Gold diggers

[Gooney112]

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/201510/is-marriage-worth-the-trouble-women?amp

This was an interesting read. The media has always made people believe that men don't like marriage and that women are the ones that benefit. But in reality, married men have longer, healthier and wealthier lives.

Think about it. The average man gets a glorified maid, baby sitter and provider.

What does a woman get?



At least in the past a woman got fully provided for.

seen that and thats propaganda for marriage as they are battling men waking up to the rip off marriage is for them. Also most young women cant even cook and are lazy as hell. All my friends, none of them has a wife that can cook well

 

[HalimaJ]

Fam just say U want to be single and go

No, I want to complete half of my deen.

seen that and thats propaganda for marriage as they are battling men waking up to the rip off marriage is for them. Also most young women cant even cook and are lazy as hell. All my friends, none of them has a wife that can cook well

You said yourself. Most are average/ poor. How can a man that sends his wife to work because he needs assistance in providing be ripped off?

Be honest. Who does most of the cooking and cleaning in households?

Who is the primary care giver when it comes to children?

Who carries babies?

Also most women work on top of that.

The only expectation of men is to provide and they are getting help with that now.

Plus 69% of marriages are ended by women. Most men don't want to see their marriages end.

The only downside I would say is child custody.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

No, I want to complete half of my deen.


You said yourself. Most are average/ poor. How can a man that sends his wife to work because he needs assistance in providing be ripped off?

Be honest. Who does most of the cooking and cleaning in households?

Who is the primary care giver when it comes to children?

Who carries babies?

Also most women work on top of that.

The only expectation of men is to provide and they are getting help with that now.

Plus 69% of marriages are ended by women. Most men don't want to see their marriages end.

The only downside I would say is child custody.

Niggas really paying hella mehr money
For females that cant cook
Or even swim
Global warming happening and the sea levels gonna rise. The husband won’t always be available when they kind drowning in water you know.

Niggas paying thousands of dollars to come home and eat some 10 minute macaroni and cheese

 

[World]

Strangely enough for the average man marriage is more beneficial now than it has ever been.

Historically the man regardless as to how poor he is was the sole provider.

Now as a man you get a woman who provides along side you, who is still expected to do most of the housework. Hence why studies show married women now are more likely to be stressed and die earlier than single women.

Do you think a woman used to historically sit at home and do nothing? Are you having a laugh mate? Perhaps the wife of a merchant or a ruler(top 1 %), but not the wife of the average farmer or nomad. They would be working hard every day right alongside the men. Just like today.

 

[World]

Why the f*ck is every woman that signs up here a bitter feminist nearing her menopause age, SJW, hates Somali men(even men in general)?

 

[HalimaJ]

Niggas really paying hella mehr money
For females that cant cook
Or even swim
Global warming happening and the sea levels gonna rise. The husband won’t always be available when they kind drowning in water you know.

Niggas paying thousands of dollars to come home and eat some 10 minute macaroni and cheese

Niggas are coming home to women that are working 9-5 like them.

I

Do you think a woman used to historically sit at home and do nothing? Are you having a laugh mate? Perhaps the wife of a merchant or a ruler(top 1 %), but not the wife of the average farmer or nomad. They would be working hard every day right alongside the men. Just like today.

Women worked in the home, husband worked out of the home. Roles 50/50

Post feminism: women working in the home and working out the home. That was not the case before.

 

[HalimaJ]

Why the f*ck is every woman that signs up here a bitter feminist nearing her menopause age, SJW, hates Somali men(even men in general)?

Not a feminist
Not SJW
I'm a young woman.

Also, whats bitter about stating a trend?

Don't have a problem with Somali men at all tbh.

 

[Sophisticate]

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/201510/is-marriage-worth-the-trouble-women?amp

This was an interesting read. The media has always made people believe that men don't like marriage and that women are the ones that benefit. But in reality, married men have longer, healthier and wealthier lives.

Think about it. The average man gets a glorified maid, baby sitter and provider.

What does a woman get?



At least in the past a woman got fully provided for.

When women were fully provided for but in an unhealthy marriage - there was no escape. It was back to the kitchen or bed post for you, madame.

 

[HalimaJ]

Niggas are coming home to women that are working 9-5 like them.

I


Women worked in the home, husband worked out of the home. Roles 50/50

Post feminism: women working in the home and working out the home. That was not the case before.

Also, even a wife of a merchant is doing something

Do you think raising kids is easy. There's a reason why we are appreciative of our mothers. We cant even give back a fraction of what they did for us, that is how hard being a mother is.

 

[HalimaJ]

When women were fully provided for but in an unhealthy marriage - there was no escape. It was back to the kitchen or bed post for you, madame.

In islam a woman can get a divorce if her husband is abusive.

The husband has to provide even if she is rich.

 

[World]

Women worked in the home, husband worked out of the home. Roles 50/50

Post feminism: women working in the home and working out the home. That was not the case before.

No they didn't.

Somali women back home who are nomads look after the goats and sheep, whilst Somali men look after the cattle, camels and horses. The duty of Somali women was also to set up and dismantle the aqal every time they moved destination which was hard work.

In Europe, historically men and women both worked on farms. Even today, women make up 50 % of agricultural labour in Africa and East Asia.

Women only shortly stopped working after the industrial revolution, and that changed after WW2.

 

[HalimaJ]

No they didn't.

Somali women back home who are nomads look after the goats and sheep, whilst Somali men look after the cattle, camels and horses. The duty of Somali women was also to set up and dismantle the aqal every time they moved destination which was hard work.

In Europe, historically men and women both worked on farms. Even today, women make up 50 % of agricultural labour in Africa and East Asia.

Women only shortly stopped working after the industrial revolution, and that changed after WW2.

Ah okay interesting. You're right. I was mostly thinking about Georgian and the Victorian period. Also, my people are city folk back home. My great grandmother, grandmother ect were housewives.

On top of all of that was the woman expected to do all the household chores and child rearing as well? Funny you didn't mention that.

So they had to help their husbands outside with physical labour?

Therefore women worked both out and in the house.

Men only worked outside of the home then?

I know about Somali nomad women being hard workers there was a part a Footpath to east Africa in which Burton describes Somali women doing more work then their men.

 

[Gooney112]

No, I want to complete half of my deen.


You said yourself. Most are average/ poor. How can a man that sends his wife to work because he needs assistance in providing be ripped off?

Be honest. Who does most of the cooking and cleaning in households?

Who is the primary care giver when it comes to children?

Who carries babies?

Also most women work on top of that.

The only expectation of men is to provide and they are getting help with that now.

Plus 69% of marriages are ended by women. Most men don't want to see their marriages end.

The only downside I would say is child custody.

A man cant send his grown wife to work. If she is able bodied, she should work. Men can cook and clean better than women. And most marriages are ended by women because its not in the interest of a man to divorce due to finance. A man will just seek another woman whilecbeing married

 

[HalimaJ]

A man cant send his grown wife to work. If she is able bodied, she should work. Men can cook and clean better than women. And most marriages are ended by women because its not in the interest of a man to divorce due to finance. A man will just seek another woman whilecbeing married

I've seen men that can definitely cook better than women.

But be honest here, in most households especially Somali ones its the mum that does most of that.

Its the mum that does most of the child rearing.

*side note: Women have every right to work, but a husband has no right to tell his wife she should work. Its his role to provide.

 

[Cornelius]

Niggas really paying hella mehr money
For females that cant cook
Or even swim
Global warming happening and the sea levels gonna rise. The husband won’t always be available when they kind drowning in water you know.

Niggas paying thousands of dollars to come home and eat some 10 minute macaroni and cheese

Kkk who are you kidding,gold diggers don't go for guy's who can't even afford 20k mehr, they won't even look your way if your not driving the latest mercedes or bmw that costs 40k plus, so what is the complain about

 

[Abdalla]

If she steals your money, you are allowed to kill her.

Here we go again

 

[HalimaJ]

Do you think a woman used to historically sit at home and do nothing? Are you having a laugh mate? Perhaps the wife of a merchant or a ruler(top 1 %), but not the wife of the average farmer or nomad. They would be working hard every day right alongside the men. Just like today.

Are YOU actually being for real?

Do you think cooking, cleaning and raising children is doing nothing??

Its crazy how grown men will belittle the work their mother has done for them. We cant even give back a fraction of what they did for us, that is how hard being a mother is.

I'm a working woman and even I know I have nothing on a housewife in terms of hard work.

 

[Sophisticate]

In islam a woman can get a divorce if her husband is abusive.

The husband has to provide even if she is rich.

I think some women are more motivated by living in comfort than abuse particularly those that have no other way to subsist or live with the same lifestyle if they were to leave.

 

[Always Lit]

Are YOU actually being for real?

Do you think cooking, cleaning and raising children is doing nothing??

Its crazy how grown men will belittle the work their mother has done for them. We cant even give back a fraction of what they did for us, that is how hard being a mother is.

I'm a working woman and even I know I have nothing on a housewife in terms of hard work.

yo Halima
whats bothering you? Youve been going on a posting spree lately.

 

[HalimaJ]

yo Halima
whats bothering you? Youve been going on a posting spree lately.

I'm going on a posting spree because knowing myself my time on this board will be very brief and sweet. I get bored easily.

So i'll probably post mostly for a few days and poof i'll disappear and forget all about this forum. Plus i've never joined a forum before.

Too many female hating, alpha-wannabe, self hating, deranged incel Eliot Rodger type Abdis here. Therefore, whilst i'm here I might as well ruffle a few feathers.

Can you believe before SSpot, i didn't even know Somali guys of that nature even existed?