Nambar,
You are correct about Mormons in the 60's. My father was a bishop and I graduated from seminary, the usual preparation for a Mormon missionary. My father was also the guy who organized the construction of the Thor, Atlas and Titan missiles. He was chief of logistics at SBAMA. In serving in the Peace Corps in Somalia I was not serving as a missionary in Germany or fighting the nationalist Vietnamese. I was an adolescent rebel of long standing. I went to Church to bury my parents, and since 1961 that has been my only contact. I did not and do not espouse or follow the faith, for exactly the reasons that article states.
I found the slender Somali women attractive, but shukansi was beyond my linguistic skills. One young lady by the name of Sultana, a friend of my landlord's second wife, rejected me outright. s were available when I got to the cities, but I had no luck at home.
In my group, Virginia Shine married Mahamud Jamaac, who became the SL ambassador to Kenya. They are still together, but I don't know of any other PC/Somali marriages. Mahamud spoke English, which I think is what made the difference.
With respect to processing my Somali experiences, I have only been working at it since 2005. Give me time.
I think that I am making progress but that your case may be hopeless.