I'm an upstanding gentleman abaayo
. Always have consent, I'd never want to make anyone uncomfortable. I'm also very upfront about my past, nothing to hide...
Gang of Halimos attack Somalia’s Kevin Samuels Macalin Xaliye in Islii
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. Always have consent, I'd never want to make anyone uncomfortable. I'm also very upfront about my past, nothing to hide...
You know the difference between humans and animals?Well that's how the world works, for what reason would I want to be with a woman. We have nothing in common for the most part, we're not friends either... Interview every heterosexual guy and he will say the same thing.
Animals cant control themselves when they have sexual urges
Besides there's more important stuff than sex like seeing if you're compatible share similiar views/values and if you can have a good time with them where you can talk for hours on the phone or in person
I feel like I've been a bit rude tbf, I think everyone has different needs be it emotionally, sexually and whatnot. Go after things that make you complete as an individual. There is nothing which forces to behave in a certain way etc. No point being too overly critical of another person's life.
No you just need to be sterilized. Come to my clinic.Well yes, I was alluding to sex, it's very simple, we're very sexually motivated as a gender
I'd rather die than be sterilised
, you type terrifying things abaayo
Somali men wake up! You gotta work on yourself instead being a big ole danyeer
Traditionally, a man is expected to provide for women. Religious texts to social norms attest to this. The whole provision is something that was invented and upheld by men, but since many of you lot drink beverages laced with soy, you want to cry about spending on women. Now ask yourself, who is 'womanly' minded? Funnily enough its never the successful men who are happy to spend on women, its the poorer ones or the ones with no woman who pocket watch other men. That is incredibly effeminate behavior. It feels as though you're in competition with other women. Its ceeb behavior and many should check their T levels and estrogen.It's called empathy, xaliye admitted that he got finessed for 6 years, guys can be overly foolish when young
Why are you so womanly minded, it's very bizarre, it's like you have no masculinity in you
He put himself in that position. He's Somali and Muslim. Why didn't he do the right thing and use that money to ask for her hand in marriage, pay for he mehr, marry and set up a house for her? If she refused marriage then it would be clear as day that she has shaydan intentions and clearly using him ect. Marriage is usually in the hands of the man as he is the one that is meant to ask ect, so ask yourself how could he have possibly been in that situation?A girl he was courting apparently, not married to for clarification, it was albeit foolish of him as he was the one who willingly paid her stuff in gifts. But is what it is.
TekNiKo
Loyal To The One True Caliph (Hafidahullah)
Sister theres nothing wrong with this but how can a man tell the difference between a woman who truly loves him or a gold digger trying to string him along only to leave them high and dry. Nothing is worst than buying an iPhone Pro MAx 13 and then getting ghosted, men have feelings too. Its these predatory women that Mr. Xaliye is advising against
Somali men wake up! You gotta work on yourself instead being a big ole danyeer
This guy isn't even in Somalia?
Please reread what I've written, I did not insinuate that a man should not provide for a woman entirely just that he'd ought to be more selective. I'm not a muslim either so I do this out of my own ethics not because it is decreed by sunna or quran, mahadsanid
I don't even court somali women, I should be out of this convo
Don't buy expensive gifts when courting someoney problem solved
In this day and age, all you men do is complain. But look at this reality:
1. If a woman has a job and independent and buys her own stuff, you get angry and feel emasculated.
2. If she wants a man to buy her things she's a gold digger
3. To make things worse, when men become rich, they seem to forget they have actual personalities and lead with their money and want to show the world how rich they are so that they can get a beautiful 21 yr old who wouldn't have even spat in their direction before all the money, whilst simultaneously crying about 'gold diggers'.
4. Oh and what makes it even more confusing is that half of men that become rich leave their former partners who reminds them of their poorer days as they've now leveled up and want a higher caliber of women, oh but they laughably complain about 'gold diggers.
Due to this, I cannot take men seriously when they talk about gold diggers. I think as men, you should have honest discussions with each other, instead of screaming GOLDDIGGER!
TekNiKo
Loyal To The One True Caliph (Hafidahullah)
At what stage is it okay for a man to buy expensive gift during courting stage?
Nah I never got finnessed I just gave a proper example that Xaliye gave.This is too specific.
You definitely got finessed!
Another man will
If someone else is gonna buy expensive gifts for her than why would you care she ain't your wifeAt what stage is it okay for a man to buy expensive gift during courting stage?
Nah I never got finnessed I just gave a proper example that Xaliye gave.
Another man will
Leila
Wanaag iyo Dhiig kar
At what stage is it okay for a man to buy expensive gift during courting stage?
Nah I never got finnessed I just gave a proper example that Xaliye gave.
Another man will
You don’t buy expensive gifts such as mobile phones. You can pay for dates and occasionally gifts but they should be reasonably priced such as perfume, small jewelry set etc . If a girl asks for expensive things then it’s obvious she’s very materialistic .
If she’s your wife then you can buy expensive things for her.
