Girlfriend wants to marry me

[Idyllic]

“An adulterer is not a believer at the time of committing adultery.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

The Prophet (pbuh) said,

“When someone fell in adultery, faith leaves his heart and overshadows him but if he extricates himself; his faith will, be restored again.” (Abu-Dawud)

It was related that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said,

“Whoever fornicates or drinks wine, Allah takes off his faith from him as a man takes a shirt off over his head.” (Hakim)

“There are three people to whom Allah, the Most High will not talk, nor will He absolve them of sins nor look at them: an aged person guilty of adultery, a king who lies and a poor beggar who is proud.” (Muslim)

And don’t forget the famous ayah that states, people who commit zina are for each other. Your tuulo girl is most likely having fun with her neighbors as we speak.

 

[Invader]

She’s Albanian / kosovan.

Yeah I guess I could try that. I think I’ll just say to her sometime in the future that my parents won’t accept a non Somali and break the relationship up.

Wait til she gets her older brothers on you.

No-one messes with Albanian gangs sxb.

 

[Guardafui]

You guys should control yourself and only be with a woman once you’re ready to be in a halal marriage and think of your future daughters. What goes around comes around. Don’t lie to these young girls because women are emotional beings it’s not nice to take advantage of them.

 

[Invader]

yaaa??? View attachment 139287
Half muslim, half christian family, casual cheeky alcohol consumption, khaniis sibling, you sleeping ova? way tolla‘ayayyyy Waryahee wax maan kuu sheegaa, you attract what you are. It‘s as simple as that. So if you wanna attract a good woman you gotta be a good man saaxib, sidan sii maaha tawbad keen, and leave this haram relationship for good, Allah is al ghafuur al raxiim.

Scratch that.

Be honest but in the most harsh way.

Say your culture doesn't accept this behaviour and your parents would be shocked if they found out what her family does. Say Somalis are very Islamic and are conservative.

 

[Reformed J]

This gives me ‘Get Out’ teas.

First movie I watched during a netflix and chill session with my current gf was Get Out...got scared at first

She insisted on it...can't lie it got spooked a bit

 

[Desert Flower]

First movie I watched during a netflix and chill session with my current gf was Get Out...got scared at first

She insisted on it...can't lie it got spooked a bit

Lmao. Read between the lines sxb...she was tryna tell you something!

 

[Mercury]

Why are you in a relationship if you have no intention of marrying her?

Your both muslims either marry her or leave her alone

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

 

[Sleepy Hollow]

Alabanian/Kosovian mix that isn't religious and you dated for a year but haven't fucked? Easy fanfiction or she's fucking but it def ain't with you

 

[Abdi sensei]

She’s not a Somali but she’s Muslim and recently she’s been talking about marriage often, and about how she can’t see herself marrying anyone but me etc and how she wants me to be her husband, talking about children names. I play along but not gonna lie, I don’t want to marry her. She’s a nice girl but I don’t have any intention of marrying her. I don’t want to break up with her tho, we’ve been together for 1 year and it’s good.

Smh why can’t girls just enjoy a relationship without expecting something in the end. When it’s time for marriage I’m gonna go marry a miskeen girl from my tuulo.

did you smash?

That answers your question on whether to marry her

 

[المهندس]

People on here love exposing their sins.

At least keep it to yourself instead of showing off as if its some sort of achievement ??

Too many degenerate retards on here how you boasting about committing a major sin ?


Some quotes about zina

Al-Mundhiri said:

There is no doubt that zina is worse and more serious before Allah than drinking alcohol.

Al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb, 3/190.

Al-Safaareeni said:

Zina is the most serious of major sins after shirk and murder. End quote.

Ghidha’ al-Albaab, 2/305


No ones perfect everyone sins but the best of people are those who are ashamed of their sins and hide it from everyone.

 

[Yukon_Niner]

That's caadi with white ppl. A family used to bring me cottaging sometimes

I just can't believe you went. I've been invited a few times but it's just didn't look appealing.

The whole idea of being stuck with an cadaan family gives me the heebie-jeebies

 

[Nomoregames2019]

If this story is true and not some made up relationship story like the rest of stories here on Somalispot then you should marry her. Allah will punish you severely on judgement day for playing with this Muslim woman's heart. Marry her akhi. She sounds like a keeper.

 

[HiraanBorn]

Ditch her bro, half Dhulbahante quarter Kosovo, quarter Albanian. Your future kids will suffer from a big identity crisis.

Now, this is facts, that child will be the epitome of what balkanization represents. Different ethnic groups contained in a small entity waiting to tear itself apart, the poor little f**k.

 

[BobSmoke]

She’s not a Somali but she’s Muslim and recently she’s been talking about marriage often, and about how she can’t see herself marrying anyone but me etc and how she wants me to be her husband, talking about children names. I play along but not gonna lie, I don’t want to marry her. She’s a nice girl but I don’t have any intention of marrying her. I don’t want to break up with her tho, we’ve been together for 1 year and it’s good.

Smh why can’t girls just enjoy a relationship without expecting something in the end. When it’s time for marriage I’m gonna go marry a miskeen girl from my tuulo.

Since you're on that saqajaan wave I'm gonna keep it a buck with you. Prepare a rebound before leaving. Get some viagra, and make the last 3-4 smashes memorable. Send her to her friends on a good note and just be extra friendly with her friends. Find out the least loyal chick in her crew and rinse and repeat the formula. After that you can leave your chick without having a drought until you find your next gf.

But I don't recommend this tip to everybody, this is for the true scumbags with above average size.

 

[Reformed J]

I just can't believe you went. I've been invited a few times but it's just didn't look appealing.

The whole idea of being stuck with an cadaan family gives me the heebie-jeebies

Their daughter was a cutie and gave bomb head tho

 

[World]

I broke up with her today. The reason we broke up was unrelated though and something entirely different. I feel guilty though because now she is telling me how she’ll always love me and she was crying, and she thinks it’s her fault. I hope she finds someone who loves her and marries her inshallah.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

I broke up with her today. The reason we broke up was unrelated though and something entirely different. I feel guilty though because now she is telling me how she’ll always love me and she was crying, and she thinks it’s her fault. I hope she finds someone who loves her and marries her inshallah.

So you let her believe it was her fault instead of just coming out and saying I stopped having feelings awhile back.

If she’s a smart girl
She’ll realize the truth

 

[World]

So you let her believe it was her fault instead of just coming out and saying I stopped having feelings awhile back.

If she’s a smart girl
She’ll realize the truth

I did have feelings for her but I just didn’t see her as someone I wanted to settle down with.