Folks are you getting married soon?

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Yes. I was pretty busy though i had instability in the midst. . One thing i was very particular about was i would never marry until i was sure i would look after the missus. My fiancee is a doctor and yet i want her to chill at home and let me do all the working. Some times i think man she could be bringing heavy cash into the house but...naaah


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All those years in medical school and she's just gonna chill at home...

Talk about waste of time :tacky:

Funnily enough a good portion of women medical graduates never stay in the field. I think it's attracts people who are more interested in the status of the job rather than the actual work.
 
The funny thing was, i was about to end up with a pakistani gal few years back. When i talked about it to hoyo, hoyo went super saiyan and went berserk. I was like why so upset and she was like....do you expect me to learn urdu now? How can i communicate with her?

Looking back i think she was right after all. Ofcourse i ended up with my diamond of a fiance right now. Goes to show there is no better thing than blessing from hoyo. Get that barakah yall

Pakistani's, Indians, and Arabs don't play around when it comes to marriage :browtf:

ESPECIALLY if their daughter is going to marry a "karla Somali" :browtf:
 
Funnily enough a good portion of women medical graduates never stay in the field. I think it's attracts people who are more interested in the status of the job rather than the actual work.

Really? Damn I can't wrap my head around that... I would've thought after all the blood, sweat and tears they'd want nothing more than to work in the field.

Do you know if they move onto other fields or smth?
 
All those years in medical school and she's just gonna chill at home...

Talk about waste of time :tacky:


I would'nt call someone who has loads of money in her bank account......propably more than your entire qabil a waste of time. To top it off. No debt. Nah sahib, she is happy to chill at home. And unlike many men who would try and use her and tell her to work, i am content to do all the working outside the home
 
I would'nt call someone who has loads of money in her bank account......propably more than your entire qabil a waste of time. To top it off. No debt. Nah sahib, she is happy to chill at home. And unlike many men who would try and use her and tell her to work, i am content to do all the working outside the home

How generous of you to keep her locked up! to think she might have ended up with someone who, god forbid, expected her to work! gasp
You are truly a selfless man, I bet she won't ever regret not being able to use her skills as a doctor once in the nine years she studied mashallah

If she has more money than my qabil does that mean she has more than urs too braddar? since we're from the same clan and all:hmm:
 
How generous of you to keep her locked up! to think she might have ended up with someone who, god forbid, expected her to work! gasp
You are truly a selfless man, I bet she won't ever regret not being able to use her skills as a doctor once in the nine years she studied mashallah

If she has more money than my qabil does that mean she has more than urs too braddar? since we're from the same clan and all:hmm:

It's called respecting your wife's requests. That's what couples do. Might be an alien concept to some of you but that's how sane people interact. If she wants to work some time in the future when kids are all grown up then she can do so. I would not forbid her that. Don't feel bad for her. I think she got what she wanted. A Successful career and money to show for it.S he is quite happy with how things turned out.
 

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It's called respecting your wife's requests. That's what couples do. Might be an alien concept to some of you but that's how sane people interact. If she wants to work some time in the future when kids are all grown up then she can do so. I would not forbid her that. Don't feel bad for her. I think she got what she wanted. A Successful career and money to show for it.S he is quite happy with how things turned out.

How old is she?
 
It's called respecting your wife's requests. That's what couples do. Might be an alien concept to some of you but that's how sane people interact. If she wants to work some time in the future when kids are all grown up then she can do so. I would not forbid her that. Don't feel bad for her. I think she got what she wanted. A Successful career and money to show for it.S he is quite happy with how things turned out.

I was only joking mate lol calm down, I still think studying for nine yrs to become a doctor only to end up as a housewife is a bit of a waste but hey, it ain't my life

You keep insisting she has money but where did that even come from if she didn't get an opportunity to practice her dakhtar skills :icon lol:

How old is she?
He said late 20s in a previous comment :icon lol:
 

Bahal

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I asked before, she's late 20s and he's early thirties.

That's kind of understandable tbh, they want to start a family and it's hard for women to balance a career, especially as a doctor, with the responsibilities of motherhood.

I just think she should've chose a career that doesn't require you to go to school for a decade before you see any money :zhqjlmx:
 
I was only joking mate lol calm down, I still think studying for nine yrs to become a doctor only to end up as a housewife is a bit of a waste but hey, it ain't my life

You keep insisting she has money but where did that even come from if she didn't get an opportunity to practice her dakhtar skills :icon lol:


He said late 20s in a previous comment :icon lol:


were you now? Your humour is as hard to detect as the colonies i used to incubate at work. I used to think the way you thought too. But as intoxicating it may seem to have a successful career some women just want to settle down after climbing the ladder so to speak. I wouldnt begrudge her that.
As for the money, she has been on 30k plus for few years now. I used to think man what would she think of me who earned way less than that.

Thankfully she didnt care about how much i earned as long as i was putting food on the table. Lucky me!
 
That's kind of understandable tbh, they want to start a family and it's hard for women to balance a career, especially as a doctor, with the responsibilities of motherhood.

I just think she should've chose a career that doesn't require you to go to school for a decade before you see any money :zhqjlmx:


In the UK you get paid working as a junior doctor. Once you graduate, money starts rolling in
 
It's called respecting your wife's requests. That's what couples do. Might be an alien concept to some of you but that's how sane people interact. If she wants to work some time in the future when kids are all grown up then she can do so. I would not forbid her that. Don't feel bad for her. I think she got what she wanted. A Successful career and money to show for it.S he is quite happy with how things turned out.
Did you persuade her or did she herself offer to retire ?
 
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