mareykan I don't want to reveal the state sorry. She didn't have any prove that he cheated.

 

[Ruqiya]

My ayeyo on my mothers side never said that advice. My other ayeyo (paternal) told my two other sisters but I told them not to listen and be happy. Bal kaley arag wey istareexayaan mantaa.

Subxanallah why do elders give horrible advice when girls are about to get married. They're supposed to give us good advice.

 

[Mercury]

Subxanallah why do elders give horrible advice when girls are about to get married. They're supposed to give us good advice.

Misery loves company

 

[Gambar]

how many female cousins/sister do you think got that same advice? this ayeyo of yours, is she related to caraweelo by any chance? if she's near 100, she might have known her. I mean those ideas aren't random.

My ayeyo is only 60, so I don't know where she even got this mentality. She is still married to my awowe.

Subxanallah why do elders give horrible advice when girls are about to get married. They're supposed to give us good advice.

Somali people in general give strange advice.

 

[Mercury]

My ayeyo is only 60, so I don't know where she even got this mentality. She is still married to my awowe.

Somali people in general give strange advice.

Well because of the saying

"talo raac noqo ama talo keen"

They say anything lol

 

[Abdalla]

Make this thread a sticky

 

[Ferrari]

My ayeyo is only 60, so I don't know where she even got this mentality. She is still married to my awowe.

Somali people in general give strange advice.

RIP to your awoowe in his prime days. I bet the poor guy was constantly reminded to "check yourself before you wreck yourself".

 

[Ferrari]

It happened in mareykan I don't want to reveal the state sorry. She didn't have any prove that he cheated.

wallahi that's messed up. violence should never be an option, even if she's proven that he had cheated but the fact that'e she might have mauled an innocent guy makes it worse. if my wife did that to me while I have not cheated, I'd cheat with her sister.